When my boyfriend checks out another girl does that mean he finds her more attractive? (Page 2)

Question

I am a pretty girl, a lot of guys would love to date me or be with me. I am attractive. However, every time my boyfriend sees a girl he finds pretty, big boobs, nice ass, or pretty face, he checks them out in front of me. Does this mean he is not satisfied with me physically, and does it mean he thinks these other girls are more attractive then I? He tells me its just something he can't help. Does this mean he is likely to cheat if he can't control this behavior? He tells me I am the most beautiful to him but I don't understand when he displays this behavior. Mostly I want to know if he thinks these girls are better, more beautiful then I am.

flammabledude · Answer

I think its more a instinct thing.. I've always done the exact same.

Men have a need to look at attractive women, it doesn't have any correlation to wanting to cheat, you not being as desireable or doing anything wrong.

Its just basic inbuilt instint to do so.

NirvanaChic · Answer

You should probably do it to him and see how he likes it. It's one thing to do it in secrecy, but right in front of you...it's a little bit rude. And I wouldn't excuse that kind of behavior. All these guys are trying to defend it, but I don't think they would much appreciate it either if their girl was constantly doing it to them.

To me it's disprespectful and offensive. And it hurts my feelings.

dpp4294 · Answer

If a man is into a woman and finds her to be the one and only he won't consider looking at another woman and if he is in love with you he won't even notice if there is another woman in the room. Now if a naked woman walks past it might be hard not to look but then at least show you respect and turn away.

Anonymous · Answer

No its more like that cartoon you know? Pokemon? Yea well every time a guy sees something special or unique, he catalogues it, the more time his eyes spend gathering information, the more complete the pokedex.  Then he has more things to rate girls by. But some guys go way overboard, then its not natural its just perverted.

Anonymous · Answer

I wish girls would get over this. Have some confidence. He wouldn't be with you if he wasn't attracted to you. And what do you expect? For a guy not to look if a girl is wearing a slutty dress? I mean, it happens. Haven't you seen cute guys before and maybe glanced a second longer? Doesn't mean you want to dump your boyfriend.

LoveDanceLove · Answer

I say its true as a guy we can't not help notice what's there. But it isn't hard to resist temptation...well like that anyway. And it totally does not mean they are more attractive..i think those are the qualities that he's more attractive to. Just to be carefull I would say keep an eye on him tho..because are mind can runnooff and get us screwed. ^_^

SDiego · Answer

Checking out other girls is one thing. Being blatant about it, especially if it happens frequently, is rude and disrespectful to you.

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Anonymous · Answer

It means that she's pretty. You have to understand that you're not the most beautiful girl in the world, that there are thousands of girls that are prettier than you are. It's normal that he looks at a pretty girl. But just because he finds some other girl pretty, doesn't  mean he doesn't like you

raven333 · Answer

No, it does not mean he's not satisfied with you. He just find the women he looks at to be pretty. I do it when I see a hot guy. I just think they're cute, doesn't mean all of them are cuter than my boyfriend.

jbowy4 · Answer

no, just means that he is looking at another girl, he is with YOU so he obviously finds YOU more attractive, so what does it matter? Also he might not be checking them out he could be looking at them thinking "My girl is so much prettier..."...

ThatGuy69 · Answer

ya he doesn't like you and you're not good enough. he's probably already screwing other girls. sorry to be brutally honest

Littletad · Answer

No, guys stare naturally. It's almost instinct. We might think she's attractive for a second, but that's all it is. A second.

502shred069 · Answer

a few things could be going on here, he either has no respect for you and is bein a perv... or he is doing the exact same thing I did with my ex, she was the most beautiful to me, but I checked out other girls all the time even around her, but honestly I was doing that because it was just a very satisfying feeling that no other girl compared to her

Reeses-pieces777 · Answer

Guys' eyes will wonder but it's a lack of respect. tell him that but don't be angry when you say it. I'd be upset if my guy were checking out other girls when he's with me as well.

Elcristoph · Answer

we guys do have wandering eyes but if its consistant then my advice is to get out the relationship...remeber is your not marrid to this person your only in this for yourself and if your not happy with him then its time to move on..

peace-love-couture · Answer

It's natural for both men and women.It has nothing to do with your appearance,how he feels about you or your appearance or your relationship.

