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Are you shocked when someone much older/younger than you rejects you because of your age? (Page 2)
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Never had it happen to me,
I think most older woman would be quit taken with me where I the type.
Do u prefer younger older or same age
Younger or same age, though milfs have a certain appeal.
Well in front of the eternity some ten or twenty years age difference are not the world. Of course the younger one should be at least at age of consent. So I would feel rejected due to another reason and the age is only pretext.
Not really. Some people are close minded like that.
My girlfriend is 6 years younger than me. I asked her if she would be an issue and she said no
Im fine being closeminded
Not surprised. Women reject men based on age more than men reject women.
True, I don't want a single-mom counted as my girlfriend. I then need to love those other children, too. And maybe I end up with no sex or very less. Could also happen with a single woman (no children with her) but that can be found out in advance.
Only once has that happened. He claimed I was too young for him, but he was only 3 years older than me.
I've done that before. 3 years was a huge gap for me until i hit 24 š
no i wouldn't be that surprised although its usually not my age as to why a girl wouldn't want to be with me , i'm sure there is other reasons
Oh well it would def be one of my main reasons but yea there could be others
Everyone has his/her preferences. Nothing is wrong with this. It's just that said preferences should be respected.
Yea if only people respected them
Honestly... It's 1 year younger and like 5 years older for me to be interested
Yea 0-3 for me
Half your age plus 6 years. Any younger than that number is no good.
Yea that doesn't work for me
Fits with my girlfriend, too. She is 28.
I was like hold up gurl once because she was 15 and i was 24
Yes she wanted the D
Damn
I've learned to accept it especially after a cashier offered me the senior discount.
Lmao
I'm not shoked. I usually date 5-15 years older, A lot of women I ask are shocked that I would be interested.
shocked not shoked. I hate the lack of edit.
Lmao
When I was 19 years old I like a girl that was 24 years old, I told her that I liked her but she rejected because she said I was 2 Young for her.
That is too young tho lol
lets say when women a few years younger or a few years older hit on me its fine i got no problems with that
does me hitting on you brother you?
you're only a year younger. But i think its best you flirt with someone who flirts back
same age as you 24 but i understand maybe i don't flirt with you when you are in the right mood you want me to stop i get that
but then again you never had me between your legs
hooooooly smokes that last part had me like š
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is that good or bad
i will make you more wet then camp crystal lake
Eww stop. Thats jason voorhees type creepy
sorry my bad it was just a movie joke
hows your night so far?
@DizzyDesii was the update meant for me?
Are you older/younger than me
no same age i guess i just miss read the update
if you cool with it would you share your answer on my question Girls, what do you wear that's sexy? ā
Anyone who become shocked from that has a delusional sense of reality.
Sadly a lot are shocked that we dont want they old/young ass
That's called ego then my friend and a lot of people need a reality check I agree with you.
Really depends how old, I have no problem dating 15 years younger
Damn
Even a bigger gap than that I have been with and age wasnāt the issue. How about the actress who is 35 and recently married a 70 year old director
I mean I enjoy dating those thate are my exact age, but yes its felt kind of weird when someone one year older or younger rejects me because of age
I prefer same age. I used to reject people a year younger šš but now 1-2 isn't as bad
Nope. Just the thaught about a HUUGE age gap sickens me. Up to 5 years is okay in my oppinion. Not any bigger
I dont even like anything over 2-3 years lol
I feel you sista! Keep beeing your AWESOME self gurl!
Sista š yikes
What? š
Was it dorky?
Oh. So now we dont answer on kind dm's either...š
I donāt normally try to date girls who I think may reject me because of an age difference. I have date many girls from 18-67 and I am 49.
Gah lee
No. I'm shocked at the amount of younger women that want to Persue a relationship with someone my age though.
You look good for 43 dude, go out and pull them young women.
My wife & I pull plenty of them š¤
What's your secret to looking young though.
Man, I don't know cause I'm still sweating out toxins from the 90s, I have not been good to myself. I eat what I want, I don't exercise, & I wouldn't pass a drug screen today. Tomorrow doesn't look good either...
But I'm happy. I don't carry the stress of unhappiness. I love my wife and daughter, I laugh a lot, I have a small circle of close knit friends and I own my own business doing what I love from home.
In short It's not always the age, it's the mileage.
Oh I can tell you a story about that one. That's for sure.
I bet
I like older women.
I wouldn't be shocked at all. The norm is to date someone your own age.
Good to know
Norm is anything you feel in love with and not underage. But widely accepted is younger woman, older man with a reasonable age gap. 14 years like with my girlfriend is close to maximum but still okay and refreshing. :-)
Curious do you have a standard? Mine is nine years older than my oldest child.
Mine is 0-3 years
Does that apply to everyone in your social group?
Iāll befriend someone of any age but i would not date someone of any age
Can I ask another question, just want your opinion, it sorta relative? Okay I only want to date or communicate with people of a certain age. An since I have children in their twenties I treat all twenty years old people like children, weird huh? Okay now I met this 29 year old and she's incredibly adorable. I have this crazy loving feeling for her. I feel sad if I lower my standards and I would be really really unhappy if I lost this majestic friendship. What are your thoughts?
