Shall I add him on instagram or Facebook or will he think I'm creepy?

[Anonymous]

Was on holiday with my cousins and one of them brought his friend with us (he stayed two days). We played cards, talked and joked around. He got me in one of his Snapchat videos but didn't ask to add me. He didn't add me on any social media. Anywaaay will he think I'm creepy/ weirdo stalker if I add him on Facebook or instagram?
I don't know if I'll ever see him again. I hope I do.🙁

[Anonymous]

I'd recommend going for it on Instagram depending on how many followers he has. The more followers he has the LESS PERSONAL his account is, considering you don't know him well I'd say anything +100 means it's less personal.

If he only has a few followers he likely doesn't use INstagram as much and it will be a waste of your time as he will take to long when you try to slide into his dms.

I'd add him if I were you,
Life is too short to wait for him.

[Asker]

He has around 500 followers and is following around 400.. but his account is private so I can't stalk well 😂 what do you reckon now?

[Opinion Owner]

lmao, i'd probably add him quick because he still knows you and you are fresh in his mind.
Once you've added him and he has accepted 'like' the first three photos on his account. (This sets off a good image and shows that you are interested in talking).

Then if you are feeling confident i'd recommend just dm-ing him 'Hey'

[Anonymous]

I'm note sure. If he doesn't know you, then how will you guys talk?

[Asker]

Well me adding me would be the first move.. if he messages me then we can take it from there I guess..

[Opinion Owner]

I guess...
Why wouldn't you see him again? Why can't he befriend you?

[Asker]

Because we both study at different countries and no mutual friends except my cousin so it's pretty hard..

[Opinion Owner]

So actually it could work either way

[StanLaurel]

It not creepy when girls do it, only when guys do it. I would feel flattered if any girl wanted to add me. I wouldn't ever think about how she found me.

I tried to follow a girl on Instagram, hoping she would follow me back ( her account was private). She still hasn't added me yet. She works at the gym with my sister, and I see her there everyday. I guess she thinks I'm a creep.

[Vyxzuw]

Add him, creepy/wierdo stalkers are HOT! :P

Seriously though, he's not going to think it's creepy.
You could ask him to send you the video he made as an opener.

[Asker]

Hmm that's a good idea actually :) I'm such an over-thinker lol

[TheDamnYankeeLad]

Probably not. If you've met him before, you can just act like you stumbled across his account by accident.

[Asker]

Can't do that.. it'd be pretty obvious that I specifically looked for his account. So yeah I agree with you, sadly😭

[TheDamnYankeeLad]

He won't think you're creepy.

[Daniel3035]

Why would it be creepy why is anything and everything that is social deemed creepy.
Him: Hi
Her: Get away you creep.

[Asker]

Because we only ever saw each other for 2 days.. I don't know

[Daniel3035]

So according to you the only way to not be creepy is to never see each other?
Yh it's been 2 days so what? How else are you going to get to know each other are you just naturally going to know everything.
And if you don't know who does? Or do you expect the men to read your mind too.

[Asker]

Well if he was interested surely he would've added me..

[Daniel3035]

Well have you sent one?

[Asker]

No :( I'm just gonna face the fact that I'm an absolute coward and hope I get over him.

[Daniel3035]

Wrong your not a coward but you are beyond silly like every girl. Send the request and wait and see.

[Asker]

Really Daniel? I'm just gonna wait to see if he adds me.

[Daniel3035]

Would you rather I lie?
If you take that attitude so will he you'll both go nowhere. Besides he is offering food he pays for him as a husband his salary and his house. The least you can do is approach him.

[blackwolf3x]

so those are today's respectable creditably really not common sense or real communication face to face

[Kaushik8694]

Add him. No hesitation!

[Asker]

Would you not think it's a bit clingy?

[Kaushik8694]

For me, no. If you like him, go for it. 😊
He will respect your move if he is a gentleman.

[Asker]

Thanks! :) hope he is a gentleman really

[Kaushik8694]

Always welcome. All the best!