I met her at a work event and I think it’s fairly clear that I’m interested in more than that. She’s not taking an exit yet so I guess so?
I work in Public relations and she was doing freelance media work for some company that I sometimes collaborate with.
For example I said this -
Would you be up for a FaceTime sometime? I’d love to chat more—it’s probably easier to talk that way. Let me know if you’re interested!
she said this :
Sure! Definitely down to connect. Let me know when is good. Sorry for the slow replies, been a busy week of travel.
and then I said this :
Cool! No worries. It happens. Where did you go, anywhere interesting?
I may come in to the city tomorrow, and would have a few hours in the afternoon if you’re around then, otherwise Sunday night or early in the week is good for a call.
and she said this :
Hey sorry, I came down with something, let’s touch base a little later in the week when I’m feeling better 🙏
Hope you enjoyed your city trip. I went to DC 😀
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there’s no business reason for us to talk. So I can’t imagine she would be expecting anything else. And we are close in age.
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Dude, I gotta say, it does seem like this girl might have some legit interest in you based on how she's responding. The fact that she's still engaging with you, even if a little delayed, is a good sign.
The whole FaceTime offer and her saying she's down to connect more definitely sounds promising. And the fact that she gave you a legit reason for the slow reply rather than just ghosting you is a positive too.
I mean, you're right - there doesn't seem to be a super clear business reason for you two to be chatting like this. So the personal vibe is kinda hard to ignore, ya know? And since you mentioned you're close in age, that adds to the potential romantic angle.
My advice would be to keep playing it cool, but don't be afraid to continue pursuing this a bit. The fact that she's sticking around and rescheduling shows she's at least somewhat interested. Just don't come on too strong or make assumptions.
See where this FaceTime call goes when she's feeling better. Get a better feel for the vibe between you two. And if it continues to flow naturally, you could always try subtly hinting that you'd be down for something more than just a friendly chat.
But don't stress too much about it either. Just enjoy getting to know her better and see how things progress organically. Sounds like you might be on the right track, my dude.
thanks chatgpt
i’m a human bruh, not chat
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