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What is there to 'make' of it?! Get out NOW. No real man would ever hit a woman, and no man who truly loved you would ever hurt you like that, nonetheless distrust you. This guy will hurt you again, don't be fooled by the crocodile tears and fake sympathy.
DUMP HIS ASS! I've been in an abusive relationship, he was always saying
"baby I'm so sorry."
or "Please forgive me."
OR the most overused one :"Baby don't go, I love you. Ill never do that again I promise."
This guy is either crazy, has some major anger issues, or is extrememly insecure and is afraid of you leaving him.Either way, if he hits you once he WILL hit you again! No woman deserves that and it makes a relationship unhealthy and you both will be stuck there.
You have to dump him as soon as possible. Abusive guys very rarely change though they constantly say they will. It doesn't matter if he cries, screams, begs you after getting on his knees YOU HAVE TO LEAVE HIM. please please please don't stay with him, he'll continue to hit you, it only gets worse from here
break up with him. there's nothing to think about- the violence only gets worse with time. if you stay with him you set the precedent that its ok for him to physically hurt you. I really hope that you leave him because if you don't you will surely find yourself in a very dangerous situation. I hope you make the right decision.
DUMP HIS ASS. And watch the espisode of Tyra Banks when she discusses violence in relationships.
If he loved you, he wouldn't have hit you. Would you ever punch or purposely hurt anyone you love, even if they made you jealous or mad?
If it happened once, it WILL happen again. He needs to learn his lesson.
he can be truly sorry, and you can still love him...that doesn't make it smart or safe to stay with him.
it's the same reaction as cheating. if he cheated, he can be sorry, and you can still want him, but it doesn't change the fact that he cheated.
in this case, nothing changes the fact that he hit you. HE HIT YOU.
No matter who he is, you're not safe in that relationship.
Ok...hun...f*** him! He sounds like an a-hole! No MAN IS EVER TO PUT HIS HANDS ON A GIRL! This might have been the first time but trust me it's only the beginning! My mother's husband hit her several times and after the 4th time he came home one day and she had emptied our house and was gone! She refused to deal with that sh*t and so should you. It's never ok! My mom married a guy that I call my father...he would never hit her or mistreat her...you deserve better!
he'll do it again when you get into an argument, if I ever did that to a girlfriend of mine, no matter how sorry I was I would tell her to stay away from me because I wouldn't want that to happen again, if you take him back, he'll do it again and he apolagize again and he'll make you think it was your fault or you'll think he will only get like this because of his temper or drink, you'll end up like one of those gf's or wives, I say get out now
Well I know a lot of these people are probably going to give me sh*t, but Ask him about it, I can see it was an accident and yes no one deserves to be hit and he shouldn't have, but I would confront him about it
I agree. It seems to me like it was an accident. Even though it was a pretty severe accident, I don't know if I would break up with him because of it. Also, people are saying that you're a victim of abuse, and I don't agree. This is the same thing as you hitting a sibling or a friend and them hitting his/her head on a table. You would feel bad because you didn't mhttps://www.girlsaskguys.com/images/btn-subcom-up.gifean for them to get hurt, right? Right. I wouldn't break up with him.
Exactly! I mean, I would say kick his ass to the curb if it had been non-accidental, but he seems like he's really really sorry about it, I mean if he does it again, sure dump him, but everyone deserves a second chace, and your not really a victum of abuse yet, and once you do become one call the police.
Yea but how is hitting another an accident? OMG your face totally got in the way of my fist and um ...I'm sorry. How can you tell if hitting someone is an accident??
I AGREE WITH OLIVIA9!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You never can, but if he's THIS apologetic I would give him a second chance. I've BEEN in an Abusive relationship, f*** I still have bruises! It hurts like a bitch! And I can tell that he is the type of guy that wouldn't do that if he's this apologetic.
Yes, he punched her in the face like she was a man because of his jealousy issues so asking him about it is the best thing to do! Seriously? Even if he is apologetic he needs to learn from the situation and hopefully don't hit your next girlfriend but she shouldnt stay with someone who did that. That's just stupid. And when he does it again what would be your advice?
HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO STATE THIS!?!?! KICK THE JACK ASSES ASS TO THE F***ING CURB!
I keep repeating myself but please, please understand that ALL ABUSERS APOLOGIZE!! It's because they are sincerely sorry in the moment but saying sorry never prevents another hit.
Please understand that a man hitting you isn't an angry outburst. It is a mindset that was probably taught to him when very young that one person dominates and one person submits. And when he hits you, he has chosen that to be you.
Dear I have stated this, I just got out of an abusive relationship, and THIS doesn't seem like one.
How is "he reared back his fist and punched me" an accident? stupid... stay or don't stay , but you will see...
this doesn't seem like an abusive relationship? that is the most ignorant thing I've ever heard. my bf got drunk and hit me , i stayed because he cried and didn't "really" mean it. a month ago he would not stop hitting my head, i landed in the ER. yeah... it's abuse hun...
Sounds like a d-bag, drop him honey, you deserve better.
You don't live in Illinois by any chance do you? I'm sure ITL here wouldn't mind teaching him a pretty good lesson.
Leave him...it will happen time and time again...and 1 day it might get so bad you'll end up in a coffin! It doesn't matter how angry you get with one another...neither of you should ever get to the point where you resolve the matter with fists!
If he honestly loved you why would he want to hurt you?
I honestly feel for you and never want to be in the position that you are in...your worth more...your not his punch bag x x
There is no second chance for hitting you.
The fact he did t shows he at this point in life can't control himself.
You need to be apart from him for awhile atleast. If he ever did it again the cops need to be called.
leave.
a man should never have to apologize for hitting a woman in the first place.
that's like killing a pet and then apologizing like crazy.. the deed's been done, there's no going back..
Leave! I understand if you love him and you don't wanna leave but you don't deserve to be treated like that I got slapped and flipped on my guy but he punched you and he reared back to punch you so he had time to think about it...Leave!
Leave him. This is the first sign. If he can do it once, he can do it again. And because he knows he can get away with it, the next time will be worse and it will happen more frequently. Please leave him. I don't care what you guys were arguing about or how upset he might have been. He had no right to hit you.
I think that you you should take the time to ponder about this, bcause you are the one that has feelings for this guy, you should see his bad qualities and his good qualitites, now, if he hit you and you were knocked out that bad, you should break it up cause, it could get worst, there are numerous amounts of tings that can happen
I know you probably still like or love him despite this..so if you want him but want to be treated right. Make him make it up to you. Take a break from him for awhile. You can occasionally talk but don't let him touch you until he regains your trust. AND if he ever does it again...you will know it wasn't an accident...he was being himself.
I hope it works out hun.
Dump his ass. He will probably hit you again. No one deserves to be hit.
leave his ass I cud never in my life hit a women its a sign of what's to come run and run fast change ur numbe rmaybe even go to the cops that's bullsh*t
I do not care what the sercumstance is, there is not another sencond chance for hittin gyou. I know you here all those things about once an abuser, always and abuser because in more cases than not, ITS TRUE.
I know that his apologizing might make up for it, but you need to get over that. An argument, even a heated one, is absolutly no excuse for physically harming you. In my opinion, you need to dump him. I know it seems rash, but you cannot put yourself at risk for more physical harm.