I accidentally hit on my girlfriend's friend?

[Anonymous]

My Girlfriend is out of town on vacation, I went out partying with one of her friends, we danced and things got a bit heavy. I told her she was sexy and may have said something about kissing her. I was drunk and now really ashamed and embarrassed. How do I talk to the friend and my girl?

[TheoryOfAvarice]

Accidentally?

Well, at least you're able to recognize that what you did was wrong of you... just tell them both what you told us. You were drunk and did a super stupid thing. Ask for forgiveness from your girlfriend; tell her you won't be doing it again.

Your girlfriend will probably be really upset, but assuming she's willing to forgive you and such, be mega patient with her. You messed up, and there's consequences. But if you really care about her, then be patient and show her that.

[greaterthan-gabbana]

tell your girlfriend straight up, don't wait around for her friend to tell her. then you'll be in trouble.

and tell the friend you're sorry, and say that you were intoxicated and just rambling or whatever you were doing

[Greeneyes4242]

Tell her the truth. Don't be mad if she's upset with you: your actions were stupid. Lying will only make it worse.

[Julianchavo]

Novel suggestion you have invented herccidentally hitting on someone! I doubt your being drunk will help you much! You can apologize to the friend, because anything you say to her will go back to your gf.

But good luck! Probably both of them will be mad at you anyway.

[Tulip2]

HEY! UNLESS YOU DIDN'T REALLY F You C K UP. like had sex with her.