Guys Flirting with intent vs. Flirting with intention; what are the MAJOR differences?

[Coulis]

How do you flirt if you are just entertaining yourself vs. When you really want to be involved with a girl?

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ERROR UN THE QUESTION: Flirting for fun vs. Flirting with intent

[perfectchaos]

If it's for fun I tend to be very bombastic so she knows it is not serious. Even then it's by women I trust. If its intentional I start out small like commits to judge and work out to more meaningful ones. That is my approach.

[Coulis]

So, if I understand correctly, if you are serious you test the waters and are gauging the girl's reaction?

[perfectchaos]

Yes. Its especially important now a days for guys to test the waters. One compliment can ruin our lives.

[Coulis]

Yes, yes and yes. Thanks!

[vald9inches]

Hmmm good question i haven't thought about it before. But i would say my flirting is the same in both cases the only difference being is my intention.

[vald9inches]

I would also say that i may be a lot more nicer or thoughtful if i wanted to be involved with her

[Coulis]

Yeah but different internal intentions manifest in actions. I understand the "nicer" part though.

[LazyProphet]

I'm kinda shy so when I flirt it is definitely with intention. One big difference though is if a guy is flirting with intention he'll get your phone # or ig or something, if not then it is probably just casual flirting.

[Coulis]

What if the environment doesn't allow?

[LazyProphet]

He will still if he's interested enough, I hate bugging girls at work so I usually don't flirt with them, but I've gotten 2 girls ig that I met while they were working. It does make it hard though

[Coulis]

Well apart from that I guess getting more obvious and less shy about showing interest.

[Anonymous]

I'm going to guess you lost your virginity before 20