Why doesn't my girlfriend ever invite me out with her friends?

[Anonymous]

We've been dating a year, and she now rarely invites me to join when she goes out to the bar or has people over. When we do go out, she seems indifferent to my presence, despite my efforts to have a good time and involve her. Sometimes she even gets mad at me at the end of the night for not paying attention to her! When I ask to join, she says that she doesn't care either way. I do have my own social life, and I almost always invite her. I've tried talking to her about it, but she gets aggravated, and doesn't give any answers. What should I do?

[binocc]

Sorry to tell you, but she's being a BITCH to you. The next time she ignores you in front of her friends, challenge her and say "Why are you ignoring me?", or "Why are you being nasty to me", because at the moment from what you are telling me, she is using you as an item, just like her earing or necklace, you are there just to look good. She doesn't seem to care for you, nor does she have any sensitivity towards you.
If your efforts to making things work is being ignored, I'm afraid its time to move on. If you feel you should give it one more shot, talk to her very seriously, say "if you leave, I'm dumping you". Its harsh, but she is making you look like a spineless whimp. Have some balls DUDE!

[Gregs]

Women are not going to be happy no matter what you do, so just do whatever you want too

[Asker]

I do what I want to, and sometimes that means going to the bar with my girl. That's the problem. There's no good reason we can't go out and have a good time like normal people do.

[Gregs]

I don't think you understand, she is always going to find something to be pissed off about so when you take her out and she is pissed off you are doing what you want, if you like spending time with a pissed off girl, go for it, if not, leave her to be pissed off at home

[brianccc]

tell her that she should stop bitching because it annoying

[Asker]

I don't think you know this girl!