It's completely natural for anyone(male or female) to look at someone or something attractive

neronomicon · Answer

well sounds like he is attracted to you and can control his emotions but just because he looks don't mean he is atracted to them. so long as he keeps his hands to himself it will be ok just watch carefully and try to keep his attention

demetri77 · Answer

That's normal for a guy to do. But there are lines he can cross, he CAN go too far. But if he's doing openly infront of you, maybe he's trying to make you jealous, which seems to be working.

JustHateTheGame · Answer

If your boyfriend is a real man he's gonna look at other girls; who cares? he's with you not them...looking at another girl is a far cry from cheating on you or even kissing another girl...control your jealousy.

matster777 · Answer

you really don't have to worry about him cheating. I can verify that his behavior is pretty much bred into us guys we have about the attention span of a labrador. it has nothing to do with you we just naturally look at girls wether we are in a relationship or not, but we deffinatley arnt so narrow minded that just  because we look at a girl whos pretty we have to go sleep with said chick. so don't worry he really doesn't mean any bad by doing it it just kinda happens

shes-a-lady · Answer

f*** he's just like my dad. come on, if we girls see  a hot guy and our boyfriend is standing right next to us we can control ourselves too -> we won't look at them, out of respect for you.

Anonymous · Answer

hell even MY eyes wander around to look at hot guys, even girls! sometimes they're just that -HOT. whether HE's hot or SHE has a fantastic body or wearing cute heels, whatever. I'm not even a lesbian. eyes are always wandering about, and for guys especially, it's like they can't help it, or at least I'm told/educated by my guy friends. it's like, in range of eyesight, check it out, then move on. try not to act jealous about it -cuz that's probably gonna accumulate into a major turn-off

mshaker · Answer

Listen, You are very beautiful, he does love you. Just remeber he can look but he can't touch or talk. That's the golden rule.

cccub77 · Answer

i guess i have terrible terrible jealousy issues and possibly some trust issues from my past relationship. my boyfriend says he loves me and always talks about our future, but i can't help but get upset when i see him looking at other girls. i dont look at other guys just for his sake. i could, but i have him and he's all i want. it really makes me upset hearing that guys just look at girls, it does make me insecure and I've always been a terribly jealous person

NightWisper · Answer

Well, depending on the situation, is he like deliberately staring and googly eye balling them or simply glancing, I found this a few days ago   perhaps this may answer you :)

dangerousdanielle · Answer

Does he tell you he's obviously checking them out? Or does he do it subtly and you notice it? If he tells you...he's trying to make you jealous so he can see he cares. If it's the other thing...yes he finds them attractive, but not more than you...or he would be with them. Don't worry.

scar1 · Answer

even if he think they are more attractive in what ever way, which he might, it won't change the way he cares about you if he truly cares. besides, he's with you and them so why does it matter?

darkhorn · Answer

This is uncontrollable behavior of healthy males. It is not a problem, it is not his personality, it is because his brain got testesteron since hs birth. Guys forget that girl after few seconds. It feels as a girl waches a butterflie.

soccerblondie52503 · Answer

All men do this, he's right, he can't help it. Since way back when that has been how guys sense if the other women can reproduce easily, it is hard wired in their brains. Now you shouldn't be too concerned about this behavior, but if he does start flirting with the women then it is time to talk to him about his behavior and decide if he's worth it or not, to the point where you feel like you have to compete for other girls.

justwondering2 · Answer

No, he probably does not think that she's more beautiful than you are... you have to understand that guys cannot just ignore all the other women in this world. Does he check her out then turn back to you? If he does, it's harmless. He's just assessing her in his head. However if he strains to keep looking, you may have a player on your hands.

rgnnaa · Answer

I guess it's a very normal thing for guys. my boyfriend does it sometimes, you just can't help it. it's the same like when there's a super cute+hot guy walking around, sure your eyes will land on him even just for a bit. don't feel that he doesn't love you anymore, confidence is sexy ;)

girloncue · Answer

have you expressed to him you don't like it? because he may think it's okay behavior. I don't think it's necessarily that you aren't pretty, I think it's just, he's immature.

ursxtruely · Answer

I believe that it could mean one or two things:

One - he could feel comfortable enough around you to recognize another pretty girl without you getting jealous cause he thinks you won't be insecure about it.

