If I like someone I’ll get to know them if i have a problem, I’ll discuss it. If I tbh k it’s fine to move in, I’ll discuss that.
I’m wondering what other people think of as “desperate “bc I hear that thrown around and it doesn’t make sense to me, so I’m asking lol
I tend to think if someone seems “ desperate” you’re just not into them, so I think rather than worrying about being desperate people should focus on spending time with people—
One dude dies not fit all. I think trying to curb your personality to suit someone who doesn’t like you is a bad way to go. Better to be who you are so you can click with someone who genuinely gets you.
But anyhow I’m wondering what makes people feel like someone is desperate and if they think it’s objectively desperate or only desperate when someone else does it & not themselves doing it or when someone “hotter” does it.