Is it bad to flirt with someone just because you're bored?

[Anonymous]

Is it bad to flirt with someone just because you're bored?

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+1 y

lmao half y'all guys saying its wrong but 99% of y'all probably cheaters😂

[007-Tarzan]

Ahahaha... been there, done that...

I find flirting sometimes as just mild joking. It's just fun to test each others wits. Sexual attraction and seduction doesn't always have to end up in sex... its important to have self control and know your boundaries too.

I dont know why guys in this thread are so wound up about being lead on... Guys... it's just a game.. a little fun... she has no obligation to actually get with you... atpp trying to fuck the first thing that talks to you 🤣🤣

[007-Tarzan]

Thanks for the MHO 😁

[Stupud]

Its not that we wanna fuckk whoever talks to us, maybe someone is lookin for company an you end up leading someone on to ghost them or whatever the case may be then they blame themselves and recluse further next time... if you bored go read a book leave people alone we not here for your flirty entertainment

[TheCloud2]

nope, i always do it, even though i never ended up dating one of those girls

[nithya11]

Definitely not. You're just flirting. It's not wrong. Moreover flirting is healthy.

[MysteriousDarkness]

You could be leading someone on to a dead end.

[Dav1ss]

If your single who's going to stop you

[Asker]

Exactly

[Dav1ss]

Thanks for mho

[MysteriousDarkness]

You could also come across as a bitch if the person you are flirting with asks you out on a date and then you turn them done because you were not interested in them.

[Dav1ss]

@MysteriousDarkness true

[Dav1ss]

But its not my choice how much the op cares about their image

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't see a point in flirting with somebody if you don't like them. That's like asking somebody to prepare a cake and then throw it in the garbage without eating it - if you don't like the taste and can't eat it - why are you baking the cake? It's a waste of time.

[Asker]

Because boredom lol.

[coachTanthony]

I eat when I am bored so if their isn't a sandwich available I guess I would consider flirting!

[Thotkiana]

I eat when I’m bored too

[PrincessGrail]

If you’re both single it’s ok

I know it ain’t right
But I don’t care...

Ariana Grande, Break Up With Your Girlfriend, I’m Bored

[Mollynotgemma]

Flirting is natural and we all do or even without realising it... as a girl I’ll see a girl out and asked where her dress was from... or to the postman I’ll ask him if he’s going home soon... as opposed to just taking the parcel and saying thank you! That’s flirting! We all flirt to get by in this world! We all flirt to make ourselves and other feel good!
We all communicate firstly by flirting! Wether we like it or not it’s a natural trait we have as humans... to make friends you have to flirt. SIMPLE AS THAT

[Maddyjojo_1798]

HOLY GOD YES Listen don’t do it. I know you’re bored af but do something else anything else. Go shave your dog. Go paint your nails. I. Don’t. Care. Just don’t flirt with someone when you’re bored. I’ve gotten myself into some dumb situations by doing this. Just please don’t do it. For the sake of your own sanity. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk

[Asker]

I've done it and its all fun, why stop

[Maddyjojo_1798]

In my personal experience I’ve had a few guys get super clingy, like stalker level clingy, and in some cases it ends with me having to cut them off and their feelings/emotions were harmed in the process. It’s cool if the other party knows you’re not serious though. I have a friend that I flirt with but we’ve been friends since we were little and we know neither of us are serious

[MysteriousDarkness]

It is bad to flirt when you are bored because you could lead someoneone to believe you are interested in them when you are not. If they ask you out on a date because of it and you turn them down you could end up being known as a bitch or an asshole for leading them on. If they get enough people leading them to a dead end then when someone is flirting with them because they are interested that person will not know it and might miss an opporunity with a wonderful person.

[MysteriousDarkness]

The one who asked this question has a lot of maturing to do.

[Asker]

Tldr🙄

[MysteriousDarkness]

That is so sad that you thought what I typed was too long for you to read.

[ElvenMr]

Just LMAO at this point.. this asker...

