If you want to do that, maybe relate it to a picture or story he posts.
Honestly, i'm only one opinion, but if she's attractive I couldn't care less how they approach or initiate, it's just the fact she did that to me personally is attractive. (I know it's attractive for a woman to have the guy man up - but some of us can't muster the courage)
I'd try something less direct first & see how he reacts
Do it in a calm, confident but unassuming way and I think he'd be foolish not to respond. I know I would. He's probably sitting there thinking- and fretting- about how to make the first move. End the kerfuffle and give it a shot.
That is okay
Actually admirable , in my case mostly it would be a girl to do the first move, hence why I am still single , because I hardly see an interesting girl, and if she Dm s me , that would make things interesting , a lot.
We like it. I don't know where you girls get this fear of "desperate", but it's all in your head.
I don't add or talk to anyone on Instagram unless they are already my friend in real life...
No that isn't creepy etc. More girls should make the first move. Confidence is sexy.
I won't mind at all.. it means there’s definitely something about me that caught her interest..
Yes sometimes but whats the harm in chatting with someone new.
Its not weird or creepy. Everyone wants to be noticed and getting a messege makes you feel good
I suspect it is a catfish.
I like getting messages, I'm sure he do to :)
I like it random dms from girls
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