I honestly can't bear looking into their eyes for more than 3 seconds, I get so nervous and I look away in such a ridiculous and fast way lol I feel ashamed! Because I don't want them to think I am a weirdo or that I want something, well usually I do but I won't admit it right away. Sometimes when I like a guy I keep staring at him slyly from time to time to check that he does the same. I mean, thats how a man shows interest and that's how a woman shoots her shot, isn't it?
Staring into someone's eyes? For men is showing interest? For women is their way to shoot their shot?
Don't be nervous. It shows your interest whether it's romantic or just showing your are paying attention to someone. Practice staring longer with a friend or family member. See who can stare the longest.
A lot of people are the same way. When you're feeling nervous, remember that the guy may be feeling just as nervous about you. I suspect you will get better with eye contact the older you get. For now try playing a little game in your head to look at someone for one second, then progress to two seconds, and so on. You don't want to come across as weird by starring at them too long either, so don't go beyond 5 seconds with a stranger. The look at something else, like your drink or around the room, then back to them.
Sometimes it’s good to make eye contact with people you are not interested, just to practice. Like for example older women, they will tell flattered and you won’t feel uncomfortable cause you don’t care
Hahahah I would say yes. I pretty sure couple years ago I wasn’t, but then I realised it’s so powerful. Imagine being a person that’s not scared to look into someone’s eyes😍. People automatically think damnn he/she is brave and it’s also like a respect thing for me. It’s awful when you talk to someone and all they do in look at the floor :(
Wait i was just thinking, I do look at the people talk to , just not in their eyes. I dont want y'all thinking I'm out he looking at the floor all day long😂
I’m mean what would be quite creepy 😂 it’s usually natural like look into someone’s eyes for couple of seconds than focus on something else and then go back to eyes. It depends on how comfortable, if it’s a person I know well, I don’t mind
That's how the blonde girl who was into my date "shot her shot", by staring, and nothing happened, cause instead of staring I walked up to him and took him for myself
@scooogy I wonder... it might be the end of a relationship, or maybe both will just not date the guy and that will be it. Guy better makes up his mind and pick someone to make it easier
I simply threw the fact that i was single and hours later he came on the rain and gave me a note with his phone number and instagram. Even if he didn't I would have put more pressure into him. Id wouldn't have stopped until he knew I wanted him. The true story wasn't this sweet, it didn't last, he didn't really like me, he just wanted to fuck me real bad.
Oh hell nah! Hahah It won't stop me at all. If I like someone I will go for it, I win't sit down and regrer the lost chances nah. Life is too short for that. Ig i am too ambitious, good for me.
well god bless for that, i highly doubt it will ever become more common or more mainstream in the world, at least just not in my lifetime, but it would be nice and awesome if women made the first move or approached guys, asked them out first or initiated the relationship, as much as guys, men do, but like i said, i sadly don't see it ever becoming more common
tons of guys love the feeling that a girl is chasing or pursuing them as well, we want the feeling that the girl is putting in effort to start a relationship with us, plus, even though what you see in movies is different from real life, while i'm sure it does happen at times in real life, just not common or often as to what you see in movies or TV, but it's nice and awesome, heartwarming, to see a girl fall for or end up liking, the shy, quiet, awkward or nerdy, geek guy, etc.
Im not into shy nerdy geek guys but yeah. I mean, i will pursue a man like a lady, not like a thirsty hoe, gotta be discreet bc they may take it the wrong way. Thats why sometimes women dont shoot their shot. Bc they dont want to be considered easy or bc they are too shy and want to be seeked. Years ago i wanted to be seeked but seeing guys dont, I fucking will.
Looking into the eyes is the window to their soul and who they are as a person. I have no problem looking into a girls eyes. And i love it when she looks into mine. I offer her a look at my soul.
