Do you ever think about what happened to that childhood/teen crush of yours? (Page 2)

DizzyDesii · 2021-09-22T15:44:58Z

Enough about the little childhood crush from 1st grade. That ole bastard 🤣 I realize that crush isn't going anywhere until i fess up to him. One crush and I ended on such an emotional note in 6th grade when our parents ripped us away to attend separate HS. I loved that we had everything in common. And i loved his skinny muscular stature. But I saw him at a job interview recently and he's now a personal trainer on the side. I find his new body builder physique to be such a turn off. Man college was the best. In juco, I met James and David. Military dudes are not my cup of tea but these two were some of the most caring guys i ever met. I regret losing touch. I never saw either in a sexual way but i was definitely attracted to them overall. We were def “friends first” but it was clear both wanted to be more than that. It was a total love triangle and i couldn’t choose. But I respect that neither brought up our differences in race. If only more people interested in interracial dating did the same. But they don’t, so I’m pretty turned off to the idea these days. I dreamt of James last night. And we were total goofballs while painting a house together. In school, it was always amazing to see James waiting in the hallway for me to arrive. He would literally jump up and say ITS ABOUT TIME YOU GET HERE GIRL! His hyper energy was such a breath of fresh air. He’d invite me and the fam to his military parades to see him march. I do miss him. And then omg David, he would literally walk across campus and come get me out of class. Then he’d walk me to my next class or to my ride. He was so sweet but also super crazy lmao. I used to want to walk with Nate, Matt, and James sometimes but David would get possessive af. Its why i didn't try to keep in touch with him when he got he got deployed but i do kinda regret that. I hope both are alive and well. #FeelFreeToList

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Agape93 Follow
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He got beat up by a deer and had to go get surgery.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Lmao why does this sound so true 🤣 My first ex got chased by deer when leaving my house at night
  
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- Agape93
  
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  It is lol
  Lol 😆 🤣
  
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- exitseven
  
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  @DizzyDesii . Did he get that "deer in the headlights" look?
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  @exitseven lmao i wasn't out therr to find out 🤣 all i know is he never visited at night again
  
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- exitseven
  
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  too funny
  
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FinalFantasyBro Follow
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I don't technically remember her considering we were both little children, but I do wonder how Christina been doing.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Kids recall a lot believe it or not. I remember every moment that made me fall harder for Bo when we met 1st grade
  
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- FinalFantasyBro
  
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  That actually sounds cool
  
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JosyJosy Follow
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Oh nope, not even when this question came up, couldn't care less xD

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Haha Thats how i feel about exes. But these were crushes haha
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Just means you're more than happy in your relationship :)
  
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- JosyJosy
  
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  That's true, I am <3
  
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MCheetah Follow
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She became a porn star and retired as a multi millionaire by 30 to open up her own yoga studio in Los Angeles. So... Yeah.

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Jlegacy Follow
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I do check up on them but I have realised that life happens. Crushes won't be crushes forever.

I'm grateful though, that I found my one. The girl that matters the most.

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StormyWinter Follow
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Yeah every now and then, he married up and is living an amazing life, I'm happy for him, after the childhood he had he deserves it..

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Joshua0213 Follow
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Nah cause the only crush I really had im with still

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Awww
  
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princeofromance Follow
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Yes, I often wonder if I will see her again one day. We had a lot of good memories together.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Maybe someday
  
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Twalli Follow
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I think we're friends on Facebook, so if I cared I could probably find out.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Oh i see
  
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Paulychicago10 Follow
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Yes. She passed away in a traffic accident. I regret never telling her how I truly felt about her

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Man this is heartbreaking
  
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- Paulychicago10
  
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  It hurts. Hopefully she knows now
  
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TallAnon Follow
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Well, most of them just live a humble life at a random boring job

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  But i mean do you wonder the “what ifs” between you two
  
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- TallAnon
  
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  No, not really. I don't think my life would change much when I get a partner.
  
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Anonymous
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I do wonder... But I'm sure at least one of them is in prison so I'd rather not think too much about it.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Oh damn
  
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playfootball13 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 20

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yes i had a crush on a girl in 5th grade and she turnd into a porn star

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Daaamn. I dated two porn stars (unknowingly) 😭 So glad we never got physical
  
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- playfootball13
  
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  yea that be bad
  
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Wiredone Follow
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I still keep in contact with my old crush from jr. high and high school. She is married with 2 girls. She works in a school district library.

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- exitseven
  
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  Actually, that is pretty fucking awesome.
  
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- Wiredone
  
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  @exitseven yeah she still looks as good as she did back in school.
  
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- exitseven
  
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  cool
  
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tomtom05131 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 63

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I do from time to time. I have looked one up (did not contact her) and discovered she is doing well in life and i couldn’t be happier for her.

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TheAfrikan Follow
Yoda Age: 32

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The one I recently knew she is married and with a kid. Just left to see her updates on social media. Andd for me am riding solo giving no shit.

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Riddler1412 Follow
Yoda Age: 30

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I don't have to think about that, I already know. I'm friends with them on Facebook, so their life events pop up on my news feed.

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worldscolide Follow
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She ended up being a single m at 17..

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  It happens
  
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- worldscolide
  
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  Shit, she ended being a single mom at the age of 17.. goddamn auto correct.
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  I know what you meant
  
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- worldscolide
  
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  I know but I seriously need to have a chat with my phone lol.
  
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beebella Follow
Master Age: 30

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Yeah, I think about my old crushes all the time.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Would you say theyre the ones that got away
  
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- beebella
  
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  No, but there are a couple that I wonder if they liked me back. Of course, now I'll never know. 😅
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Yea its very few who i wonder that about because most were obvious
  
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ChiPaPa Follow
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Nope. They all got families

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Ooo i hate when that happens
  
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- ChiPaPa
  
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  I really don't care. Good for them. I gave up on love.
  
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