Girls, I work as a waitress and I'm attracted to the security where I work?

[Anonymous]

The security is like over 6 feet tall, and strong, and dominant, and I feel safe when he's around. I am feeling attracted to him after seeing him deal with a guy who was causing trouble. We often make eye contact and smile. I talk to him a lot when there are no customers, and we always end up flirting, like he would playfully put me in a headlock, or hold my hands behind my back so my back arches and my shirt goes up at the front. Or he would put his arms around me from behind and lift me, purposely exposing my belly. He also put his arm around me and tickled my waist. I enjoy this flirting and I love the way he looks at me. Am I playing with fire here?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He’s quite into you, girl… Good luck to you two!

I don’t know why is that playing with fire, but even if it feels like it, it’s fun, is not it?

[Asker]

He's thinking about security so he can't walk up to me, I have to walk up to him. And there's like the instinct to be attracted to a man that can protect. But we're never off at the same time so I don't get to meet him outside of work.

[Lowiu]

Why dont you ask him out or at least fornhis number first?