If someone compliments you, are you likely to respond or walk away?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

So, I am in the is situation right now actually. So, the other day I walked into the office and there was this woman there with her back to me. I, being a real man, immediately recognized that this woman had a very nice figure and nice ass. Of course, that is something I only thought to myself and didn't say out loud.

She turns around I realize it is someone I knew from a work issue a few months back. We seldom speak or even email... it literally been like months and she and I only had this one thing we communicated about.

She gives me this amazing smile and says, "Hey, there you are... I was just thinking about you and had thought you had left." I said, "why would you think I would leave?" She says, "I figure these people would have scared you off by now." I told her no this is my retirement gig, so I am here now, this is my life. But I do not scare easily.

She smiles and says that it's good, then. I wanted to say thank you to you for being so professional with me last year, your level of professionalism was more than I deserved given the situation and I wanted to say thank you.

I just said. I appreciate that thanks. And that was the end of the conversation.

So late I was thinking WTF was she talking about? I barely remember our emails, and we only had one in person conversation per to the the other day.

So, I emailed her, and said to her that " I rarely get any complements around here, but it was very nice of her to say what she did. I really appreciated it and thank you.

She replies with I will be in office next week on Tuesday and Thursday, you should come up stairs and we can talk, and have a ITS IT. ITS IT is a ice cream thing.

So today is Tuesday, and I feel like I better go upstairs, and figure this out. Fingers crossed.

PizzaDaddyo · Accepted Answer

Lol I insult them back.

“Hey dude, it’s great to see you!”
- it’s not so great to see you.

Yo you’re good at that!
- No, I’m regular at this. You just suck at this.

“Nice hair!”
- said by no one ever, to you.

Nice mustache!
- I said the same thing last night. It will never be as close as your mom’s. * let’s be real. This is a sentence; not a compliment.

Damn, this pizza you made is fire!
- [I immediately pizza pie them in the face]

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I sadly Kinda actually do this, but definitely not really and only to very close people that could know how to handle me. I think personally the worst thing to do is to run away from a compliment just take it that’s why they did it if they’re fishing for more than a complement… and expect anything back then was it really a compliment?

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

I'd thank them, and keep going. I usually don't get compliments very often, but when I do, it's usually something generic (ie: your hair looks nice). So I don't think too much about it; it's just being polite and acknowledging someone's features or outfit.

Good example: this morning I complimented a coworker on her weight loss. She thanked me, said she's lost 34 pounds... I reaffirmed she looks great and to keep up the good work. And she kept going her merry way.

Redkitty_21 · Accepted Answer

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Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

If it’s just a compliment I say thank you. If it’s a “Can I get your number” it’s a “thanks but no sorry “. If it’s a “hey girl” or any other form of catcalling, then I’ll ignore and walk away.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Say aww thanks 😊 and smile and wish them a good day

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If someone compliments me, walking away would be rude!

Avicenna · Answer

It would be impolite to walk away, so of course I respond.

coachTanthony · Answer

Probably both. Thanks and keep it moving.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I've learned to say thanks and then ignore it. I take it as manipulation or at least attempted manipulation. Think about it... a salesman will start by complimenting you. That isn't for no reason. So if some asshole will say shit like that to you because they're trying to sell a used car, imagine the bullshit a person will say to get some sex... just imagine what a dirty dusty chick/dude will say to get what they want.

That's why I shitcan any compliment right from the start. My ego has done nothing helpful for me.

silvermoon84 · Answer

Depends. Today I was complimented on a pair of sunglasses that I was wearing by the grocery store clerk while I was out shopping. Later, my sister commented on a photo that I posted of myself on Facebook wearing said sunglasses and told me that I looked pretty. These compliments are perfectly fine HOWEVER, the ones I ignore are obscene compliments that I get from random men on the streets about my body when I’m out trying to go for a freakin run, such ass “nice tits” or “that’s the best ass I’ve ever seen sweetheart”. Hopefully now that I’m at the end of my 30’s the perverted compliments stop soon lol 😄

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Depends on the compliment and what follows.

Simply complimenting my outfit, looks, etc., and I'll smile and say thank you. Sometimes I'll even compliment back.

If the compliment is followed by a request for my number, or social media, it's a "thank you, but no."

If the compliment is meant in a derogatory fashion, I just keep walking

joenelson · Answer

If it's someone I know I'd say 'thank you'.

If it's someone I don't know, I'd say 'thank you very much'.

Because it takes a lot to compliment a stranger or someone who is not very close to you.

