Guys, Guys Is it Okay for You to Flirt and Or/ Look at Someone while in A Relationship?

Question

**I have always been a Friendly sort of Person but When Single in the Past---I would be Xtra Friendly. lol I only Look at WHOM I love Unless he Would Give me a Reason to Look and Hook. lol!!! xx

Bklynbadboy12 · Accepted Answer

I believe its okay to look but its not okay to flirt and when you look there still has to be a level of respect there for instance its never okay to look while your with your girl but if your out by yourself I think taking a short glance isn't a problem right. Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu🤣

serious · Accepted Answer

The answer is never. It is unacceptable.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I never flirt with anyone else if I am in a relationship. I can't avoid looking at pretty girls and appreciating their beauty, but I don't pursue them. I go home to the woman who is waiting for me.

Lliam · Answer

Look? All the time. I have eyes and I appreciate beauty.
Flirt? Never! At least not seriously.

A friend of mine is a life long professional musician and recording artist. He recorded an album recently called The Action Zone. When he was talking about the upcoming concert to promote the album, I told him that he needed Action Girls to dance on stage like Go-Go dancers.

So at the gig, he had a couple of hot babes in cute outfits dancing. As it turned out, one of them was the guitarist's wife. LOL

Anyway, during a break I went up to the girls as they sat at a table. Acting star struck, I said, "It's such an honor to meet real live Action Girls!" Then we all laughed and had a chat. Was that flirting? My wife was at the gig and I told her what I did.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I dunno how a guy avoids looking. I guess there's a difference between. looking and staring though. Flirting is another matter. Flirting is down right disrespectful to your partner. If you love them you don't disrespect them. However where is the line on conversation and flirting? I'd say each couple has to work out their own boundaries there.

litty · Answer

If you mean look as in eye fuck someone, then you should know that you are inviting trouble into your relationship. What's next, they "catch" you looking at them, then they are your friend, and then you text them while your partner is or isn't around?

Why even be in a relationship if the answer to a fight between the two of you is to "look and hook?" There is no perfect relationship. They all require work, and when a fight happens, only by resolving it together does it become stronger.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Looking is fine and almost impossible to control. But flirting wouldn't be okay unless both partners are already okay with it.
I think it would be best to discuss with your partner what is and isn't cheating.

clampfan101 · Answer

It’s okay to feel what you feel, but don’t act on it by flirting or staring. Try to move on ASAP remembering you already have a relationship. Friendship however is definitely okay if you’re confident in keeping it 100% casual.

exitseven · Answer

I don't have many opportunities to flirt anymore but I used to flirt a little. I do not see the harm as long as that is as far as it goes.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Looking is fine but don’t flirt with other people when your in a relationship.

kellytheman · Answer

Flirt no look is oksy as long you don't look at them sexually especially if you are with your spouse.

Iron_Man · Answer

Probably not a good idea to flirt but everybody Take a look at a hot girl when walking down the street it’s only natural to look

DiegoO · Answer

Now, my eyes are set in my partner (assuming I find one).

Likes2drive · Answer

Looking is fine and normal for guys but flirting could be taken the wrong way

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No. Once you're in an official relationship, there's no reason to flirt anymore.

Kiss_Me · Answer

I do it all the time. but there are a few rules:
1. Flirting is for fun, or practice. Just because you flirt does NOT mean you are interested.
2. Never in front of my wife. There are respect boundaries that must be observed.

rapfan107 · Answer

I mean looking its normal but flirting thats a little too much

MrOracle · Answer

Looking is fine. Flirting is not.

20yearsolder · Answer

I flirt every chance I get

Laggy · Answer

I won't flirt. But looking... I can't help that whenever I go outside, there are other people, I will look at girls, I will look at guys, the dogs they're walking, everything.

alexthesproutx2 · Answer

Definitel, it's healthy to flirt with other people. Do you flirt while in a relationship?

SuperDupper10 · Answer

If you are dead, you won't look, But if you are living you will look and that's fine as long as that's were it ends. flirting while in a relationship is never ok, It shows that you can not be trust to commit to that one person.

Wiredone · Answer

Like I've always said, " I can look at the menu, I can order from it, but I can't eat what is put in front of me ". I'm married, I'm not dead. Lol

ChiPaPa · Answer

Flirt, no. Everyone looks, though.

joeldalton · Answer

gotta keep your skills fresh.

Relux47 · Answer

Not okay to flirt but it’s alright to look

Joshua0213 · Answer

Flirting nah but looking yeah id say

CubaPirate · Answer

Everyone is allowed a spot of "window shopping" aren't they?

jimmy2 · Answer

If you play with fire you will get burn

humanearth · Answer

Thats just wrong

Lonely888 · Answer

Everybody does it

Massageman · Answer

a little bit of innocent fun - please!

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