Do you think I made things awkward now by asking my crush what his intentions were?

[Anonymous]

I got a little drunk and was questioning my crushes intentions, when he suggested coming over to my house to watch a movie with blankets and popcorn while getting drunk, and it just seemed like he wanted to hook up. So I texted him like at like 2 am and was like hey, what are your intentions when you come over to my house and watch a movie, like are you really trying to watch a movie or watch a “movie” basically asking if he was trying to hook up or genuinely want to watch a movie and get drunk.. and I just feel like once he reads it, it’ll be awkward…. but I was going crazy and just wanted to know if that was his plan. Anyway, do you think I made things awkward now by asking and so late at night too.

[chippy161]

Does he know you like him? Do you think he likes you? Were you asking because you want to hook up?

[Asker]

I don't know if he knows I like him or not... and I don't know if he likes me... and I was asking cause I actually want to watch a movie and not do that with him.. So I don't know. Does me asking what his intentions are giving it away that I like him?

[chippy161]

No it asks what his intentions are because you are worried they could have other meanings

[Asker]

Okay good, I mean he wants to get drunk and watch a movie... that’s definitely implying a hook up, but then he’s younger than I am. Maybe it’s normal his generation does that I don't know.

[Anonymous]

Jus5 fuck him already, you asked the same question 3 times in one day. Geeze.

[i22on]

What did he respond?

[Asker]

he said he definitely is just trying to watch a movie and drink.. and then texted me again and said he felt uncomfortable now...

[i22on]

So, that is your answer. He just want to watch movie and drink for now. Just meet him, watch movie and you will see is there anything else.

[Asker]

It is too late now... he unfriended me after I asked him why he doesn’t feel comfortable coming when he said he wanted to...

[i22on]

Well, it is a problem now.
Best you can now is to wait some time for him to calm down. Maybe he will text back to you. If he does not text you after some time, you can text him and explain yourself. You can explain that his invitation seems to you like he want sex with you and that just wanted to know is it true. Say that watching a movie with a guy at somebody place usually means sex (it usually does, but not if you are just friends). And ask him if you can go back where were you at that point.

Maybe it will solve problem between two of you, and there is also possible that he will continue beeing mad.

[Asker]

well he unfriended me... i don’t see how it’ll fix anything.. and I still don’t know if was trying to hook up or really wanted to watch a movie without that happening.. I mean, I wouldn’t have mind hooking up with him if he felt the same way I did, but if it was just gonna be like a one time hook up then no. So yeah I don't know what to do, I wish we could just sit and talk

[i22on]

He unfriend you from Snapchat? You can text him on cell phone or instagram, facebook, whatsapp, viber or something?

You will never know for sure what he wanted. If he asking you out for a dates like coffe, dinner, cinema or something like that, it can be that he likes you. But if he ask you just to hang out in someone place and nothing else, it is then just sex.

Don't stress about it. You can try solve problem by apologizing to him and explaining yourself, but if he will be childish like that, there are many guys wainting for you. You are pretty so it won't be a problem.