Why Would You Pinch A Girl's Cheeks?

[Idonthaveausername]

I know for a fact this guy is into me, so that's not the answer I'm looking for. Is cheek pinching something sexual, paternal, platonic, just a normal way of flirting for guys? Or is it supposed to mean the same thing as when your grandma does it? This is the second time someone has pinched my cheeks in a flirty way, so I'm curious

[peachblossomluck]

Ewwwww, that would creep me out, but that's me. If a guy is treating me like a little kid or trying to fix the tag on the shirt or brush my hair, or groom me, I wonder if he's my old auntie or something.

[Idonthaveausername]

Yeah. At the time I kind of wanted to push his hands away, but I kind of like him at the same time, so I didn't. I was kind of thinking it had something to do with that since he's much older than me, but then he told me that he wanted to kiss me and that I'm beautiful, so I know he sees me as more than a little kid. And this is the second guy who's pinched my cheeks, so it's starting to become a trend

[peachblossomluck]

Be careful, to me it's borderline pedophilia and sort of queer if you ask me. Sorry to put it that way but only my gay male friends and much elder folks who want to treat me like a child and control me do that sort of thing.. eek!

[Idonthaveausername]

Yeah. I haven't let him kiss me yet. I don't know much about him or even how old he is yet, just that we make intense, crazy, gut-wrenching eye contact and I like hugging him. I honestly don't know what to think about him yet. I totally get what you mean by the pedophile thing because I'm short and look young, but I'm not getting a pedophile vibe from him (I have gotten it before from other guys) and don't have the right body shape for a pedophile. I'm actually the one who started talking to him first because I didn't like the way he was looking at my friend. I had seen him check me out before, but he didn't try to make a move on me until after that. I can tell he's holding back a lot because he knows I'm not comfortable with him yet. He doesn't talk much either because English is his second language. Yeah I know it's a little queer, but normal has never really been my thing either. I'm just confused is all because I don't like guys very often and I think I like him

[peachblossomluck]

Be careful, trust your instincts.

[Idonthaveausername]

Thanks and I will. I have to get to know him better first

[hefriend]

you prolly just have adorable cheeks. it's a Sign of adoration.

[Idonthaveausername]

Ah OK. I was smiling both times, so that would make sense

[hefriend]

I did this to my ex girlfriend a lot... if he's anything like me he probably feels really silly after he does it, but finds himself doing it often cause he can't help himself, you're just absolutely adorable 😏 so congrats! You're irresistibly cute!! 🙂

[Idonthaveausername]

Thank you. That's really sweet. So I should let him do it because I don't want to embarrass him? I agree it's a silly thing to do, that's why I asked a question about it

The first guy who did it said "You're so cute, baby" and the second guy told me I was beautiful and that he wanted to kiss me, so that would make sense they were doing it because they think I'm cute

[hefriend]

I'd let them do it, it is a little bit weird but if you just remember it's a Sign of adoration then hopefully it will grow on you and be flattering... but if it grows to bother you I'd let him know.

[Idonthaveausername]

Thanks for the advice. I used to hate it growing up because my siblings would always pinch my freckles, but I kind of liked it when this guy did it... Probably because I kind of like him...

[hefriend]

glad to help!! I wish you both a successful future and relationship! 😊😊

[SwolDishWasher]

He wants to know if theyre elastic enough for a blowjob

[TaylorSpliff]

Lmao

[Idonthaveausername]

I'll admit that made me laugh, but if you want a like, you're going to have to give me a serious answer. Have you ever pinched a girl's cheeks and why would you?

[SwolDishWasher]

Maybe my niece, even then probably not. Its a platonic thing for sure.

[Anonymous]

Are we talking butt cheeks or cheeks on your face? Probably a sign of affection if it's on your face

[Idonthaveausername]

Lol. He pinched my face cheeks first when we were alone and grabbed my butt when we were in front of a crowd

But the first guy only pinched my face cheeks

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I see so you have had both pinched 😊 I guess you have such an adorable face that he can't resist

[ADFSDF1996]

He is probably trying to say you're cute.

[Idonthaveausername]

He told me he wanted to kiss me and that I was beautiful right after, so I know he likes me. I just don't know what kind of flirting that is. Is it because he likes me, the way I look, or because he wants to get in my pants or because he sees me like a little sister or nice or daughter? This is the second guy who's pinched my cheeks

[ADFSDF1996]

It might be a more "friendly" kind of cute.

[Idonthaveausername]

Hmmmm... Could be...

[yellowcar]

He's flirting but in a weird way

[Idonthaveausername]

Well I flirt in a weird way and make it difficult for guys to flirt with me, so that makes sense. What kind of flirting would that be if you did it?

[yellowcar]

What would weird flirting be if I did it?

[Idonthaveausername]

No. If you pinched a girl's cheeks, would it be because she's cute, because you see her like a little sister or niece, because you want to have sex with her, or just because you like her personality?

[yellowcar]

It could be any except the little sister or niece one. I wouldn't pinch someone's cheeks because that's weird

[Idonthaveausername]

OK thanks. I was just wondering because this was the second time I've had a guy pinch my cheeks