Which have you experienced more out of these scenarios (disregard the memes)?

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None of the above are technically problem questions IN GENERAL, but a lot of guys/girls do these things literally in less than an hour of meeting you. What makes em think we know them well enough to just up and get down like that ON THE SAME DAY of meeting? lol. And the nerve of the friends trying to scrape up their friends failed attempt lol. “Well if you won't let him have your number, can i? Cause i find you fine af too.” Lol before the pandemic hit, these type of pickup lines were all too common where I’m at 🤣 
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razelove · Accepted Answer

I'm going with D, there have been at least 3 times I can recall that I've showed up to a date, the girl's there with a friend, ok, no problem, we are strangers meeting from the internet after all, and they invited other guys out to meet them at the same time!

Usually I'm simply the first because I'm paranoid and like to scope a place out, know where the exits are, be there early, and have the option to bail if I see someone calling as my phone is ringing and they look way different, or something feels off.

Anyway, each time that happened my thoughts were the same, what is this, a fucking audition? I'm not getting paid, I'm out of here. So I start leaving, she pleads with me to stay, the friend (s) and other guy (s) are still there, I'm still leaving. Just awkward as all hell. The one that sticks out most in my mind was this Japanese girl, she said she was there with friends, but it was 2 other dates, and to them I was another "friend" I'm feeling it's going nowhere and leaving, one of the other guys starts asking when they're going to see each other again, she's like we won't, I chose him tonight (me)... Oh no, I might have a dirty dick, but even I have common sense on where I shove it, like avoid garbage disposals.

That gets me the most with online dating, "the audition" Do that shit before the date, or while dating several people and making individual time. Don't try to make it overlap without telling anyone involved, so fucked up.

MrTuxedo · Accepted Answer

I've been approached by girl who was with group of friends, and she asked me out, and I politely rejected, and then a few minutes later one girl from the group also asked me out, I also rejected because I thought it would be inappropriate.

Joey_007 · Answer

None of the above I'm afraid, I guess since a guy approaching a girl is different and for me it's the other way around & I prefer to know someone before I ask them to hook up (to limit that no) and approaching a girl off the street isn't something I've tried... I think I could do it but I have my doubts (unless I'm punching below my weight, no doubts then). The only thing like that, that's ever happened to me is a friend/cousin would introduce me to a group of their friends & we'd all hang for a week or so & out of left field a girl in the group I was introduced to scurries off into a corner somewhere & my friend/cousin asks me if I like the girl & if I'd date her, which were all memorable moments that let a n. gga know he got it nah'm sayin. XD

Lynx122 · Answer

The only one I could relate to was the switch to a different messenger one cause I do that sometimes. For instance I like gaga but the messaging system sucks in my opinion so I try and talk to people somewhere else if I can and I want to have a longer conversation.

percival27 · Answer

Well.. I am in a platform where people go not only for dating, but for Language Exchange, and meet people from o ther cultures. I have a pic of me in my profile (it is clearly not a pic of a model, just of me, a normal guy), and some women in the third line of the chat, tell me that they want a pic of me.

I have no idea why... haha. Can someone explain?

My only hypothesis is they think the pic in the profile is fake.

Jjpayne · Answer

When you meet a guy/girl online and that same day they’re like “can i text you on something else, this site/app is so weird to work.” (Yet the date on their profile shows they’ve been on there for years lol).

I think it's closer to this option for me 🤔

ohshee · Answer

I've had the opportunity to experience all of them, but there is the person inside of me didn't wouldn't want any of those done to me so I don't allow myself to do them at all to anybody else I feel if I can stand on my own two feet did I better just sit down

Dragonpurple · Answer

I was too shy to approach, so I would never have done that alone or in a group.

I have never sent or received a pic, I'm barely online... would rather be outside hiking or riding my motorcycle, or going on trails on my atv up the mountain... when the snow melts.

Call me a loner... lol.

Trooper205 · Answer

I've had 2 or 3 of these experiences happen before, all of them with the same person: My current Woman. <3

She and I met right Here, on GirlsAskGuys, and we texted all throughout the night, until the Sun rose. Within an hour, we exchanged Facebook Profiles to become further comfortable with each other. (Lifestyles, hobbies, photos, etc.)

After a Month or so, we started getting interested in exploring each other in a more naughty way.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Okay, so, Pro Tip for women: If a guy is asking you for more photos, it means the photos you put up are shit. He's trying to give you another chance in a polite way. Also, sometimes this is due to you only showing your head and not the rest of your body. And many times it's due to you only having ONE photo!

Wiredone · Answer

I've been out of the dating scene for years but I do go into chat groups. I have women asking me for nude pictures and wanting to chat other ways. I never ask for pics other than face pictures.
When I was dating I'd never approach a woman in a group. I always waited until they were alone.
I'd have to say all of the above in different situations

ElvenMr · Answer

Lol at those memes!
I used to ask for pictures/get asked for pictures when i was chatting in chat rooms, and facebook and such was not widespread yet.

And it looks like you are saying that we should approach girls alone and not in groups, if we want to have any success.

JDavid25 · Answer

I've had the first one happen to me a few times.. The second one maybe once or twice in that exact way.. 😂😂.. I've had "E" happen to me once.. Most of the girls I talked to are "saints" I guess.. 😂😂😂..

Hans222 · Answer

The question if they can contact you on another platform is the most common. That's a favourite technique of scammers and catfishes 😎👺

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

B, C and E. No more other body parts photos, i learned my lesson, no flexing, no half nude, no grey sweatpants.

Tyrael · Answer

I've encountered none of these from any perspective lol.

loves2learn · Answer

I’m realizing just how out of practice I am with dating. Sounds exhausting. Glad I’m married.

Shark_61695 · Answer

For me it is more often to get a message and by the time I go to read it they have had their profile blocked for being fake.

karaspara · Answer

All of them but especially the online stuff like hey send me a pic or can we message somewhere else etc

AdithyaR · Answer

I've never been on either side of any of these situations. Life of a book obsessed introvert.

TallAnon · Answer

I've been a few of those, definitely not the group stuff, I'm quite private, but a different platform (not phonenumber) and asking for pics, yes.

AydenHazor · Answer

Ladies don't typically approach guys so I don't exactly get any of these, but they're all creepy af

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