So if they have put efforts in complimenting then they deserve to be thanked.

knottywriter · Answer

Honestly I think it depends on the situation. I have had a coworker say plenty of things with clear intentions of what she wants and so I just try to walk away and pretend I didn't hear things. If I can't avoid it, I will say something nice and cordial and just try to limit the conversation. Most people however, I do try to compliment back and appreciate their compliments.

Kevininja363 · Answer

I remember I was putting on sunscreen at work and one of the women who is higher up in the chain of command saw me and said I was cute. I replied saying “thank you” with the utmost confidence. Didn’t compliment her as it would be weird and I might get accused for harassment. Trying to thank the other person for giving me a compliment, if it’s the right time and person MAYBE I’ll compliment them.

Leapfrog00 · Answer

I will respond by showing appreciation. It would be rude to walk away. Those are the ones I don't mind if they talk to me because paying someone a compliment is that person showing an interest in something about me.

I have trouble taking compliments because of low self esteem though.

Beatrix7 · Answer

respond am not shy a wouldn't walk away i use tontell guys in pubs in my twntys they where gorheous or they had some ass mama use to hate it but as time went by she found it funny i have still done in my 3pts to i have told guys there hot if i dont know them a couldnt care i just like being myself

WonderBell99 · Answer

Respond, since it is the polite thing to do. However, it depends on the nature of it. I’m more likely to ignore a sexual comment that is disguised as a compliment. For example, a person told me that I had amazing eyebrows around 2 years ago. I still haven’t forgotten about it. I used to be very insecure about them before, but I think they’re my best feature now. (My eyebrow hair is fairly sparse, so I fill them in to make them appear fuller).

mstbooblover · Answer

There is no reason to walk away when someone compliments us, but how we feel about that compliment depends on many things and on the circumstances. Is the compliment genuinely meant? Is it flattery or some calculation? Do we feel as deserving compliments or not? Is it a nice surprise? As often there's no black or white answer.

notmysundaybest · Answer

I don't know how to take compliments, it's like my mind goes blank and I downplay the importance of an item as a self defense mechanism. Unfortunately I tend to come off as an asshole for this. Compliments from the opposite sex are debilitating. I smile awkwardly and stare off into the distance

boombastik · Answer

I used to get shy but now i roll with it and i get some crazy compliments from women I've never met and whom are usually black. They say stuff like "damn you fine as hell, I hope you got a big dick!" or "i hate it for you but I'm taking advantage of you tonight!" -While some of these compliments like this come from attractive women, not all of them do but I've learned how flirt back regardless as it's all in fun.

davidyoungflyer · Answer

I'm a different type of person I'm a Panty Princess and when I'm complimented in my male mode I take compliments as not important but In my feminine mode I crave and accept compliments as a validation to my femininity? Is this normal? I know my femininity is more important to me and it has consumed my identity as I've grown older and perform more sexual as a Sissy ! I'm bisexual but I see myself more as a female sexually, mentally and physically if that makes sense?

Anonymous · Answer

Most of the time I’ll walk away, because I don’t know the SON OF **** *** . I’ll still say Thankyou though. I’m not gonna be rude.

If he’s hot enough and manly enough, and I smell high testosterone on him. Maybe I’ll stick around and respond. But that hasn’t happened yet so. It is what it is. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Valso · Answer

I'll respond. But no one has ever complimented me, so I won't believe her and I'll only raise my guard around her, waiting for her to expose her true intentions which I'm pretty sure will have nothing to do with any kind of relationship between us - romantic or otherwise.

Tomisworthless · Answer

Lol I’m not a guy who receives compliments, I’m much more likely to receive criticism and judgment from others. People tend to put me down a lot which is why my self esteem and confidence are low, it would be easy to be confident if people like you, compliment you and want to be around you

kappasan · Answer

Umm. If someone says "thank you", I'll respond "you're welcome".

Is this supposed to be a "compliment relating to anything towards a potential relationship" or something? I've never heard something like that... maybe... I don't know.

7vices · Answer

You don't know me, but if you did you'd know that people complementing me is super suspicous. So I keep my head down and get out of there as quick as I can. Which I never do because noone compliments me.

LittleSally · Answer

You mean a random stranger or a person we know? In any case I'd at least say thank you - if the compliment was polite. If it was rudely said and came from a stranger, I'd ignore.

chloeaimeejensen · Answer

Oh I’m a megaflirt! If someone tried to woo me in the street, I’d carry on walking like I was ignoring them but at the last minute, look back and seductively wink at them, slowly lick my lips and blow them a kiss before continuing to walk.

