Can someone be a player and introverted at the same time, and can someone be extroverted but completely incapable of that? (Page 2)

Question

I know it sounds weird, but hear me out.  My father is a person you might call a ''player'', but up-close he's almost shy and reclusive. He doesn't like big crowds and barely raises his voice, and he often stutters. I thought he might be like that because of his age, but people confirmed to me he was like that even when he was my age. Instead I'm much more istrionic, make myself no problems to smile and hug people, talk with a deep, raspy voice, and I like to mix in with people. But I can't understand at all if someone is flirting with me, and I've been warned that some people did try to flirt with me or mistook my friendliness for flirting. I got told that my grandfather was the same as me, and like him I have zero romantic interest in other women that aren't my wife. I've gotten called a ''block of wood'' because of that, but I don't agree because I move, smile, laugh, and hug.  That's one heck of a paradox, isn't it?

LemiaOfChampions · Answer

They can pretend to be the shy quite type to make ladies like them

rienna888 · Answer

Yeah I think so. Like they’re cute and got it so they have several girlfriends and flirt with girls but actually don’t really like human contact

Ellie-V · Answer

Yes, it’s just personality

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Yes! Both can defo be true.

Likethesky · Answer

Yes and it's an effective strategy to be a introverted player. But yes Extroverted people can have it harder against people with experience of players

he-takes-a-part · Answer

Haha an influencer is in dilemma what kind of place are they running

robocop666 · Answer

if a man looks good women will love him no matter what

Asianguy123 · Answer

No, quiet person are honest usually. I was one of the quietest person in class.

Anonymous · Answer

I got played by a submissive introvert :/

Marhaban-1 · Answer

I've never thourght about it but I'm sure they can

zagor · Answer

Absolutely. To both.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Yes definitely

Minahh · Answer

Yes definitely

msc545 · Answer

Yes to both.

jimmy2 · Answer

Well surprise do come in life

Anonymous · Answer

I am an introvert and a player.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Yes and yes

Can someone be a player and introverted at the same time, and can someone be extroverted but completely incapable of that? (Page 2)

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