I can’t help but to know the facts. I’m right about Darwin’s nature to survive Males will only spread seed to one female, while a female seeks seed from many to have a baby
Do you sometimes think "what must that women see in him" - I often think the same of women with clearly unmatched mates lol 😂 and it's like "lol lady you could've done so much better * lol 😂😆
Because she has a brain of her own and just because you see it that way doesn't mean that she sees it that way she has a brain of her own so she can do whatever she wants
She’s usually doing this for disingenuous reasons. This includes (but is not limited too) the following:
To make the guy she really likes perplexed and jealous.
To use the unattractive guy as a “warm up” to build up her confidence to talk to the guy she really likes.
She feels sorry for the unattractive guy and wants to boost his self esteem. Noble intentions but also very cruel because she’s not really interested. She figures she can friendzone easily if he responds.
She’s after something else the unattractive guy has (money, connections, etc.). This is very common.
In the worst case scenario she is doing this to toy with and torture the unattractive guy. She gets off on seeing him get hurt/depressed when he discovers she was bluffing the whole time. Some really sick minded and twisted sociopathic women still do this bullsh*t well into adulthood. It’s all about “power” to them.
However there are rare events when this is genuine. But it’s only when she finds something really “cute” and unique about the guy. It’s like an attractive guy who chubby chases big girls. Some sort of fetish. Very rare but it happens.
But if I was dealing with a girl (who I knew was out of my league) in this scenario I would have my guard up the entire time. Very high likelihood she’s got disingenuous intentions.
Also here is a tip you can use to determine if she’s actually flirting vs. being really friendly: If she’s flirting she will usually make a compliment about your appearance and/or she will be slightly nervous/laugh a lot. But if she acts real confident and relaxed around you (when she just first met you) and compliments you everything BUT your appearance that’s actually a very bad sign.
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Also if she’s flirting she will lightly touch you. If she’s just being friendly she will more likely arm punch you or something. How she hugs you gives it all away too.
One thing as guys is we don’t always have the best judgment on exactly what attractive women find attractive.
Some attractive women are intimidated by attractive men. They fear losing control and/or being cheated on. So they rather have a lesser attractive man who they assume will give them 100% of their attention.
Attractive guys can do this too in dating. They hate feeling jealous so they will date an average looking woman knowing they have less to worry about.
Because they’re cute. I love nerdy men and making their cocks rock solid then sucking them off and completely emptying their balls and then they’re like “wow! She did that to me?” Afterwards. I like making men feel desired.
Oh I recently sucked off my 47 year old guitar teacher and he loved it! And so did I 😋 and I love how the whole situation shocked him and he was like “omg kez!” And “Jesus kez!!” When I went to suck him off! Haha I love their surprised reactions and making their toes curl too
Women don't think like guys. And she could simultaneously be into a guy who looks horrible and a guy who looks great. Almost always a guy will have character traits she's into. This is true even if you think she's only after money. It's hard to believe since one day she may be into his character & not the next day.. but the money is always constant. My $0.02 of course.
They find that guy more attractive than what you find attractive, they have heard good things about him in the community and wanted to strike up conversation, perhaps they look interesting & chill & more approachable than a ‘Godly’ handsome being?
I’m not a mind reader though all these are possibilities.
Geeks are the new chads in this digital age. Also there is no such thing as “out of your league”, thats a self defeating mindset induced but low confidence. The thing that makes you more attractive is confidence. Its not the only thing but if you have it thats half the battle
Sometimes it’s not just about looks—confidence, personality, and how someone makes you feel matter way more. A “hot” woman might flirt with an “unattractive” guy if he’s fun, genuine, or makes her laugh. Attraction’s more about connection than just appearances.
people, you should have principles, not just go off of how hot or attractive someone is. Finding a partner bc of how they look might seem fine right away, but it can lead to many worse things later on down the road, because you put their looks over their personality. honestly good for her, she has those principles, and i respect that
Because some attractive looking guy aren’t that attractive in the personality and financial. And sometimes they would more focus on their look than the relationship. So look isn’t always the main thing.
Mr Bean sure managed to dodge such female bullets lol 💄 lol 😅 - sometimes hot women do eyeball me unblinking and often I just humour or bemuse me or then by looking behind me or around and minding my own self - after all, I'm not wanting - if I did, I would just say upfront "hi".
She wouldn't. Unless it's a movie or the unattractive guy has an overwhelmingly attractive wallet. Some perceptive women might also develop a softer spot for a man that saved their life before, even if that man is not really attractive - but then again, it's those men's strength and willpower that makes them attractive. All in all, it does not really happen in real life.
Because attraction isn’t just looks. What I learned from Modern Success coaching program is that confidence, social skills, and not being thirsty matter way more than being “hot.” A lot of attractive guys are boring, insecure, or already taken. so a chill, confident “unattractive” guy can actually be way more appealing.
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Because the "more attractive" guy might be boring or a jerk. Also, depends on your opinion on what "more attractive" is. To you, the guy she's flirting with might be a 4 (if we're ranking by numbers), but to her, he could be a 10.
I like curvier guys more than I like 'fit bods'. I've been with fitter guys, and it just didn't quite do it for me.
You're wrong, blackeagle007, people attractive to their personalities, then looks. Because my partner has better looks than me. Not all women are bad. Me and my partner have a connection going on, and that connection is bringing us closer each day.
You're wrong, blackeagle007, people attractive to their personalities, then looks. Because my partner has better looks than me. Not all women are bad. Me and my partner have a connection going on, and that connection is bringing us closer each day.
Most likely because uglier guys build you up and make you feel good about yourself. While better looking guys tear you down and act like their shit don't stink or you aren't good enough.
She may feel more confident or comfortable around him. Less hard to impress so she can just relax but still have fun. I’m sure she finds some redeeming qualities in him, men often become more attractive the more a woman gets to know them.
Maybe she enjoys watching the unattractive guy's reaction.
Maybe she likes seeing him overwhelmed by her hotness.
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this is only exists in fictional fairy tales
in real life, women (regardless of their own attractiveness) are repulsed by unattractive guys more so than guys (of any attractiveness) are repulsed by unattractive women
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