I have a crush on this woman who works for one of the catering contractors at university. I've told her that I find her attractive, and she said that she's married and a mother. The rejection actually didn't hurt because I wasn't too invested in her when I approached her. She is stationed at one of the cafés on campus, and her role is barista. This café is located in the building where the department which manages my program is based, and thus where I have most of my lectures this semester and the next. This is only one of four cafés I frequent on campus, and I try to go to the other places more often in order to give her some space.
She actually didn't flat out reject me the first time. It was only the second time I approached her that she told me that she is married. I think the actual first cold approach moment was fairly awkward for both of us.
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You received your answer. Move on. Now.
Yeah, I really have to, but I miss the feeling I get when I see her. It actually doesn't hurt, and we did agree to stay friends. I didn't feel rejected, which might be due to the awkward way I approached her... but at least it wasn't forced like the previous two crushes I approached where I waited until my feelings had gotten into my head before approaching them.
@JHNS98 Okay, fair enough. Be cordial and friendly, but let that particular incident pass and do not bring it up again.
She is married. You should forget about it. the life you save may be your own.
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