There is this guy who rides my bus that I really like. What do I do to get his attention?

[Anonymous]

I really like a guy that rides my bus, but I don't know what to say to him unless I asking him if he wants gum or a mint. I don't know what to say to him otherwise unless someone gives me an idea. I really want to get him to notice and him to like me more than just friends, if were even that. What do I do?

[Nikki30]

@ freezy.Keep in mind,some people are not as bold as you and I would probebly be.Also keep in mind the age bracket here.She is under 18.So,for her to just simply send a note,may be easier for her to do and less embarassing,seeing as she's obviously a little shy and asking for advice in the first place.Either way would work,being a little silly,makes you seem more exciting and more interesting to me anyway.Anyone can just walk up and start speaking to someone,but its what you do that is the most memorable.When I was 24,I left a note on this guys car,when he finally found out who I was,we started dating for 2 years.Its the thrill that people like.Just like when your with someone and you do roleplay,its makes things more interesting and last longer.But,its really her choice,what she decides is what its going to be.No one really has the right answer here,there just ideas for her.So,goodluck anonymous and have fun with it.

[Nikki30]

Please don't offer him any gum or mints.He'll think your trying to tell him his breath stinks,lol.Tie a note around something hard(a rock,pencil or something)slide it across the floor,aim for his foot.Play a game with him.On the note,say,I'm watching you.Have him guessing and looking around.lol Then the next day,do it again,the next note should say,I'm still watching with my blue/brown eyes.The next day do it again and name something else untill it figures out its you,it will be fun and he will be flattered.

[freezey]

Seems like a lot of hard work there...personally this type of behavior would make me think 'LOON'... This is easy girls, so pay close attention!... 1) You get up...2) you walk over to him (still following me here?) 3) you park your arse on a seat next to him, 4) you offer your hand and say "Hi..my name is..." then follow with "Where you going? (Still got your attention? Good) 5) have a convo.. 6)he may get your number 7) Say good bye and get off bus... TADA! EASY PEASY LEMON SQUEEZY

[jcoldstream]

You have at least one unusual physical ability. For instance I can bend my fingers backwards, and I can curl my tongue up. When you've next given him a sweet -- how can ANYONE desire a boy who chews gum, EUGH! -- show him how you can curl your tongue etc. and say, "Hey, can you do this?" Be playful and you'll soon have each other in fits of giggles. After that it won't be difficult to arrange to meet regularly.

[marijoanna]

Unless you really don't want to say, how old are you? It'll be easier to suggest ideas to you if I know what age/grade you're in. There's always general suggestions... but honestly, it's amazing the difference a year makes!

[Anonymous]

sit next to him and ask him about his winter break plans. break the ice

[confuzled]

one word - flirt