I never get hit on, does that mean am unattractive?

[Anonymous]

So I've been seeing women complaining how much they get hit on and most people say if you go out alone at some place you'll get hit on, i go most places alone but I've never got hit on, does that meam am unattractive?

[bigblue1029]

No it doesn't mean that at all most guy's need some kind of sign that they might have a chance at getting a date beforehand like a girl looks at him more than a few times or flirting with them and if your already trying that and not getting any responses then you should find a way to get noticed by some one that you pick bumping into him and start a conversation sometimes if a girl is too pretty most guy's will assume that you are already with someone or that they will never be able to impress you enough so we just move on to the ones we think we can get so being nice and flirting Will help and talking with some will help other see you as single and looking

[Logorithim]

Yeah, well, it may depend where you are. Here in Germany, people generally do not hit on each other in public.

That said, it should never, ever be taken to automatically mean you are unattractive, because if a young woman appears unapproachable, she won't get hit on even if she is attractive (e. g., appearing to be sad ir angry, having "resting bitch face", etc.)

[moparbreed]

just change they way you sit stand try to make yourself more approachable try that it might work

[Asker]

How though

[moparbreed]

Shoulders back not hunch over or lean over the table or bar

[Asker]

Oh alright I'll try that

[ChronicThinker]

You could be, but you could also just come across as unapproachable.

[JellyDonutguy96]

I'm a guy and I don't get hit on what does that mean?

[Asker]

That you are very attractive😂😂

[JellyDonutguy96]

really? so I'm that attractive, girls avoid hitting on me,

yeah that seems to make a lot of sense,

I don't know whether I have the advantage or disadvantage

[Asker]

Yeah i mean if its you in your pfp I'd never appraoch you because of many reasons such as am a coward i can't approach a guy for anything,
I'd wonder if you'd like me too, if you are out of my league,
I'd wonder a guy like that must already have a girlfriend so yeah its a disadvantage yoy being too attractive🤷

[JellyDonutguy96]

I don't think I'm that attractive honestly

[Asker]

Wait a second its not you in ur pfp, nvm

[JellyDonutguy96]

no I could show you what I actually look like

thanks you just made me feel more worthless

[JellyDonutguy96]

you don't deserve to get hit on
you just showed how unattractive you are
maybe be less shallow, and maybe things will change

[Asker]

Mhh am sorry if i hurt your feelings but you didn't correct me when i said if thats you in your profile picture either.
How you look does not matter I'd have been still positive anyway and would have not put you down but when you didn't correct me prooved me that you are a liar and i don't have times for liar (even if you might just consider that an omission) and thats why i said nvm.
I could have said some mean comments but didn't... Anyway nvm

[JellyDonutguy96]

oh I'm sorry,
I did say it wasn't me,
I didn't mean all those hurtful things
I'm just sensitive about certain things about my myself I hope you can understand,

can you try to forgive me?

[Asker]

Lol don't worry lets forget about it, i might be a little to sensitive too to people whom i think are lying to me thats why i might have been harsh

[JellyDonutguy96]

alright,

thank you,

let's let it be water under the bridge

[MindTime]

Could be, or you don't look approachable to the guys around you

[manish28]

you may not be liking getting hit on, which the others sense it and you don't get any

[Celtero]

Add a pic. I'll judge you fairly, I promise.

[chrisbigman]

Not necessarily, but it's possible.

[Revolver_]

That means you're unattractive

[Anonymous]

You're either average or below average

[AdmiralBailey]

or just average.