Or, he could be exploring other options cause guys have a tendency of wanting what they can't have. And being attracted of the chase.

tylerray8 · Answer

speaking from my own personal habits I think he finds you more attractive than anyone he might look at. some guys just like to look and it doesn't mean he's going to cheat on you if given the oppurtunity. it's kind of like window shopping if you will just looking at something you never actually plan on having

Anonymous · Answer

It does not mean he finds that person more attractive than you. It is part of a man, they just want to look. it doesn't mean he is going to cheat on you. You could be the most attractive women in the world, and if a women who is less attractive than you walks by, he would probably still look at that other girl. Its just how guys are. there have been scientific studies with an attractive person walking into a room, and the guys pupils will dialate, even if he isn't directly looking at her.

coolgurl09 · Answer

No that just means he's a straight man, so its normal you need to be concern when he stops looking at other females.

Anonymous · Answer

No, it means he's a guy.  As long as he has a "look but don't touch" policy you shouldn't worry too much.

cutestkathy · Answer

No, nothing to do with cheating really.  He's just not secure with you.   Thinks you might disappear.

Anonymous · Answer

yes he does find them more attractive, otherwise he'd be looking at you instead when they are around. It doesn't mean he will cheat though.

Besides, do you think you're the most attractive girl in the world?

ChelseaFC2009 · Answer

no, it doesn't. sometimes it just happens naturally to a guy.

Anonymous · Answer

My brain understands that but my boyfriend likes and comments on sexy beautiful women with clothes or barley clothes pics on facebook and tells me that he never does it. I am okay looking but a little on the heavy curvy side. However if I want to dress that way then freaks out. Why is that? Am I not good enough?

Anonymous · Answer

sometimes when guys don't want to be with one and are afraid to tell'em this, they do such things that make you anger but if this relationship is new one then don't worry... he's trying to make you jelous so simply tell him you like him... and show that ur jelous!

Anonymous · Answer

guys can get bored looking at the same tatas and a lot of girls just put em out there. I mean if some guy walked out with no pants on or some guy gets a big boner wouldn't you look ?

thekitkatr · Answer

all guys do that because that is just their thing. don't be offended by this because he still has feelings for you and is just doing a bad habbit.

Anonymous · Answer

no it does not mean that your boyfriend finds her more attractive its just curiousity on his be half to see what she has to offer. well you have to think about this real quick. do you check out other guys? do you think that they are more attractive then your boyfriend? and be honest? I know that every female has to have done that at least once. and you were curious to at that time and so will he. you will always be curious and so will he. you just need to trust him like he trust you.

martyfellow · Answer

No not al tall.   He's just maybe insecure about himself, or just PLAIN INSENSIITIVE.

VintageVixen · Answer

I love my boyfriend and I find him very attractive but I still look at other guys, it really doesn't mean anything. I wouldn't trade my guy for any other. Maybe the same thing applies to your boyfriend.

Althea · Answer

No. Guys just tend to check out other girls sometimes. That is just a guy thing. It does not necessarily mean that he finds those girls more attractive than you.

dwayne21 · Answer

it means she got a stain on her clothes or lettuce in between her teeth or...boobs

jokerforlifeny · Answer

naa its a guy reaction ... its like twiching yu jst have to do it ...

Awais_Ali_Kiyani · Answer

no if he really loves you...he will notice you gettin uneasy...if he can't notice you...u understand!

jonathanlc2005 · Answer

its normal for guys like its normal for girls to talk about cute guys. we don't talk, we just act. will he cheat on you? can't say its not possible but depends on the situation he's in and who he is

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and he wants to fuck her more than you. He's looking because you probably don't suck his dick or take it in the ass. That's whay men want, and married or not... we will look until we find it. But yeah, he thinks she's hotter than you.

davetheman · Answer

No it doesn't mean anything. We check out girls like you breathe air, all guys do it no matter what. He's just looking at them.

Cutiegatito · Answer

thats the way way men is setup...we love to check girls out.. you pay back and check other guys out too and hell have to deal it it too

myusername · Answer

It is possible he will. But then again it always is. If it is done in front of you what can happen when your not?

jusbeinme21 · Answer

no honey if he's checkin out other females right in ur face that's a sign he has no respect for u

ilikegirls · Answer

conceited much? "I am attractive."

beana14 · Answer

not always it could just mwan he doesn't like you as much anymore

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