I emotionally cheated on my boyfriend, as he was not interested in me anymore. I started to talk with a friend of mine that I never wanted to ''date'' in real life. He just complimented me and made me feel cherished, a thing that my boyfriend didn't do anymore.
I stopped talking to that man, as he started to behave weirdly and possessively and made me feel scared, so I stopped any interaction I ever had with him. What I feel so bad about is that I never told that man that I have a boyfriend, because I was scared that he will text him, because his behavior is indeed weird.
Anyhow, I confessed to my boyfriend and I still feel bad.
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It's admirable that you confessed to your boyfriend about emotionally cheating and ended the interaction with the other person. It takes courage to admit to a mistake and work towards repairing the relationship.
However, you should recognize that emotional cheating can be just as damaging to a relationship as physical cheating. It's important to work with your boyfriend to address the underlying issues in the relationship that led to the emotional cheating, and to take steps to rebuild trust and intimacy.
It's also important to acknowledge the potential harm that could have resulted from not disclosing the relationship to the other person. While it's understandable to be scared of their reaction, you always be honest and upfront about your relationship status to avoid any further complications or misunderstandings.
Moving forward, it's important to continue being honest and transparent in your relationship, and to prioritize open communication and mutual respect. It may also be helpful to seek support from a therapist or counselor to work through any issues or challenges in the relationship.
well you did the right thing by no longer talking to this man ,, but I do understand why you would have started in the first place to talk to him behind your bfs back,, we all need to feel needed and loved.. if we dont get that we reach out sometimes. your not alone ,, just be careful.
Thank you! Wish you best!
your very welcome ,, hope you find someone that understands and appreciates you the way you need for a long and happy love life we all desire and need this or most of us do.. are you single now or still with him.
I am not single, I am still with my boyfriend
well i do hope it works out for you two. if your not getting what you need tell him if that does not change then I would find someone that is more in tune with what you need at this point in time and that may change or at least a little bit.. good luck
Thank you lots! I really appreciate your words!
your very welcome ,, and do try and work things out ,, one never knows till we try right ,, if we try and it does not go the way you wanted it to at least you know you did your best.. hope he will too.
Hopefully he understands the importance of putting in effort in the relationship, I can't blame you if you decide to find someone else but I recommend before you do, just break up with him, just to avoid that cheater title
Very well said... Thank you a lot! Wish you best!
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