Is it okay for a married woman to crave for attention from other men?

[TheLovelyWoman]

I love receiving attention, compliments, and flirting comments from other men. It makes me feel alive, wanted, and appreciated.

[OneViewpoint]

I dunno. All I know is that I get a LOT of married women flirting with me. Not just locking eyes across a room. Dragging the husbands in tow because they just had to meet me. Then rubbing their tits all over me while he stands there. Getting handsy and touching my arms, chest, legs, or repeated hugs. Getting all excited every time they see me, gigantic smiles and running up to hug me.

I've always just chalked it up to a lot of women being bored in sexless 25 year marriages wanting to feel alive and seen again. So yeah, they crave attention from other men. Their husbands probably haven't made them feel attracted or wanted in years. Pretty easy to bed them too.

[Communicationisking]

All people want to be desired... but don't you want to be desired more than the others by the man that is committed to you?

Polyamorous is a thing but I would say once in a committed monogamous relationship it would be difficult to bring to the table

[Derek6969]

Does a person like you really exists? Mate, what do you do get the women doing all that to you instead of their husbands. What's your job/profession? You look like a love guru. Can you help me learn some skills from you?

[Communicationisking]

@Derek6969 I'm just super in love with the greatest person I have ever met (she is also super in love with me) and our friendship was based/built on just sharing truths and experiences from the get go and eventually it became a partnership... I don't get the women to do anything, anything that is done is a thing we both accept doing with the option to opt out at any time and we discuss things in detail prior to even going down any path.

Happy to elaborate further but would have to be in PM as it wouldn't really be relevant to this thread.

[DangerouslyCute]

as long as it doesn't cross your relationship boundaries I can't see any problem

some people need more attention than their partner can offer...

[Communicationisking]

Exactly and the person that needs more has a few options well a lot but the easy to explain are cheat (prob the most common), be well communicating with their partner and like you said make boundaries and stick to them or communicate well and get what you desire from your partner and the partner provide it (if possible) even if they are not really into it or whatever (there is some form of compromise/negotiation in one aspect or another in every relationship), or say/do nothing and be in an unsatisfying relationship.

[Flower7]

No this is not okay. You should be feeling those things from your husband.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like emotional cheating to me and an indication of some serious underlying problems

[Prin97]

Okay, so I’m a bloke so you may call this a biased response but I don’t see the problem.

on the other hand? I don’t see the problem with a man flirting with a married woman either. This is not something that just works one way. It is subsequently 50% either way you look at it.

having said that if a married woman was flirting with a man, whether he’s married or not it doesn’t matter. It depends if the man is interested. Just because a married woman is flirting with a man doesn’t necessarily mean that the male is going to be interested in the whole package deal. For example, she may be a beautiful looking woman, but she might have a horrible personality.

[Bricealan]

@thelovelywoman Not sure if you are 'unusual' in that because I have many examples of what you describe. Maybe just some/many do not want to admit it. Even single - attached- women in college and at work wanted some extra attention or sex play at work or in college with their 'SO' was not around... Many will attack me for saying but I will leave the replies to you alone

[Truthatanycost]

I ignore all married women when they try to seek attention. All of that attention should be going to the man that is providing, protecting, loving, spending time with and in covenant with, not us guys that 'don't care about you'.

[Kaneki05]

Longs if your not cheating then it's okay. And if you do want to cheat then find yourself a man who wants a hot wife. Therefore you can do it without it been a problem.

[exitseven]

Everyone likes attention, even married people. I am very married but there has recently been a woman at the gym that i think was flirting with me, I am not interested but it really gave my ego a boost.

[Gwendoline]

No. It's a slippery slope to destroying a marraige

[Sam1133]

Marriage already destroy that's y she looking for attention somewhere else...

[Gwendoline]

@Sam1133 searching for reasons to justify immoral behaviour won't help her

[midnightmoon05]

" Is it okay for a married man to crave for attention from other women?"

Can you answer this?

[midnightmoon05]

@Dykei1989

Why does my husband’s friend grope and grab me inappropriately and I like it? Does he want me? ↗

what do you think she is looking for?

[tzdc21]

No it is not. The only man you should love getting attention from is your husband, and you're saying you're craving other men's attention? Either you're just trolling or you need some help.

[MrChinaski]

Every monogamous relationship has the same rule, every non-monogamous relationship has different rules. If you want non-monogamy, negotiate that

[CountryWanderer]

I don't think it's okay. That's what your husband is for

[TheLovelyWoman]

But I don’t crave attention from my husband.

[CountryWanderer]

Why did you marry him? That's really sad

[ProbablyClueless]

To CRAVE attention from other men? No, that is absolutely not normal. Your husband should be fulfilling those needs.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[MJVillarama]

Honestly, it’s natural to enjoy attention. we all like feeling seen. It just depends on keeping clear boundaries.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, thats an insecurity problem and overtime it will erode your marriage.

[SotiCoto]

Gotta say NO to that. That is the sort of thing that leads to cheating.

[genericname85]

craving things in general is usually not a problem. acting on them is tho.

[In_Trance]

As long as you're husband is ok with it.
If he's not or he doesn't even know you're a garbage human

[StevenMcGarrett]

Yes, it's totally okay to get what you need.

[janemarie15]

No for me, maybe the wife is not contended on her married life haha

[Bklynbadboy12]

There is nothing wrong with that your married not dead

[krin_m]

You are an adult. You can do whatever you want as long as it is legal

[Anonymous]

I don't think so, but it's personal choice.

[Anonymous]

It's borderline but based on your other posts, you go beyond that border.

[Billlewis]

Of course it's okay.

[serious]

No, it is certainly not okay.

[Makeushiver]

YES, esp. if it's me

[WonderingManII]

You can't help your feelings.

[Jennz6]

Don’t you like being married?

[Sam1133]

Jennz 🥰

[Jennz6]

@Sam1133
I know right?
🥰

[Sam1133]

You wanna get married? 🥰

[Jennz6]

@Sam1133
I’m in a situation right now

[Staximus]

No, that's slut behavior

[Bloodparadise]

Women should never marry.. like forever..

[MOUTHWASHING]

It is cheating. Wake up

[RedInnocent69]

It’s natural, if you’re an attention whore

[Ironco]

What does your husband have to say?

[Tom567456]

It's common. Just human nature

[zombiewoof]

As long as you are comfortsble with it

[ambitious_male]

NO, A big fat NO.

[eagle1951]

seems to happen a lot these days