Cuz 95% of girls nowadays are superficial & have no respect 4 themselves ! I totally understand where you're coming from but believe me not all hot girls are like that. I (and plenty of guys) consider myself 2 be a very attractive/sexy/beautiful girl but I also happen 2 have a brain, I am a determined person who doesn't fall 4 peer pressure ! That's what happen 2 girls nowadays 4 some reason they're total air heads & think that the more the go round the better their rap sheet will look. They also do it because of peer pressure & to be "cool"; which is total bull sh*t because I've been round guys all my life(d*** heads, nice guys, bad boys,etc) & they have all said horrible things bout all the sluts they slept with once they were through with them ! I personally rejected so many guys because they were all ass holes & were only interested in my looks that you have no idea, I still do & I'm a Junior in College lol (some guys just never grow up) honestly it bothered me a lot some times so I just ignored all of them & actually dated your average guy. I've never based a relationship because of looks (of course I gotta like the guy)but I'll say that's bout 40% the rest 60% based on solid things. All I can say is that,yes its true thatmost beautiful women are freaking cocky,air heads & superficial bitches but that's not true for all of us. There are some of us who actually don't think we're better than anyone else because of the way we look & have a brain & make decisions 4 ourselves :)
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Beautiful looks to you is confidence and power to a woman. You'd consider a gorgeous woman at the top of the dating scale. The best you can get and all men want it if they can get it. Women feel the same about confidence and power. So while you may meet a great, good girl who wants to be with you, you'll still pass her up if you're not attracted. The beautiful girls catch your attention. And while a girl may meet a great, good guy who wants to be with her, she'll pass him up if she's not attracted. The confident guys catch her attention. Basically, you're looking at it from the perspective in which you get a girl you're really attracted to, and the girl just picks the safe choice. If you want girls to do that, then I suggest you try going against your basic instincts of attraction and see how that goes. Try to not want beautiful women and go for average ones. Seem boring? BINGO!
i go for the guys who are wiling to prove tht they like me and are willing to do whatever it takes.the guys tht are shy/scared/scared/etc. I make sure they know their only gonna be in the friend zone.i go to the guys who end up breaking my heart > player type..i want a MAN. definition: someone that can support their girl(protect&provide).i don't speak for all girls, but its nice to know someone is going to be there for you and taking risks in your relationship.if you don't do that day one..its over !we(I) want the the good guys to step it up, so then I can acually have a reason to ditch my bad boys.its annoying; just be yourself, i(we) won't bite ;] ..if your descent looking with a great personality, and not getting any of the "hot" girls you want..its because you never showed your willing to take risk and prove to us your gonna be our #1 !
Too may answers that totally miss the point. There's very little black and white in life, just shades of gray. Look at it this way, when you were 8 years old, what did you want to be when you grew up? I doubt if it was an insurance salesman or a middle manager. You wanted to be some sort of cool duds who rode off into the sunset like Shane, Rick, in Casablanca, Bogie is anything, young Marlon Brando. Most of the women I know and most of the men are complex creatures who desire a nice place to live with the bills paid and a steady mate when they wake up. By mid afternoon, they are attracted to the class clown, by the time it's dark and they have loosened up, they want James Dean,the bass player in the band who shoots dope has a couple of bad habits that are easily overlooked at midnight and are far outweighed by his unkempt, tough aura (that he carefully cultivates because he knows it doubles the chances of getting laid).
Cultivate a wild side that doesn't conflict with the parts of your good boy persona that are worth holding onto. There are definitely women that are only attracted to you if you have some tats from prison and smacks her around every now and then. Especially if they had a dysfunctional home life that was similar to that. Complexity is more of an issue. A diet of white bread only isn't fun. Neither is a diet of french fries, They are both good at times
Lot of women date assholes and they marry a good man. There are tons and tons of things to talk about here.
Girls want a guy that is unavailable has no time for them. Why? because girls are attracted to guys that put THEMSELVES first that is a Alpha male trait and one that you need to learn. Even if you are a nice guy don't go out of your way to hang out or see a girl. If you have other things to do DO THOSE the girl can wait.
Remember girls love to chase after guys. You have to make them work for your attention and time too. Don't just give her all your love and time without her putting in effort to earn it. You need to not focus on what to do to get girls you should focus more on what you should do to yourself to attract girls.
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hey... it's not like that. Look me and my girls like a guy if he's smart and good looking. The guy who is mature, intelligent and mysterious! A deadly killer. We don't fall for bad boys. But let me tell you, if you have a great personality, good dressing sense, manners like a gentlemen and at least average good looks, girls find you likeable and want to date you. That's how it is with us girls.
because you guys arnt bold, fun I don't mean (take advantage of us) I don't like that player concept either but if I could find a good man that has a interesting personality too that's the best gold wonderful five star nothing wrong with it but you all are too nervous around us unplayful, queit usually shy :P turn off stuff whimpy bone up make a move be a man
I'm in the same boat man, in my case girls are intimidated and scared to approach me because of my looks...they think if your a good looking dude then you either taken or your a douch. A buddy of mine is average looking and pulls tail left and right, his secret...his naturally funny with confidence spewing all over, this guy can walk into a room full of chicks and make them laugh, leaving with all their numbers. So my conclusion that I made by observing him, is that you have to present your self with humor and confidence, keep the girl guessing if your into her or just teasing that will drive her insane to the point that she will need a constant dose of you to satisfy her desire...easier said and done I know.
Well in my opinion it's not that your boring it's just that we assume we know what you're going to be like whereas the bad boy is out of the ordinary and does things that are unusual. Personally I usually go for the good guys because the bad boys are just cocky assholes.
whats really annoying is that most men are fun, confidant, with great personalities. we just lack confidence when approaching women so the women don't give us a chance and miss out. then they complain that no confident men approach them.
seriously women really need to wise up a bit, men of this generation have embraced your equality but you offer none in return, instead we get told to man up etc.. why is it acceptable to say that? its no different than telling a woman to go make babies.they're neediness to be in a relationship. it's a huge turn off.
the way they move SO SLOW...most girls would like to be kissed on the first date.
they are already in the friendzone because of their slow movement by the time they ask, usually.I don't want a bad guy. I want a guy who I can laugh with, have fun with, and actually TALK to. About things I feel strongly about, debating issues etc. I wanna be able to run around barefoot in town with them and not feel restrained or over-protected.
Girls just wanna have fun ;)sadly, that's how it works and as stupid as ot is... its true...
which is why I say forget about women, because as soon as you don't care about them, they start running to u
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