[Anonymous]

Especially if you're engaged, like the girl I like, supposedly is

Interesting situation. I met a girl a couple weeks ago. I had never meant to, but, a guy who introduced himself to me, introduced me to her, I don't really know why he did. She wanted to meet me supposedly, and we got to talking about some stuff, including where we were and why we were there. She flirted and talked with me almost the whole night, bought me a shot, etc.. but, her friend, a girl, who she lives with, told me the girl is engaged. Not only did the girl I like, not mention anything about being engaged, but, she never mentioned ANY other man in her life, AND he didn't show up to where we were that night.

Yet, on her instagram, it says "so and so has my heart". She doesn't know I know she's supposedly engaged, so, I have to be somewhat careful with how she continues to interact with me but, the wedding is in October, so, I have some time to figure out what her TRUE intentions are

[Texaskid1]

It is a shit thing to do. Maybe for you it is just fun and games but maybe the other person thinks you have an interest in them. Maybe they get their hopes up. You are toying with someone's feelings. Anyone that does that is not worth two dog shits ( and this coming from an asshole like me)

[Asker]

Why would i care about the other person’s feelings when im having so much fun with them

[DizzyDesii]

Its bad but people do it anyway. Im a weird flirter. If im not interested in them then ill flirt but throw in hints that i just like them as a friend 🤷‍♀️ So ig its more of a tease thing I don't know

[bklynbadboy1]

That's why your short ass always gets into trouble cause be playing but they be dead ass serious! Lmfao

[Purpleronnie]

Intentionally Leading a person on because your bored ? , you can think of anything else more constructive to do? Lol. Your playing with a persons feelings because your bored , that’s wrong and pretty stupid

[Asker]

Aww who hurt you boo?

[awkwardman]

I say its wrong as your kinda leading them on. But what do i know because "im a cheater" fucking wish i had the chance to deny that oh wait i can because i have never dated a girl in my life. Haven't even hooked up. Thats right im a fucking 25 year old virgin. Must be something wrong with me because im a virgin who doesn't cheat.

[Asker]

Nobody cares that you're a virgin honey. Probs why you dont think you're a cheater. If you had the chance to cheat, we both know you would😉

[awkwardman]

Actually no i shame cheaters as i have had friends who have been cheated on and know how much it hurt them. And yes plenty of people of used the fact im a virgin to say that i dont know shit. So dont assume that i would cheat given then chance or i could assume your a whore who fucks her dad.

[Asker]

Aww did i hit a nerve? You just don’t know it yet, but you're a cheater. Just accept it, ok?😌

[awkwardman]

And all women are whores. I never have cheated never will. So go fuck your dad like always

[Stupud]

You Just a stupid bitch ain't you? no one cares about “askers” opinion🖕 If you flirt because you bored you belong to the fuckin streets 🤷‍♂️Its that simple

[sexphobe]

Probs not great to lead people on in youve got no interest in them but still doesn't stop me from doing it anyway oops

[Sophie_111]

lolll I've done that but i think its ok if they know ur not into them and theyre not into u but if they are then its mean

[Kinogo]

As long as you let them know you're not interested in them, it's ok. Try not to confuse the person into thinking you're interested in them when you're not.

[jen_phils]

If you're leading someone on, then yes. If it's all in good fun then I say no. I'm terrible at flirting so I'm probably not the right person to answer this.

[Secret6620]

I have to be honest and say it's bad but I totally do it. 💙😇

[bklynbadboy1]

Lol at least your honest

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Because that is not real flirt, what do you think would happen if they develop real love for you because you were play flirting and had no idea? They're not going to like it if you tell them that. That just gives people issues.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I mean you have to give them signal that you're not really serious though

[Asker]

I dont care what they’re gonna like or not lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then you got problems whether you like it or not

[sean1234]

It might be possible to flirt with a girl and not realize it, but then again, that just might be the womans assumption that the guy is flirting when he is not.

[sean1234]

shoot, if I flirted because I was bored, I would be doing it to a girl that was not my type. 20 years older. TO be honest, there are no women to flirt with in this area of 1,000,000 people. :/

[spartan55]

I think it's a shit thing to to if you have no intention of following through. Sport flirts deserve to be thrown in mud puddle.

[Billie_]

I do it all the time. Flirting is fun! But I wouldn’t ever flirt with someone I don’t see myself with as that’d give off the wrong impression and that’s mean.