Why does it seem black girls check me out a lot?

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

This is a semi serious question. I'm a white guy who doesn't act, I don't know, hood. But for some reason it seems that black girls check me out fairly often. Why?

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Not meant to be racist or offensive. I just didn't know how to word it

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The other day, the one girl was gorgeous. Very pretty, very good body. Way out of my league. I was like "I can't believe she was looking at me."

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I have a date with a black girl tomorrow. No one probably remembers this question haha

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Well, she canceled lol.

[Anonymous]

it depends what you look like. if you posted a pic I'd be able to tell u. not all of us even want a hood guy. I won't rule a guy out for being hood, but I'd happily date a guy wasn't too. I don't really check white guys out like that and neither do most girls I know (I live in georgia) but do you dress really nice? we like guys who dress well? are you macho/stereotypically masculine in appearance? do you have tan skin/dark eyes? are you really muscular? maybe your just really cute? if anyone one of those things describe you that might be it. I'm guessing your very attractive and don't realize it because for me to check a white guy out he must be like really good looking

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

I have muscles but I'm not jacked. Maybe I am a decent looking guy.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Because your probably cute.

Believe or not, most black women have more criteria than just a dude being hood. We aren't all ghetto queens searching for the next available thug fresh out of prison.

F***in media.

Anyway - yea, your probably a pretty attractive guy, and since girls (who are straight,) find dudes attractive regardless of her race...

Yea that's probably why.

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

No offense meant.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

None taken.

I see what you meant - it's a little awkward trying to find the right words to express it :)

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Ok thanks for the answer

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Yep ^^

Do you like black girls? Like do you find them attractive?

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Yea. I would have no problem dating a black girl. I'm just very inexperienced, especially for my age 23, so I don't know if they really are checking me out and if they are what I should do.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

It's the same as any girl. Us black gals don't bite ^^ well, most of us anyway :P

If your really interested just smile back at her or let her know you noticed her checking you out. You can approach her and give her a compliment - even ask for her number if your feeling bold enough.

It may be a lot easier for you though if you have a friend who has black chick friends he knows, then he can introduce you guys. Lot less pressure than stranger black girls.

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

OK. I don't know anyone who has many black girl friends haha. I would like to know if these girls are checking me out. Thanks

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Lol well if you feel they are - hey they probably are ^^

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Thats cool. Of course they are missed opportunities too haha

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Lol yea - ah well, be happy your a stud in those chicks eyes :D

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

LOL. I guess that's a positive

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Thanks :D

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

No problem. Thanks for the advice, convo

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Yep ^^

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

@Update

XDD hope it goes really good XDD

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Thanks haha

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

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lol awe - she busy?

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

She was tired. Whatever lol

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

oh - hey don't take it as she didn't want to go. She might of had a long day. Did you ask her for the date or did she ask you?

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

She asked when we were gonna hang out. Then I said Saturday.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Oh okay - then she wants to hangout. She probably just had a long week and wasn't up for it. I'm sure you two will hang though, if you really want to?

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

I kinda did, but I hate when girls cancel. happens too much for me

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Awe :( well maybe you can send her a message about snagging lunch some day soon? See if she cancels? If she does it again - then screw her. Find another chick.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

lol - I'm kinda curious what you look like :P you sound like a sweet guy ^^

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Haha I am pretty ugly lol. I am probably not going to do anything with her.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

mhmm - sure. Mr. ugly gets checked out by girls constantly. Mhmm yea. I'm so convinced :P

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Hahaha. Well I had been told I was ugly etc, of course that was a long time ago.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

we all get the ugly insult eventually :( ha ha oh, a long time ago? now I'm really curious :P

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Well it was in high school and I was fat

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Oh yea, high school isn't really everyone's best years :P

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Haha. I mean now I have been told I'm cute a few times so I guess to some girls I am.

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

lol Mr. Stud now :P

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Oh yea lol

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

XD

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Not really. But I can't think it I guess. Like 4 girls in the world have found me attractive lol

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

ha ha probably more than you think. Us girls - we aren't as obvious as guys so, you could have several ladies checkin you out and be completely oblivious :P

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Haha. Maybe.

[ManaX]

I don't think there is a typical type of white guy that black girls like, and if there is it is definitely not hood. But either way if the people below haven't clarified it already, to have captured their interest to them you must be at least a bit good looking.

[ManaX]

@update. Sort of remember. Anyways have fun :).

[Snar87]

Hey dude, all seriousness. Tell me your secret. I've been trying to attract sistas for years, but I keep getting the snow bunnies checking me out. The ones that's not heavyset or has kids that is.

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Haha. I have no secret, I have no idea why they check me out. Different I guess.

[Snar87]

I'm different as different can get, for a black guy. I don't wear do-rags, Gocchi, or Roca-Wear.

hummmmm...

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Haha. I don't know man

[Eastside21]

dont ask why just embrace it and go get a black girl...lol. don't no why they do but just ask them if they wanna make some chocolate milk.haha

[pr3ttybr0wn]

it depends how you look..i can't really say

[slipslender]

what? black girls can only like 'hood' guys?

i think you need to get educated...

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

No. Its just odd to me. I don't seem like a guy black girls would like, but they seem to.

[slipslender]

don't question it. run with it.

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

I need to haha

[udolipixie]

They find you attractive or they're not checking you out but looking at you.

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

They could not be checking me out I guess haha. That would fit my experiences better. How do you know the difference?

[udolipixie]

If you can't tell when someone's checking you out just go up and ask them.

It's either a long gaze or multiple quick glances.

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

What if they seem to take a quick glance or tow and then make eye contact with you for a few seconds while you walk by?

[udolipixie]

Could be just looking at you but eye contact suggests displaying interest which is not necessarily checking you out.

Go for the only thing that can happen is rejection.

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Displaying interest doesn't mean they were checking me out?

Sorry, I'm confused

[udolipixie]

You can display interest without checking someone out. Girls aren't like guys where they check out the person's body to display interest.

Some girls glance & keep glancing so he'll notice and look at her then keep eye contact to display their interest so he'll approach her. No checking out done on their part.

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Oh... So they could be looking at me and be interested, but just not have checked out a body part.

[udolipixie]

Yep.

[sephora]

who cares, be happy a girl is checking you out regardless of their race ;)

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

I am. I'm not used to getting checked out by anyone lol

[Ezmotts]

They like white chocolate, what can you do other than supply?

[RedThread78]

wow stereotypes are fun! Just be happy girls are attracted to you!

[crystalrain]

maybe because you're cute... Duh ;)

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Haha I hope

[crystalrain]

lol :]

[Lovinme]

Don't deny it your hella fine probably! :)

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Cause they want a piece of that white boy ass!

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

LOL XD

[tyt_2012]

They might find you attractive.

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

I guess they do haha. I just don't think I'm the black girl type. I know that sounds stupid

[tyt_2012]

Yeah, it does sound stupid.

[Kain6th]

Do I sound stupid? :-P

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Haha. Yea I guess it does.

[tyt_2012]

Yeah

[Kain6th]

Do you sound stupid?

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Who kain? lol

[tyt_2012]

No.

[Kain6th]

Does everyone sound stupid except you? :-P

[tyt_2012]

Is there any point to this conversation? Lol

I can't really see it going anywhere...

[Kain6th]

Nah I just feel like picking on you. :-P

[tyt_2012]

Alright, I won't bother responding then.

[Anonymous]

THEY LIKE WHITE CHOCOLATE

[whydogirlsmesswithme]

Apparently