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Who do you think has it worse? attractive women or attractive men? (Page 4)
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it all depends on the experience each person has gone thru
Seriously, what men are giving women cars? Really? Do you know anyone? Because I've heard it before, but never seen it once. Maybe I just run in different circles.
I've seen it. A friend of mine who owns a restaurant bought his girl at the time a car, but she wasn't even that pretty, smart, witty, or nice. Everyone hated her, I think she must've been great in bed and that's why he did it.
Women. Because we're more likely to get used or manipulated by men.
That's not true at all. Also, even if you were right in that statement, this is about attractive women not all women.
Most attractive women men want to be in relationships with, most of them want that, even though sometimes it doesn't work out that way. Dumping a hot woman after you had sex with her beacuse her personality sucks, isn't really "using" them. The same thing could be said when a woman has sex with a man in a relationship and then finds out he REALLY works at taco bell, and dumps him.
if your gonna tell people their opinions are wrong why the f*** did you ask!
Im not an ugly person myself. This not meant in a cocky way, I just mean that I take care of myself and I like taking care of myself. So..what you're sayinng is that I am a superficial bitch with no brains or own opinion and probably ride every guy that looks my way?
I'm in a sorority and across our building there is a fraternity with a LOT of super hot guys who get all the money they need from their parents. but they all are super cocky as well! there's no way in hell I am going to date one ot
Attractive women
Past: read some WWII jewish stories, et al.
Present: talk to some models
attractive woman + no respect to herself = whore, attractive men + show off = asshole> LOL
hahaaaa! love the answer
Lol, great biased question dude - love the way you called all that out...
Yeah I know what you mean dude, finally someone understand my pain!
I disagree at the 90% of women won't approach a guy. Girls always hit on me and approach me. I'm shy and they do it. I'm in college it happens in the classes, getting food, anywhere.
Individual perspective and experience does not represent the norm. Nor is 1 man a good sample size.
there is nothing bad about being attractive, whether you are a man or a woman. would you rather be ugly? I think not.
Seriously i have read feminist blogs from many women who claim to have lost weight after being fat and they dont like all the attention they are getting from men and wish they were back to being fat.
Attractive women. They have to worry about their looks and maintain them. Attractive guys usually don't do sh*t.
What about: Which has it worst, the nice guy or the indepent woman?
That is a good ?. You should formally ask it on GAG...or I will. :)
Ask and let me know... lol
thats a simple answer really. Nice guy has it worse. Both nice guy and independent woman are typical examples of behavior. Both of which women care about, and men however, really don't, not to the degree of women.
If both the nice guy and the independant womans goals are to attract the opposite sex, then obviously the nice guy has it worse. All things equal, being a physically attractive nice guy can and does prevent him from having sex. Being a physically attractive independan't women doesnt
"being a physically attractive nice guy can and does prevent him from having sex"
case and point, me. I told a girl I thought she was cute. she thought I was just messing with her.
I don't agree with you. I am attractive, independent, also, I am nice. A woman like me can get sex anywhen, this is true. However, I am not looking for just sex. And I would think that most "nice guys" are not looking for just sex as well. Also, I would like to add that when most guys tell a women that she is cute or pretty, she does think he is just saying that because he thinks that what we want to hear. Unless she is the type that enjoys her ego being stroked.
Well to make it fair, you have to even the odds, meaning if your solely basing the argument on who has it easier based on sex, well then obviously independent women have it easier.
However, lets take it one step further, while its not just based on sex, its also based on attracting the opposite sex.
Being independent as a woman (while its an inhibitor) its not a deal breaker. It would be like say if a hot woman smoked or drinked heavily. Most men would probably look past that, depending on how hot she is. This video explains that: link
Now, the nice guy however, has it by far worse, its not like "smoking" where most women look past it. For most men with the nice guy syndrome, he might as well be a leper.
Lmao I suppose you think two Beavers are better than one as well hahahaha
I still do not agree. I am very good looking, independent, pretty smart, and nice. I don't have guys lining up at my door. I even posted on here about it, title (question) 'I'm pretty sure I'm girlfiend worthy'. Nice guy, nice girl. They both have it rough, but the nice girl doent get the guy no matter how smart, independent, or hot she is. I am a example of that... by the way I love how I met your mother.
