Or is this normalised man behaviour?
Thanks for all the answers lovelies😸
No! Of course it’s not cheating! It’s disrespectful as hell, it’s rude, and it shows me some very revealing behavior that could most definitely culminate in infidelity, but if we are going to say that simply being flirty is the SAME as him sticking his dick where he shouldn’t, we will dilute what real infidelity is! If your man is doing this, he is definitely looking to cheat, but THIS is not the real world, and I’m sure we all say stuff in here that we would never want to be public knowledge, so just keep in mind if he’s flirting online, he is looking to cheat! That’s it, time to kick him to the curb BEFORE he gives us chlamydia!
Honestly, in my personal opinion this is not ok. If you are "flirting" which is exactly what this is with another person it's saying to me that I/you are not the only one for me and you don't care to see where this goes together. It seems like the other person is keeping their options open for someone else that you are going to consider "better".
There would be no getting mad it would be done and over with before there was even time to make any excuses!
I wouldn’t call it cheating I would definitely say if you have a problem with it then confront him and let him know how you feel but more than likely he’s just doing it out of boredom and knows he’s never going to meat her so he’s just talking shit to him it probably doesn’t mean anything
I wouldn't consider it cheating, I would however consider it disrespectful. My policy is if an actor/actress is super hot and that caused an reaction them that's okay I wouldn't give a damn about that and hope he wouldn't either. Same with having inside thoughts of damn s/he hot, but to actually post a comment where everyone can see or say a comment that to a person's face is pretty outrageous and way past the line. One is something that happens and the other is a premeditated thought and action
I dunno why some people have this urge to put everyone down to make themselves feel superior about having the best partner. A person you're dating may not be perfect, but they may still be perfect for you — we need to understand this.
I didn't understand the context of how your statement related to this question. But I did really like what you said!
Oh yeah. That part. How can someone be MGTOW and also be married? That doesn't make any sense.
Yes, its cheating. didn't the bible say something about whoever looks at a woman with lust has committed adultery? I don't know if thats accurate quote i made but yeah
Everything depends on the relationship. Some people are fine with their SO casually flirting with others because they trust that it's just for playful fun. Others don't want their partner to do anything flirtatious at all.
Yes it is an 100% indication of intention to cheat. It is also highly inappropriate and disrespectful towards their SO.
Yes. That’s just a recipe for the start of bad stuff to happen. Try it with someone and see how the other reacts. Probably won’t go over well
Yes, it's cheating.
Also, I'm fairly traditional and I want a traditional relationship but I'd have to hate myself to ever be with one of those MGTOW nutcases.
If you're with the guy and he's spending his engery on flirting with someone else when he's with you and sleeping with you It's not a good sign. I'm I guess involved with someone I try not to flirt with anyone else or give that impression I really try not to because they mean something to me. I don't want to betray their trust if that makes sense. I don't want to give them a reason not to trust me. Plus I wanted them for years lol
Its disrespectful. I’d debate if I want to call him out on it and correct him to do better or if i will realize he's not for me and dump him on the spot
Yes? Why is that even a question? The answer lies between the ridiculous question. Anything that’s done suspiciously and maliciously outside of the relationship is cheating.
Cause they’re legitimately idiots. Don’t believe them.
A married couple should never look or make such dirty comments about the opposite gender...
He is only allowed to comment his wife like that and she is allowed only to comment her husband like that...
I think it's not cheating but it could be (and probably IS for most people) very disrespectful to the relationship.
But I would have to seek a full refund on the book I purchased entitled. "How You can Improve Your Character Detection Skills"
That crosses the line for me.
I wouldn't be with someone who does that.
This should be a mutual agreement between the significant others so that the trust is not broken.
Good communication with each other is key
Dirty and sexual chat with guys or girls other than own partners is an initial stage of cheating.
I would call it in inappropriate. Would you want to be with someone who did that? Is the Q for me.
Not cheating, But incredibly disrespectful, and something i would leave over if i were in your shoes.
No that's obviously not cheating. They are still getting dumped. Also obviously.
Imho no it's not. If me girlfriend said it bothered her I'd just stop though.
I don’t believe it’s cheating because nothing physical has happened. However I do believe that he could be opening the doorway to cheat and is completely disrespecting and disregarding his partner with that sort of behavior.
Would you feel bad if you knew your SO did this?
I’d be beyond feeling bad we’d be breaking up lol there’s no reason he should be under another woman’s pic talking dirty and flirting when he has a girlfriend. That’s a disrespect I wouldn’t tolerate..