Does he like me from how he is when with me?

[Anonymous]

Met this guy in the a few months or so ago gym one of the times I stopped I looking at him for a few seconds he winked I swiped the card to the entrance looked back at him he winked again. We'd stand close to each other a lot felt some sort of attraction there. I walked by the area he trains one time I heard "there she is" from his friends and another time I went to look for him his friends where there said hi and when I turned away heard "oh she came" . He helps me on the bench press he usually comes up close behind me leaning in or trying to scare me. He grabbed my hands before on the bench press putting my hand in the right place like no let me admiring my hands. I accidently went too far back on the bench hit him he didn't move stayed there. In between sets we'd be talking we'd look deep in each others eyes. He's started walking upstairs after asking if I needed to get my stuff saying let me walk you or I'll walk you. He often comes up behind me bringing his face close saying boo or hello leaning in close. Also seems like he might be introducing me to his close friends? In the bench area one of his close friends were there he kinda introduced her to me. Calling her over saying just my name almost like she would know who I was and she came and said hello. And he seemed to bigging himself up in front me. Does that mean he talks about me to his friends? today he helped me with bench.

[Luckycharms12]

He clearly likes you go on a date already

[Asker]

Does his friends know about me and that girl? since it wasn't like " hey this is.." only calling friends name and saying my name. I spoke to her a little bit too. He didn't walk me after that time I guess maybe to ask her what she thought? I'm sure he'll ask me at some point we're developing stage I think. He's my pt but we met before we were like that he used to check names in the slot etc I felt like there was attraction there we seem to be getting closer. I don't think he sees me as a client either. From having other pts lol they never acted like this.

[Luckycharms12]

Well some of them are flirts but could see you as more id play or cool see what happens clearly something there

[Asker]

Was he trying to get the friends opinion of me? was that him introducing her to me? I was quite surprised when he did that. He didn't walk me up that time I'm guessing he wanted to ask her about me or something? Sounds like he must be talking about me a lot? all his friends comments. Few minutes after I had already gone upstairs some minutes after the changing room I turned around he was right behind me. Not sure if he was about sneak up on me for some reason I turned around he was right behind me we both smiled looking at each others eyes lol

[Asker]

Is it a good sign he's telling his friends? or kinda introducing not sure if it's to get opinion or is it more he knows he likes me showing me off?

[Luckycharms12]

Yes good sign he is telling friends big time

[Asker]

I feel like he'll make a move at some point. It's only our first week back seeing each other after lockdown gyms closed seems nothing changed still the same. Was very surprised when he called his friend over like that she was beside us. I guess we're still in the developing stage but we both know somethings there?

[Asker]

Saw him again today during bench we were chatting a lot , complimented him something about his training saying his arms were getting bigger it's working. Noticed he was standing much closer to the bench as well. He gave fist pump at some point I did that and grabbed rubbed his hand he didn't move away. And offered to get me in for like a extra bench session thats not on the plan? think thats clear sign he likes me? is it?

[Luckycharms12]

Id watch see if does that with other girls he training. But seems to me he likes you.

[Asker]

yeah I don't think I does I've watched him seems to be trying to get closer. Usually he'd be busy on saturdays with clients if I ask for him help that day he still offered saying he'll find a way fit me in when I was kinda like are you not busy with clients that day text him whenever I'm in etc an. He seemed to like me touching his hand I'll see if he does that again. Definitely started getting closer after that. I think he's taking it slow not rushing

[Luckycharms12]

Waiting for him to ask you out lol.

[Asker]

haha you think he will? just gradually getting closer until he makes the move? definitely seems interested? I know he has fist pump other clients before thats like his friend they weren't as close. I wonder if he's told his friends about me rubbing his hand and complimenting his arms getting bigger that whatever he's doing is working lol since it seems like he talks about me lol didn't think guys talk about girls much.

[Luckycharms12]

Well I'm guy so go for it but maybe sence he at work he is letting you make first move

[Asker]

Oh like telling me to text him? or following my lead but he has already broken the touch barrier grabbing my hand the other time before lockdown gyms only back 2 weeks. I'd rather him ask lol he's also like a competitive guy so I feel he'd like to ask. maybe he's not in a rush either cause he works there letting everything happen naturally and he hadn't seen me for months in lockdown maybe was testing the waters? not in a rush either although would love him to ask soon. I'm trying to be more complimentary or flirty. Usually wouldn't flirt like that with a guy rub his hand when he fist pumped happened naturally lol.

[Luckycharms12]

Both having fun flirting and teasing each other cute

[Asker]

Guess we also have to be more sneaky cause it's where he works too. . At the end after I went to wipe the bench instead of leaving him to do it he was like "you hardworking woman" lol. Have to wait for the right time or moment should I just keep doing as I'm doing complimenting him and flirting more?

[Luckycharms12]

Both enjoying it and having fun flirting and teasing keep doing it sounds like it will go somewhere

[Asker]

Hopefully soon enough he works a lot busy. Have to see if he tries to fit me in this weekend like he wants trying to see me more. He very confident dominant guy we're still getting to know each other.