No i think you should treat those 20 year olds as kids because theyre the same age as your kids. she's basically 30 so i mean she's not exactly a kid but thats a 15 year gap. If you really love her go for it but i personally wouldn't
It's actually seventeen years difference and sometimes sixteen years different depending on birthdays. That wasn't the question. You have solid advice okay I did for seven years it was incredible then last summer. She decided to move on. And I no longer text with her in a friendly manner or at all. But I do comment of her post but won't return her messages. If it was you or you in this situation would you or could you explain the vibe here? I don't feel I need to explain, she broke it off with me and I went through some for real shit to let her go. But she is, I can't explain it totally completely incredible. So lost for words now. Can't even focus on others. I feel empty
If you feel empty and she doesn't want it anymore then it becomes toxic. So iād move on which is what i did wheni wanted kids by someone older who didn't want that
And the comments on her posts?
But I love being toxic!
There's no way for people to know that about you beforehand
I advertise it a lot. Some just challenge it
How do you advertise it? You should know by now, hints do not work on many guys.
Here and in person i say it when i introduce myself
I think at my age I should be able to hit on any adult. But I'm certainly no stranger to rejection.
Okay
I would never be with a girl your age because you are not ripe for bigger challenges
Fine by me
Mine is 14 years gap to me. I'm fine with it and so she is. :-)
Yeah I sometimes do feel shocked when. They do that
You look young tho
You mean I'm shocked when they approaches me. Never been rejected for age gap. I reject them for that.
Its kinda a vice versa question. I've never gotten rejected for my age either but yes i reject them
use's memes with children in them about sexual and adult relationship stuff.. lol you crack me up lol
Lol my bad
I don't really go for women that are much older than I am. So I wouldn't know.
Grow up and stop acting like a total bitch to everyone you don't like in that way. Learn to be respectful and polite to others instead if a total bitch because one day someone who's a bigger bully will come around that will put you in your place and not take your rude shit. So for your own sake learn to treat others the way you want to be treated or is that to hard for you to do?
How about you learn to read before calling someone a bitch ANON... im saying this to the majority of older and young guys who still dont take NO THANKS for an answer. This is for the ones who see it as a challenge and still hit on me. So stfu and come from under anon
He has valid points. What if your "perfect" age-gaped love is saying the same thing back to you? Sure, it is your decision but live with the consequences of your choice.
Never experienced but i rejected 2 a guy 3 younger than me... And i rejected most of my older suitors
It's not shocking to me. Some women are into older/younger men and some aren't. Preference doesn't shock me
Yup just like u #shocked it's better to date me u know
Just like u shocked me when I got rejected by u ( it's better to date me u know )
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ššššššhey rejection sucks u know
And it feels worse when u haven't ever been in a relationshipššššššš
Not really. Because I am a singleish black almost 42 year old Chef. Living in a collage town. Lol.
Damn
Ikr!!
Yeah I sometimes do feel shocked when. They do that
Do u feel you're too old
Yeah exactly , not looking forward to my birthday this year
Yea same. Mines this week
Happy early birthday!
Thank you!!
I think 5 years older is fine or 5 years younger is fine but Iām 25 I think as long as there mature will be fine
0-3 for me
I hear what you saying
Age really matters most while you're young. For me 5 years younger would be a crime. 5 years older would still be uncomfortable. In 10 years I won't care either way.
No I donāt think girls older than me like 5 to 10 years older would be interested
If they're more than 15 years older than me, then it's a NO. Also, I don't even consider those younger than me. Children 😂
Lmao
I like older men so doesnāt bother me, I donāt care about age gaps.
Good girl! But please no dusty senior, ha? ;-)
@roland77 attractive older men...
Ha ha, I read you!
I haven't been in a situation like this before but if i am rejected i won't be shocked
I was.
I would only be shocked if someone younger than me rejects me because I'm not old enough. That is ridiculous.
How old are you
Eightteen
If someone younger than you rejects you, you should be happy. You dont wanna go to jail
Laws here make it legal for me as long as she's 16
It doesn't really bother me but I know it bothers many.
Fair enough
Why does it matter to you what legal consenting people do?
Because theyre hitting on me... i said they can go elsewhere with that and need to learn to accept that im not interested in the age gap but they dont respect it. So thats whyi give a fck my dude
Nope. no bother, I just move on to the next one. Plenty out there that don't care bout age.
I've never been rejected due to my age. In fact I have had the opposite issue. I'm shocked when guys much older or much younger than me hits on me.
I donāt get rejected because of my age.
Well have u rejected anyone for their age
Yes, boys, children.
u get hit on by many boys?
@manmeat I donāt get hit in by āmanyā of any age as Iām mostly with my boyfriend but yeah. Itās happened.
You sound pedophobic.
Because i dont want to date a dad or a grandpa or kid makes me that? Sure ok
Haha that's what you get for being beautiful
No one rejected me
I wholeheartedly agree with you.
Thank you
I'm not looking forward to this.
I bet
never experienced rejection
Have u ever rejected someone for being too old/young
never age is just numbers
No, it wouldn't bother me.
No, I've rejected people for the same reason.
People got some balls... thats all i can say
Age discrimination is against the law in uk
Welp glad im not there
Age is just a number.
Its not
Well once I kinda hooked up with a hot lady 12 years older than me. And she was too awesome in bed. She could put any 20 yr old to shame. And I've had girls 7 years younger than me. And that was kinda awesome too. So in my opinion age is a number, but of course not every time.
Doesn't shock me I just move on to the next
Smart
No, I don't mess with that either.
Thats good
Can't agree with you more.
Thank you
At your service, my lady.
Nope. Its reasonable.
Sounds fair