ChooChooHaha · Answer

Depends on scenario. Someone I have rapport with/ seems ok, I'll probably respond.

Some creeper/rando that I wouldn't look 2x at: I'm just rolling on with my day. Why: they take a mile if you give an inch. So I act like they don't exist.

MystiKaL · Answer

I'd say, "wow, thank you for the compliment... but are you taking the piss?". Because I really am an unattractive guy and I am very unlikely to get a compliment.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I would brush it off with a wave of the hand or a quick thanks. I have never taken compliments well or believed they were genuine, especially if they were from women.

crossdressingrihno · Answer

One of the reasons I hate socializing is because compliments. Its much the same feeling as getting a shirt that’s too small for your birthday and for a band you don’t like.

TenderFantasy · Answer

Respond of course. It would be RUDE not to say something! It's like you are ENTITLED to that compliment? ! Nope!

DermalPunch · Answer

I would say thank you and smile. Who would walk away? If they are "creepy" you just keep it moving. Why are basic social mores becoming so difficult for people?

Vikkrram · Answer

Guys generally don't take the compliments seriously they would think that either someone is joking or making them fools. Haha

Singing_Hollow · Answer

Ill say thank you. There is a difference between a complement and being a perv. Just need to be respectful to one another

xoxosilentgirl · Answer

if they do it respectfully i’ll say thak you, otherwise pretending being deaf

tfan1 · Answer

I would thank them but then excuse myself to get away from them because I’m happily married 👍🙂. If they continued I would show them my wedding ring and say thanks but I’m taken. Then immediately try to get away from them.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Well , it depends.. sometimes I'm caught off guard and I have like 2 seconds to think of something to say so I end up being really awkward about it lol... other than that I show my appreciation in some way...

Kaneki05 · Answer

Well time to think about been married to her. Before saying something to pretend I am not obsessed with them now.

Rei13 · Answer

I usually try to find something I like about them and compliment them back. Got to keep the positive energy moving

chrissykerdock · Answer

if i'm wearing a short skirt i'll get whistles guys may say nice... but i'll keep walking generally... at the most i'll say is thank you.

Anonymous · Answer

People have trouble accepting compliments for a number of reasons. Sometimes, it's tied to social anxiety. It can also be caused by feelings of low self-esteem, or by going through life without experiencing positive feelings of gratitude.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I usually respond, as walking away would be rude. A simple "Thank you" is all that is needed.

anonpabo · Answer

say a simple thank you and maybe compliment that back too and then keep going with whatever im doing

comekitty · Answer

I always say, 'thank you' and keep walking. I can't be rude and just walk away without the acknowledgement. 🙂

electromagnetic · Answer

A pleasant thank you and a walk away. I wouldn’t ignore. The social butterfly in me will probably string up a convo.

RavVid · Answer

Women don't compliment us often. So we seldom have to deal with it. when it does happen I'm a stunned mullet.

Lliam · Answer

I respond, usually with "Thanks", but sometimes with more conversation.

John_Doesnt · Answer

I respond with "Shut up baby, I know it"

Massageman · Answer

I'll thank them, but the courtesy (of complimenting others) is waning recently. So many probably think that the compliment is just a segue to an attack!

peedy · Answer

If it is truly a compliment than it would be rude to walk away you respond with a respectful thank you
But if it's ment to gain favor in hopes that it will get you in bed respond with a wity but truthful come back than walk awY

IJhonnyI · Answer

I would respond but I wouldn't know how to respond other than thank you

hsshannah96 · Answer

Respond but be cautious as they’re probably love bombing

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

I would not know what to do. As I don't get complimented enough lol.

SassyAussieAddy · Answer

Walking away would be pretty rude. Just say thank you.

TrueConfection · Answer

I'll respond! I love compliments! I'll even settle for flattery. 💕

BadApple69 · Answer

I always respond. Sometimes I don’t know what to say so I just say “thank you”.

Emelina · Answer

I usually put myself down, and then I compliment the person that is complimenting me... lol 😃

itsalyssaagain · Answer

I always say awww thanks so much. That’s so kind.  That’s like my signature line because I get so shy haha.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

I awkwardly say thank you and try to compliment them back. I don’t rlly know what to do when being complimented bc I never believe them lol

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Usually, I'd express gratitude for the compliments.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’d smile it off. Probably reply with “if you say so”

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