A smile is always a way to imply receptiveness, though not necessarily what you're receptive to. Guys like it when girls ask for help. Just make sure it is legitimate help, as come-ons will feel awkward to you. Comment on what he says or does, as guys generally prefer that over comments about things out of their control (ie how they look). For instance, you could say "The answer you gave got me thinking. I saw things from a whole different perspective. Thank you." Show appreciation when something he says or does positively impacts you. Just take it slowly. Flirting is like perfume... a little hint triggers curiosity, whereas a lot will overwhelm and chase people away.
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- Eye contact.
- Smile.
- Say good morning.
- Find a detail and compliment it.
- Put your hair in a pony tail.
- Take a sip of your drink.
- Actually use a pen and piece of paper.
- Cross your legs.
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Look, smile count to 5, look down, twirl hair, always be within sight... like 20-30 feet away without stalking, walk by him regularly and slow way down when he sees you.
Are you to shy to talk to men? If you are just work up to it by chatting to men for micro periods and asking about them. Keep practicing till you find you can engage for longer. Practice is the only way and you will find you will get better at it and more comfortable with it. You can just start with Hi I'm xyz.
For me if you stare intently I’ll know you have interest and if I’m interested I may try to talk to you
If you are shy and like someone, just write a note of what you want to tell them, include your contact information, and hand it to him.
Play with your hair, at the appropriate time. touch is forearm or thigh, especially after something funny. Another one for me was if she look back at me when I dropped her off.
Get out of your comfort zone
Generally, if a shy girl already had the guts to flirt with us (approach us at all), we're going to be impressed you "go out of your zone"
don't be nice and just talk to her open her up to yourself
Smiling while holding a bit of eye contact is the universal sign.
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