And as a mother... Casual dates you don't bring around your kids.. Little kids can get attached to someone and then don't understand why they ain't around anymore..
That's what I think... My kids grown and still wouldn't do that lol and my older daughter bout to be 24 and still don't like seeing dudes just checking me out... She gets all protective lol
But that's your feelings... What about how the kid feels? And if you ain't going to respect s lady's kids feelings, if she really going to want to date you, then?
Right! I don't think that's right... You do that when they ain't around... Unless it's ltr or your hubby, but single with kids, save till they ain't around unless it's serious
yes... on first hand you should'nt be hitting on a married person... so dont be a pervert to hit on an married person or else u will get into troubles...
I think it depends on the type of flirting. It should be something more mild than you'd do if she were not with her child, but some flirtatious behavior to show interest is fine.
Even if it bothers the child to see a stranger hitting on their mom? I just personally feel that something kids shouldn't be around for unless it's your partner your flirting/showing affection to
A kid might not know why you're approaching... They may not know your intent till it happens... Just personally think there's a better way then flirting with strangers when they around...
Fair enough. I'd agree it's not the ideal circumstance to approach someone but if it's someone you rarely see or may never see again, you may never have another chance to make a connection. Now that I'm a little older, I have some regrets of women I never approached for various reasons when I was younger. I sometimes wonder what may have been if I didn't let the opportunity slip away.
Well see, but there you go I personally feel you shouldn't be flirting at workplace either... There to do a job, not find someone to date... That should stay sperate in my opinion
Workplace was traditionally the second most common place people met their spouse (after school). I think online has maybe passed it now. It's still a very common way for people to meet.
To each their own... And maybe that's why in a lot of companies, there's rules against that... Cuz it caused too many problems in the workplace... I'm the don't shit where you eat type
Oh companies have always had those rules, but the rules are to protect the company, they're not for the staff lol. They're like the 50 page terms of service websites have you accept.
Harass or not done kids aren't down with strangers hitting on their parent... I personally feel it's better to keep flirtng/dating away from your kids unless the relationship would become a ltr
I don't. Well, not if they give you room for it/if the vibe is there. In fact hoping to meet someone's children - and treat them like they might be staying at mine with their mom some time soon.
I've done it. she was wearing a bikini that showed her whole ass. I was wasted too, and I thought she was looking at me seductively, but that was just the alcohol talking.
I doubt the kid cared. I don’t remember how old he looked. Wasn’t a baby or anything. She was probably in her 30s. If she’s at a public pool showing her bare ass in front of her kid I doubt they have many morals to begin with.
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Hell no, there is a behavior you have to hold with a single mother, there are rules 😎🤙🏼
And as a mother... Casual dates you don't bring around your kids.. Little kids can get attached to someone and then don't understand why they ain't around anymore..
HmmmnM, I agree, that is part of the unwritten rules
No, I do not flirt with girls in front of their children.
That's good... I don't think that's cool to do in front of kids
Depending on what they say. Normal casual chat and asking their number at the end isn't so bad.
I don’t think it’s inappropriate as long as it’s not like sexual or explicit or anything.
I agree
Dont think it's ever appropriate. Monkey see monkey do.
Right! But also some kids get sensitive if that, don't like seeing a stranger hit on their parent
Nah kids aren't stupid. You best leave that until you're kids free
That's what I think... My kids grown and still wouldn't do that lol and my older daughter bout to be 24 and still don't like seeing dudes just checking me out... She gets all protective lol
Nope. I'd rather be straight up than dance around it like some pussy.
Stopped giving a shit about being "proper" long time ago. It's refreshing! =D
But that's your feelings... What about how the kid feels? And if you ain't going to respect s lady's kids feelings, if she really going to want to date you, then?
yes I do. I mean 1 or 2 subtle comments or hints prob ok but nowt more. kids pick up more than we realise. but who am I to judge
Not when it's explicit. But veru subtle and smooth things that the kid won't pick up on are fine as long as you're conservative with it.
It's trashy as fuck. It's the kind of thing someone might do if they were not parented correctly.
Yes why would you even do that in the first place
Right! I don't think that's right... You do that when they ain't around... Unless it's ltr or your hubby, but single with kids, save till they ain't around unless it's serious
Yeah and I feel like that could negatively affect a child if they are young, children are influenced by their parents
Exactly
yes... on first hand you should'nt be hitting on a married person... so dont be a pervert to hit on an married person or else u will get into troubles...
The picture implies a "heroic" single-mother looking for some strange.
@KrakenAttackin it looks like they bought some vegetables and returning to home...
OK, but the question is that somewhere between the farmers market and their residence, "home slice" will creep in and try to shoplift the pooty.
@KrakenAttackin ok but
https://youtu.be/ppPKgog66uY
I think it depends on the type of flirting. It should be something more mild than you'd do if she were not with her child, but some flirtatious behavior to show interest is fine.
This is all assuming you know she's single.
Even if it bothers the child to see a stranger hitting on their mom? I just personally feel that something kids shouldn't be around for unless it's your partner your flirting/showing affection to
Well, you have to read the situation. If the child is showing concern or anxiety because of how you are approaching his/her mom, you need to back off.
A kid might not know why you're approaching... They may not know your intent till it happens... Just personally think there's a better way then flirting with strangers when they around...
Fair enough. I'd agree it's not the ideal circumstance to approach someone but if it's someone you rarely see or may never see again, you may never have another chance to make a connection. Now that I'm a little older, I have some regrets of women I never approached for various reasons when I was younger. I sometimes wonder what may have been if I didn't let the opportunity slip away.
I can see that...
Mean understand/see your point
No, not if it's very mild. Workplace safe level of flirting.
Well see, but there you go I personally feel you shouldn't be flirting at workplace either... There to do a job, not find someone to date... That should stay sperate in my opinion
Workplace was traditionally the second most common place people met their spouse (after school). I think online has maybe passed it now. It's still a very common way for people to meet.
To each their own... And maybe that's why in a lot of companies, there's rules against that... Cuz it caused too many problems in the workplace... I'm the don't shit where you eat type
Oh companies have always had those rules, but the rules are to protect the company, they're not for the staff lol. They're like the 50 page terms of service websites have you accept.
That is so not true... My one sister got fired for fraternizing with another employee
I wasn’t suggesting the rules weren’t true. I’m saying the rules exist to protect the company from legal liability, not for the benefit of staff.
Guys try and finger me and grope my breasts sometimes.
In front of your kids?
Yes Sometimes
And you feel that's appropriate in front of your kids?
Not really as long as you don't harass them
Harass or not done kids aren't down with strangers hitting on their parent... I personally feel it's better to keep flirtng/dating away from your kids unless the relationship would become a ltr
Yes, and in very poor taste too.
Right! Agree 💯
I don't. Well, not if they give you room for it/if the vibe is there. In fact hoping to meet someone's children - and treat them like they might be staying at mine with their mom some time soon.
Yes.
I think that it is wildly inappropriate.
I agree
I've done it. she was wearing a bikini that showed her whole ass. I was wasted too, and I thought she was looking at me seductively, but that was just the alcohol talking.
Yeah, but how old was the kid? And how'd the kid feel about you hitting on their mom?
I doubt the kid cared. I don’t remember how old he looked. Wasn’t a baby or anything. She was probably in her 30s. If she’s at a public pool showing her bare ass in front of her kid I doubt they have many morals to begin with.
I guess 🤷🏼♀️