What does a guy get out of it when he touches your bare skin

[halliejohnson]

Like a guy you know has a crush on you and he touches your bare skin (shoulder, back, neck) with his whole hand...this totally turns a woman on if she's receptive to his advances/I totally feel it through my whole body if I like the guy. If the guy is attracted to her too does he get turned on just by the feel and touch of of her skin or is the guys intent just to arouse the girl..what does he get out of it? Just curious.

[AshBrown]

I think guys are not always doing it to arouse the girl. They are quite selfish most of the times. IF they are seeing a future connection with you then it is a different matter; but when a random guy at work or college tries to touch your bare skin, he is purely doing it for his OWN pleasure however major or little it might be.

[DishLady]

Sometimes it's just about seeing the girl's reaction to touch. Other times it's about finding out how nice and soft/smooth the girl's skin is. Often it's a little of both.

[smexiliciousss]

I don't know., a guy who likes me kept touching me and I think his goal was just to arouse me .

[halliejohnson]

Yea, that's why I'm asking. I know it turns me on in a huge way. Just not sure what he's getting on his end?

[JPorter]

He's getting you excited...you have no idea how hot it is for us to get you excited.

[halliejohnson]

:) Boy it works! He walked up to me yesterday and ran his fingers through my hair and down my back and all in all the touch lasted about 3-4 seconds max but I went from 0-60 from that touch.

[halliejohnson]

So the other question is...if a guy is touching your bare skin is it safe to assume he likes you or do guys just do that to any old girl. My friends and I were debating this the other night..

[JPorter]

A guy absolutely would not do that to a girl he's friends with. That's a really sexually suggestive action. I guess I can't say he "likes" you, but he's definitely wanting to do things with you.

[halliejohnson]

He also said that I had a great body and whoever dated me was one lucky guy for getting to enjoy it. LOL! Gotta keep this one on a short leash..

[halliejohnson]

Every time I see him he makes it a point to touch me in some way on my skin. Like the shoulder with his entire hand cupping my shoulder or patting my shoulder or resting his whole open hand on the middle of my back. I know what it does to me and I think he does too!

[smexiliciousss]

Then he probably likes you! Haha same he ran his hand up and down my thigh and I was like danngggg.