Girls have ignored me my whole life because I’m a nice guy. What steps should I take to become a bad boy?

[Adamtkd]

I don’t really care about flirting so much, I just care about them noticing me. I figure that being a bad boy is the right way to do it. How should I do it? By making some rude comment as I walk past a girl? I assume that would be a good start? I mean since they love bad boys so much I would enjoy seeing them react to my take on being a bad boy. A very bad boy indeed. Lol

[GreenLanternI0I]

This is not in your biological program. Sure, your niceness is not getting you any girls, but your niceness helps a lot of people around you, both consciously and subconsciously. While bad boys get a lot of girls, most of them are being despised when they are around people. I had 3 serious carries in my life, do you believe for a second I ever went above and beyond to help those bad boy when I stumbled on them? When these type of people came, I helped and served them as quickly as I can say cat in a hat, while when I stumbled on Good/Nice people, I took my time and I have presented them with a high quality services that made their entire week if not months and I felt Great going to sleep knowing that.

[slatyb]

If women ignore you, it's not because you are too nice. Women love nice guys. You know what they don't love? Passive-aggressive guys with no life and no social skills.

How many women do you even know well enough to greet them by name when you see them?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Ugh, again...

Guys who have to claim themselves as being nice guys usually aren't as nice as they think they are. The fact you are even doing this whole "I need to be a bad guy to get women" pretty much confirms it. You aren't a nice guy. You do nice things specifically in the hope to get sex from a woman. That's just solicitation with extra steps.

Work on how you view women and be honest about what your actual goals are. Being a jerk or a "nice guy" are just the same thing wrapped in a different skin.

[Adamtkd]

I am nice. In fact that’s my problem I’m too nice. As soon as I move out and get my own place I’m going keep it real with anyone I meet, if they are rude to me I’ll be rude back. And the internet seems like a good place to start

[Ez-Bri-Z]

You aren't nice if your mind set is why are you not getting laid by being nice. Maybe people see through it.

[Adamtkd]

I don’t care about getting laid. I care about being rude to rude people. I actually have nothing against you at all tbh

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I have nothing against you either. I just want to stop the idea from you or any other guy that the only way to attract women is by being a jerk. It's just wrong and if you do attract one it is going to be the emotionally broken kind. That's just abusive.

[devoygf]

be 17
tall
overconfident
popular
rich
idgaf attitude
have plenty of girlfriend's

[Adamtkd]

I don’t want to do that tbh. I just want to be rude to people that have been rude to me. I can’t control them and stop them from being rude to me. What I can control is my reaction. I can choose to be rude back. But only once I have more financial stability. Until then I have to pretend to be someone I’m not

[mickeystoned]

So what you are saying is that you want to be a bad boy so that you can get attention is that what you're looking for the attention I think so don't change your way just because of females or to get attention shouldn't have to be yourself you get plenty of attention too

[Adamtkd]

Exactly I keep it real my friend. Only be rude to those who are rude first. I’m so sick of pretending to be someone I’m not

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Just because stupid shit pops into your head doesn’t mean you have to post it online.

[WhiteBoyChill]

1) You can’t pretend to be somebody that you’re not.

2) Mature women aren’t attracted to bad boys.

3) The solution isn’t being a bad boy, but just being confident in yourself and having social skills.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

You should become kind rather than either of those. It works wonders for retrieving a happy life

[Adamtkd]

Not always, you can be as kind as you like but there are always going to be people who are rude. The solution is to be rude back. I can control their actions and they can’t control mine

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Don’t treat them how they treat you, treat them better.

[Adamtkd]

I disagree treat them worse

[NeicyDOne]

No just change up ur style how u dress and maybe ur hair

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No need to be a bad guy. Just be yourself and a decent person. The right woman will find you.

[Anonymous]

You should face fuck someone. Who through. Hmm. Ok me

[Iron_Man]

Be nice guy pays off

[Adamtkd]

Not when people are ddickheads to you it doesn’t

[888theGreat]

that would be stupid

[Adamtkd]

Why is it stupid? I have to get some entertainment in my life. Being nice all the time is boring af and I get treated like a doormat for it