"They both have it rough, but the nice girl doent get the guy no matter how smart, independent, or hot she is."
Not really. Like that diagonal shows, it doesn't matter if your a crazy lunatic as long as your hot enough to make up for it. And being nice isn't being crazy.
You are thinking like a woman, women find peronality traits and behavior of utmost importance.
Its paramount.
The same thing isn't true for men.
Its Tertiary.
Being smart and independent can actually be inhibitors. If a woman is hot enough to have sex with more than once, most men are going to want to stay with her in a relationship. It provides easier access to sex obviously, for one. If a woman is hot enough to sleep with, the man is usually praying that she has something else going for her. But keep in mind looks come first for men. So like I said, a woman will be seriously considered if she's good looking.
You really seem to have this all figured out... Hoowever, you just argued with yourself because in your above details of your question, you talk about how men don't stay with women because of lack of Personalty... then you say men care more about looks. So which is it? And for the record, I wasn't the one who brought up could get laid first or faster. I was responding to other comments on my answer.
My keyboard is messed up or I would say more. By the way, why do you keep saying that being smart and independent are inhibitors?
its both. Men care about looks first and then won't stay with a woman because her personality sucks.
Theres an old saying "where there is a hot woman, there is a guy tired of f-ing her".
The thing is, he wouldn't be tired of f-ing her if she had more to offer.
A deep personal connection with a member of the opposite sex is what creates great sex.
Which only comes with personality, or connecting with someones personality.
Men pick women based on looks and hope later that she's good inside.
Men pride themselves on having all the answers and being smarter than other people.
If the woman in their lives knows something that they dont, its emasculating.
Plus, there is a feeling of taking care of a woman, or "rescuing her" that men like to feel that they are protecting her in a way. Knowing all the answers is like opening the pickle jar for a woman.
Men like to feel needed and helpful. A smart independent woman requires no help.
Thats why when women fake being dumb it works.
"ONLY want you for a specific trait, and damn the rest of you. " People live like that all the time.
What if that trait was "he makes me laugh" And someone says "but he's UGLY AS DIRT!" and you go SO? he makes me laugh.
And by the way. most mens fantasy is about being used as a sex toy and being USED for one thing.
And being liked for just their body only.
Men don't have a problem with that at all.
oops wrong person.
You have basically just told me that there is no hope for me. Thank you. Now I can move on with my life. Its really sad that men perfer a pretty dumb helpless girl over a beautiful smart independent woman. It truly is the mans lost.
Oh, and I have no problem using a man for sex. Ill use them before they use me, because from what you have said they aren't going to fall for me anyway.
"Its really sad that men perfer a pretty dumb helpless girl over a beautiful smart independent woman. It truly is the mans lost."
No, they prefer a beautiful dumb helpless girl over a beautiful smart independent girl.
Just like women prefer an ugly strong independent man over a handsome helpless man who lives with his mother.
A smart, funny,indepent woman is Intimidation for a man, not so much inhibitors. That's what it boils down to. " women prefer an ugly strong independent man over a handsome helpless man who lives with his mother." Men are supose to provide and "take care of" the women, so if a man lives with his Mother(who is taking care of him) then that defeats the purpose. Just like if a women can take care of herself than that defeats the purpose.
Attractive men, because they have to spend all their money on women.
Women! Men just want to get in their pants or have a trophy GF/Wife. Other women hate you or want to use you to attract men.
woman because they are normally weaker and can be taken advantage of...and guys usually make the moves
Holy wow! Looks like someone needed to rant! lol
Yeah to add to that if your a good looking guy, girls could play hard to get just to see how much you really want them...jeees
attractive women because drunks or jerks will try to just use the girl...people always asume they are just looks and no brains AND they can get raped easier/ get more stalkers...
Attractive women, because men think they are fair game.
Attractive women most definitely.
Woman duh! too easy. Cause its not hard for me lol