We have been dating for like 2 months now and officially together for about a week, and since day one, I have made every decision about plans. That is to be expected at first cause I was the one asking her on dates, so I should choose. But now that we're together, and pretty comfortable with each other I figured she would be able to decide a few things. She suggests we should hang out, but she never has any input on where we should go. For instance, tonight she said we should do something and I said sure what do you have in mind? She said she's up for anything, so I asked if she wanted to just watch a movie at one of our houses. So whatever, I decided our plans, no big deal, but here's the annoying part. I asked her what time she wanted to do this and she said whenever...so I said well I'm ready whenever so how about soon, and now she's telling me she has to eat dinner with her family and get ready first.
My question is why can't she just this stuff first? After I decide what we are doing, why can't she be the one to say "sounds good, I should be ready at around 9" rather than me play these games with her to figure out when she will be ready.
Maybe I'm making too big a deal of this but making every minor detail of a decision gets pretty old...she never speaks her mind or fills me in on relevant info regarding this stuff.
My question is why can't she just this stuff first? After I decide what we are doing, why can't she be the one to say "sounds good, I should be ready at around 9" rather than me play these games with her to figure out when she will be ready.
Maybe I'm making too big a deal of this but making every minor detail of a decision gets pretty old...she never speaks her mind or fills me in on relevant info regarding this stuff.
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