Especially comments to sexually suggestive pics explaining about their body parts and how they like it or want to touch it or f itIs she overreacting?I saw a male MGTOW user do this. With the way he was boasting about his traditional wife and slutshaming women, i didn't understand the logic behing his hypocrisy. Or is this normalised man behaviour?
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The aforementioned user has added his opinion which summarises as "Yes it's cheating ".
Thanks for all the answers lovelies😸
Is it cheating to you if your SO posts flirty and dirty comments on someone's pic?
I don’t believe it’s cheating because nothing physical has happened. However I do believe that he could be opening the doorway to cheat and is completely disrespecting and disregarding his partner with that sort of behavior.
I’d be beyond feeling bad we’d be breaking up lol there’s no reason he should be under another woman’s pic talking dirty and flirting when he has a girlfriend. That’s a disrespect I wouldn’t tolerate..
No! Of course it’s not cheating! It’s disrespectful as hell, it’s rude, and it shows me some very revealing behavior that could most definitely culminate in infidelity, but if we are going to say that simply being flirty is the SAME as him sticking his dick where he shouldn’t, we will dilute what real infidelity is! If your man is doing this, he is definitely looking to cheat, but THIS is not the real world, and I’m sure we all say stuff in here that we would never want to be public knowledge, so just keep in mind if he’s flirting online, he is looking to cheat! That’s it, time to kick him to the curb BEFORE he gives us chlamydia!
Honestly, in my personal opinion this is not ok. If you are "flirting" which is exactly what this is with another person it's saying to me that I/you are not the only one for me and you don't care to see where this goes together. It seems like the other person is keeping their options open for someone else that you are going to consider "better". There would be no getting mad it would be done and over with before there was even time to make any excuses!
I wouldn’t call it cheating I would definitely say if you have a problem with it then confront him and let him know how you feel but more than likely he’s just doing it out of boredom and knows he’s never going to meat her so he’s just talking shit to him it probably doesn’t mean anything
I wouldn't consider it cheating, I would however consider it disrespectful. My policy is if an actor/actress is super hot and that caused an reaction them that's okay I wouldn't give a damn about that and hope he wouldn't either. Same with having inside thoughts of damn s/he hot, but to actually post a comment where everyone can see or say a comment that to a person's face is pretty outrageous and way past the line. One is something that happens and the other is a premeditated thought and action
I dunno why some people have this urge to put everyone down to make themselves feel superior about having the best partner. A person you're dating may not be perfect, but they may still be perfect for you — we need to understand this.
Yes, its cheating. didn't the bible say something about whoever looks at a woman with lust has committed adultery? I don't know if thats accurate quote i made but yeah
If you're with the guy and he's spending his engery on flirting with someone else when he's with you and sleeping with you It's not a good sign. I'm I guess involved with someone I try not to flirt with anyone else or give that impression I really try not to because they mean something to me. I don't want to betray their trust if that makes sense. I don't want to give them a reason not to trust me. Plus I wanted them for years lol
Its disrespectful. I’d debate if I want to call him out on it and correct him to do better or if i will realize he's not for me and dump him on the spot
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Yes? Why is that even a question? The answer lies between the ridiculous question. Anything that’s done suspiciously and maliciously outside of the relationship is cheating.
I agree with about 95% with your answer I mean if it’s some girl he knows or knows there’s a chance of meeting up with her then yes I could say it’s out of line and the precursor to cheating but if it’s just some random hot chic in the imaginary land of the web that he’s got no chance of meeting then it’s likely he’s just talking shit. I mean years ago I took my wife to a male strip show cause all her friends bailed on her and from the minute those dudes hit the stage those women went crazy they literally jumped up in the seats and were stomping their feet and jumping up and down I thought the Beatles and Elvis were up there and we went back in time except these women were being dirty and nasty dirty if it was guys acting like that in a strip show they would of got kicked out for sure now I’m sure some of you ladies have been to a strip show before and know what I’m talking about they lost all self control so what’s the difference other than the fact that they did have a chance with those dudes and a few of them did hook up. I see it as except for the ones that did hook up it was just fantasy and ultimately it didn’t mean anything and yes my wife fell right in with the others and was acting crazy even worse she got mad at me because some of the women were hitting on me hard to which I told them I was married and had complete control over how I acted. Sorry so long
