His 20 and I’m 30 so a big age gap. What do you think?

[Anonymous]

To some people this may sound really bad. But recently we was at a party and we kissed. His my brothers best friend and this has never happened before. He said he fancied me and I said I fancied him too but I said what we are doing is wrong as he has a girlfriend. He said I would love to be with you one day but I have some growing up to do. I said to him you’re just drunk and will regret this in the morning. The next day he asked if I was ok and I said yes I just don’t want to you regret something and he said he didn't and hugged me. To me he didn’t seem to care that much about his girlfriend which I felt really bad for as the next day he kept looking at me and smiling even calling me beautiful. I guess that’s between them two to sort out I don’t know her at all so I really don’t want to get involved. Some friends thought we was actually together at the party and I said oh no we’re not just family friends and they were like well you two would look great together.
He tried to add me on Instagram a few days ago and I left it pending until I decided I should decline this as I didn’t feel he should see what I was up to and I don’t want to be seeing what his up to either as it’s bad timing for both of us, he hasn’t text me about it or anything. I am single but dating, but do you ever think something could ever happen in the future between us?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

To me, that's well too much of an age gap.

Kudos to him realizing he has growing up to do - but he needs to really work on that. Imagine if he treated you like he treated his current girlfriend? How would you feel?

Because unless he does that "growing up", he's gonna keep cheating on his gfs.

I don't know, I feel he's just too young. I have a 23yo friend I wouldn't mind being friends with benefits with, but dating him? I'd hesitate there's just not enough in common re:life experience to hold us together.

Also, I just... don't like immature people. At all. Couldn't date one.

[Shamalien]

Doomed. He’ll soon be treating you the way he treats his current girlfriend

[Sorbay]

if you're cool with paying for everything, have at it sister

[In_Trance]

As long as you get along well and enjoy each other's company what does age matter?

[Iron_Man]

Usually that works in the opposite direction I don’t know if guys are capable of a relationship like that

[Iron_Man]

Right now at just all about looks and I like you but what happens down the road it’s a different story

[h3ll00]

It will be a new experience for both of you. As if it is going to last, so go for it.