I see this happen a lot in my personal life. The feels the love earlier than I do. What are the causes for this?
What makes a guy develop feelings for a girl after knowing her for only a few months?
Girls are attractive. Guys notice when they first see them. From the start you're traveling down the path to romance and if she's cool and nice then it deepens and becomes a crush or if she's not then it's a turnoff. Often is nothing happens and guys don't interact with the girl in question then you can end up with a crush on someone who barely knows you exist. So that's problematic and should be avoided. I'm going off a tangent. Anyway point is that's just how it is. I might ask 'why not?' because from my perspective it's utterly normal and there is no 'why?' It just is.
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Mostly Hormones in the mind and personal preferences triggered if that girl has things that the guy values and he/we see a significant amount of them it increases the potency both in our hormonic state of minds and principle and self set rules much like keys fitting into locks if this key has the right teeth it will open easily if the key has the wrong teeth it will have trouble or won't open it at all in which these teath represent traits and sometimes if you have many teath spread out evenly moving the key just right can open these locks to.
The energy between them
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I've felt like I was in love after spending just a couple days with at least two girls I dated and both lasted longer than 4 years. I think it's initially chemical that's derived from physical attraction... there's really no drug out there that can match the feeling you get when you first meet someone, let alone the cutest little thing ever created that would have me acting like her long time boyfriend and probably overprotective of her, especially for only knowing her a couple days.
The dopamine released when you first met was kicked off the early addiction. Its all smiles seeing her again the next day, she smells amazing again and if she goes in for the kiss, forget about it... she closed the sale without even knowing it. Take it as a compliment and have fun. ;-) -
I mainly think it's because of the connection they get, like most guys dont know what the girls signals are so he may think they are always giving him signals she likes him, but it's also because if you spend a lot of time with someone you will always develop feelings, like I've just started working with a female colleague and at first it felt like we were always clashing but it's got more like friends now but I know that nothing can happen since its very strict in my workplace plus she has a boyfriend, so i would say it's usually consequence of situation and what you lot talk about as my work can get very personal lol
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Because men are simple if they like it they like it and if they don't they don't but I think it has more to do with you if you don't feel anything right away then they're not the right person for you it's not that the guys are moving too fast it's just you haven't found the right guy for you
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I think, getting in love in only just a few months is too slow and, quite normal at present. I know many guys who fell in love within a week or so. Most guys fall in love with the outside of a girl without really knowing a girl from the inside. People who judge others based on physical features are doomed.
Coming back to the question, guys fall for physical features and, a girl they seem easy to approach or is friendly/welcoming in their opinion. -
Sometimes its infatuation.
Sometimes it purely based on looks
Sometimes it purely based on personality
Sometimes due to desperation
Every case is different, hard to pinpoint a reason for all - 520 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
What do you mean only a few months...
A women's affection and touch is tantalizing... we need women to complete us... we feel more complete and balanced so we fall fast -
For me its those moments of cuddling and deep conversation while u stare deep into there soul through their eyes
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Are you asking why guys develop feelings or love towards you faster than you feel the same
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It takes a couple of months if you are thinking with the big head and not the little one. Once I see that all the qualities are there, I am not shy about expressing my feelings.
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U know.. its not a thing we can tell... u just kinda fall in love without knowing it...
And the only way that a girl could make some space in my heart is only by being my friend... talking... laughing... singing together... - 749 opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Basically to like her physically and as person, and to interact with her. Nothing else.
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we may not know it but in those few months the guy will realize how amazing she is. it may not be instant physical attraction but whats inside the will catch your heart. thats what happened to me
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Knowing them for first few months will definitely drag you into her. As we guys think she is open-minded smart cute kind etc. But later we just came to realize that all our thoughts were wrong.
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Causes are like developing strong feelings for you from opposite gender. Guy who r single usually do these stuffs and guys trust girls more frequently as girls
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The answer could be anything, maybe she has something in common, maybe her looks is the reason, or personality, etc. Hormones develop over the smallest things in our bodies.
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Time and compassion is what comes across my mind. ☺️💕
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Um. Guys are desperate with lower standards if that makes sense. Which means they fall for more girls but it also means they can get over them more.😊
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Probably acknowledging that his life had changed or he is much more happier when he talks with her. Probably.
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because he is attractive... Talkative... and finally you find someone of yours soulmate
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If a guy catches feelings it's probably because he's lonely and wants you to take up his time
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