[Asker]

does it matter that he doesn't watch my stories on insta? he used to at the start for like 2/3 weeks then not as much or go by how he is in person? maybe the alorithum he doesn't see it lol

[Luckycharms12]

I don't really do social media. What's app and Snapchat that's it

[Asker]

he uses it a lot I guess its maybe more of a in person thing all that matter

[Asker]

I've noticed he throws the ball in my court a lot lol. Asked about todays bench he's busy with clients voice noted me back I knew he might not be able to it's he really wants to fit me in but he knows he's busy. I'll see him tomorrow he be like I can helo you tomorrow before this time etc let me know making it seem like I'm asking to see him. I always wonder if I'm asking too much but he probably likes it

[Asker]

He made the mistake saying Sunday he was already saying he might be busy that day working in town. Will see him in Monday. Think he like wanted to see me today if he could maybe got lost in the moment when he mentioned it . Think he still likes me just crazy busy he tries to make the time the best he can

[Luckycharms12]

Ask him out got nothing to lose

[Asker]

Ha you think he likes me? I'll still leave it to him also he's like confident guy sure he'll make it at some time? or do you think he might be less confident with me cause he likes me?

[Luckycharms12]

Cos meet at his work it's balance doesn't want cross a line but seems interested

[Asker]

Oh right but do you think he might take the chance at some point? he's also quite busy too maybe letting us get closer. I think his extra bench was a flirty move in heat of the moment lol? maybe not rushing wants to be cure before he does or maybe waiting for his friends to tell him to ask

[Luckycharms12]

I would if was flirting with a girl

[Asker]

Oh you'd ask? he still probably will we hadn't seen each other or spoken a lot during lockdown . Feel like our last bench he would've definitely got the signals we still like each other. Suppose if I keep ramping up the flirting when it feels natural lol maybe even rub his hand again? I try to look into his eyes deeply a lot trying to be completely obvious. Do you think he thinks I like him as well?

[Luckycharms12]

Why not couldn't hurt

[Asker]

I don't know how to ask someone out lol feel like he's the type of guy to ask would just like to keep maybe being bolder with moves etc maybe it'll end up happening casually if we're talking about something. do you think he knows I like him too? it's case of we both know something there?

[Asker]

Saw him today, we wasn't as touch but still talk a bit close , maybe he holds back n work lol? but sometimes we get carried away? and just trying to get to know each other more.

[Luckycharms12]

See how get goes half the fun is the chase

[Asker]

oh he enjoys the flirting until he's ready to make the move? yeah last time we were flirting a lot we've had flirty days like that and we have days where we talk lol. He didn't do the fist pump thing today but it was a lower weight. He saw his mate on way upstairs fist pumped. He didn't mention the extra bench thing either lol so must've been a flirty moment getting heated I brought it up he just kinda said yeah we can etc

[Asker]

we were talking about his work and he asked what I was doing now. He remembered what I'd said I used to do.

[Asker]

When I text him earlier asking if today was still good he replied super fast right away "absolutely" there always feels like there's a weird chemistry where we want to be closer. Probably just holds back sometimes with his work?

[Luckycharms12]

Sounds like was going as if wanted to grab lunch together

[Asker]

At the end he asked if I needed to grab my stuff. Times he's said this he's walked up with me or been like I'll walk up with you l. But there's no real slot anymore before it was near the end of the slot time. Oh you think he wants to ask? Think he might be shy around me? not but like he's not sure how to act? then there's time we naturally get flirty

[Luckycharms12]

All can do wait see what happens

[Asker]

Yeah I'm sure he likes me do you think he still does? will happen when it's the right moment lol

[Asker]

Do I just keep doing what I'm doing and he'll eventually make a move lol?

[Luckycharms12]

Come a time either he does or you do. Or just let it go

[Asker]

I'll keep doing as I'm doing lol whoever gets the courage first I say he will eventually since he is confident lol although maybe holding back a little with me for now

[Asker]

Won't see him til next week now was meant to see him today in the gym for bench , he got caught up something up with showers leaking he's manager to. He voice note me. He's quite a good communicator he won't text back something like that if he can't he usually voice notes instead just texting me. He's away for the weekend after was gonna see if he was around tomorrow but he said he away for the weekend let me know when he was back etc. Is it good he voice notes me a lot? it's weird we usually just about see each other once not twice something happens

[Asker]

Saw him today complimented his haircut saying almost didn't recognise you he went away for the weekend was trying to dig to see if he'd say who he went with. He never mentioned anyone and only posted a solo picture of himself but saw a pic of his mate and his girlfriend in same location so assuming he went with them. He didn't say too much about it just he had a good time etc but he's glad to be back at work here. Was gonna ask if he went away with his mates the someone came over for something felt weird to ask again cause he didn't say a lot just happy to be back lol. Assuming he's single from how he acts with me. Think he actually helped me out during his break last week around the same time he told me he was on break. Seems like he's being extra. Always tells me to text him asking what I'm up to then etc. Think he's a little quiet around me lol weird cause he's type to talk about anything

[Asker]

Hey there's been a update so he texted me giving me his work number saying here my work number contact me on that going forward. He'd been helping me with bench a lot trying to be available I think I migt've gotten over dependent on him he's pulling away now. What do I do now? I'm thinking not contacting him at all work or personal gonna give him space not rely on him at all do my thing get someone else to train me. It feels too weird to suddenly text him on his work number. So guess thats why he gave me his personal number because he liked me.

[Asker]

Do I just back off or what felt like a cold message

[prettyboy57886]

He likes you

[Asker]

Does it sound like he's told his friends about me and was introducing me to one?

[prettyboy57886]

Yes absolutely he told his friends about you

[Asker]

and that girl the way he he wasn't like "hey this is blah blah" just calling the friends name and saying my name her coming over like that. She was training beside maybe he told her? I know its a close friend of his Is it a good sign? he's telling people