I pushed my ex girlfriend away pretty fast and I know it. please I just need to know how to get her back?

[eze350]

So me and my ex girlfriend dating for 6 months. We found each other down the beach through a mutual friend. We fell crazy for each other always talking and kissing hard to keep us apart. I even took her virginity. We'll I broke up with her because of alt of stress and we continued to see each other and hook up and have sex. But one weekend I asked her to hang out and she said she had planned to hang out with another kid for about a week. So ever since that day 2 months ago things have been going down hill. She is taking him to prom and lying to me and not wanting to be with me. I know I messed up by trying so hard but please I just want her back even after all this I really do love her. I just don't know how distant she is from e and close to the other guy now. So if anyone can help me please

[chocolateboy23]

First of all Stress is a part of a relationship and if you really did love her then you would have tried to work through all that stress instead of taking the easy way out and breaking up with her. You have to know that there is stress in every relationship you get into. Sometimes the stress is greater and sometimes its not but stress is in a way of a test to see if you can handle being in a relationship. You lost a girl that you didn't really love. you just lost a girl that did a lot of things with you ( you may not think this is true at all) but ask yourself this. Why do I want to get back with her? Why do I love her? What is it about her that makes me love her? Ask yourself those questions and if sex comes as an answer in anyone of those questions then it was just lust disguising itself as love. Sorry man

[edwin_ramos_89]

My honest opinion is that you guys both had lust for each other and believed it was loved. Dude nothing last forever even life. We all past through that situation. Happen to me, I though I was in love with this girl date her for 10 months. Then we broke up, and after a few years went back together (BIG mistake). We only lasted a month and she goes out every weekend a I think she's party hard(I thought I was completely over her until I found out that she has a crazy life style). So I know that girl wasn't for me, Not only that I was depress for a while. Besting to do is get her out of you're life, delete her phone, messenger, Facebook etc. If she wants you she will call you back and you should move on even still. You have to be strong.

[cypher]

ya I'm gonna give you a girls input. if you love this girl...go and get her now! tell her how you feel. tell her everything that you've felt and why it didn't work the first time. we girls just want honesty and we are romantic suckers. if I was her, I'd love to hear that you had felt the same way as I had so long.

ummm as for her moving on, she's just kinda had an emotional and mental "flash of illumination" moment about you and her. what kinda girl (or even guy) would just love to be just the "friends with benefit" when this person they're giving sex to means so much to them? I'd get fed up eventually too. PS sooner the better, times ticking. go get her =D!

[ConfusedGherl]

You f_cked up! sorry but you did I gave the same thing to my ex I mean I don't hate his guts or anything but that hurt it sucks so I just decided just to move on with my life why go with someone that could do that again... If it was meant to be it will but I seriously doubt it, hun... tough luck! sorry straight up though if you love her so much try harder maybe you can win her back if you talk it through with her but your EXCUSE is f_ckin'' retarded.. GROW UP! Love is taking everything that comes with that person good and bad... you show your true colors when your put through trials...

[toulouse]

I don't understand. first you broke up the you have each other as f*** buddies so she goes for something else & NOW you want her back..not when you us were just f*** buddies , but only after she found someone else..lol I would have left I as soon as I broke up , I have no idea why she stayed with u..its not that I want a relationship , but who the hell stays with someone who breaks you with them- I have no idea lol it is a bit irrational.

Why did you break up initially- before you became f*** buddies ? (i'll try to help :)

[PsychMike]

If you were in love with her then why did you break up in the first place. I don't blame her for moving on because she is obviously looking for something more than just friends with benefits. I'm in the same situation except my girl broke up with me and she is pushing me away with her actions but saying she actually does want to be with me just can't at the moment. actions speak louder than words which is why your girl is moving on. sorry bud but you messed up and are gonna have to face the consequences. I know it sucks.

[hockeyguy27]

i know how you feel..your kind of like me you want what you can't have..im the exact same way, honestly just ask her if you guys can just talk one night..honesty, no lies face to face over dinner or something..tell her you want to hear how she feels even if its going to hurt you because if you find out from someone else its going to hurt even more, then tell her how you feel..hope this helps

[Anonymous]

YOU broke up with her because of "stress?" HA HA what a joke. You couldn't possibly love her, or you wouldn't of done that to her, and now she's found someone else. Maybe you should have thought it over before you did that because now you are suffering the consequences...

[flowersandstars]

thts exactly what my ex did. I loved him so much he broke up with me over the same reason I chased after him and he pushed me away! so tough luck I'm never taking him back he hurt me. so I think maybe she's done with u

[Reality_Check]

my friend says she a virgin over and over again so it doesn't make sense if she was she could move on so quick not too mention the lying thing you said about her ,you don't lie to people you care about and if you do your not worth caring about and if it was stressful then are you sure you just don't want her back cause she's with someone else

[j-dogg]

dont listen to bebota22 mate. if you truly love this girl then ask her to come and talkt to you ask her to meet you and don't push her to do anything just sit and tell her hoe you feel take her for a meal or a walk on the beach a romantic scene but do not push her into doing anything just tell her you love her, you no you was wrong for breaking up with her it was just you had a lot of stress at the time but make sure you say all you want to say face to face not by text

[bebota22]

listen I think she didt love you because if she did she would of forgave u. and now she's with another guy so fast that's not love she should of understand and known you were under stress. move on I know it hurts it happened to mee.u guys probably had lust for each other ur love for her was stronger than hers. she should be home waiting for you if she loved u