Being annoying as a way of flirting?

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I've seen lots of cases where guys intentionally annoy girls and push their buttons as a way to flirt with them. Of course, this assumes that the woman is already somewhat interested in him and she's gained their trust as respect.

But some guys would snatch their phone as a joke, tease them, annoy them by saying things they don't like, or just pretend to be an a**hole or troll. And the women laugh and are like "AHHH STOP IT" with a smile.

Does most women like this kind of flirting or only very few?

ZenQueen · Accepted Answer

I see this a lot too, it is childish and immature flirting.. maybe a little of it is OK but if that is your main technique to "seduce" her well then that is just lame and chances are she will get bored and think "is this how he will be during the whole relationship(always teasing/never serious)?" basically there needs to be balance. I think guys will do this when they are afraid of being serious and exposing true feelings...

oh and like other girls have said, it can turn into bullying, or come across as that way... its best to be direct and don't play games.

Honeystick · Accepted Answer

I think it's childish and I often 'tease back' just because I don't want to be a bitch (the guys are really sweet) or simply don't know how to react, but hardly ever to flirt. There's this one guy and he keeps teasing me, though I never know whether he actually likes me, just likes flirting or is trying to be friendly. I always assume it's the last one, so I just tease back (harmless anyway), but then again I might give him the wrong impression..

So when it all comes to and end I think it's confusing and childish.

Anonymous · Answer

Ha ha this SO sounds like my situation! I've got a guy from work who has been doing this to me for the last 3 years! I'm sure he sees it as teasing, maybe he isn't even aware he does it, but more often than not he can be really annoying with it. Sometimes its over kill. But I've grown to love it and to love him because I know he does it because he likes me.

I guess it depends on the girl, some girls fight back, like me, and others think is is just as you state- annoying. I personally like it to an extent but it can get out fo hand.

Anonymous · Answer

F*** no. I've been bullied a lot before so any guy trying to "push my buttons", even just to flirt, will get no positive reaction from me whatsoever. I'm more likely to think he's a moron trying to intimidate me, and that'll make me want to kick his ass big time, if not ignore him until the end of times.

mulberry · Answer

I have this happen to me a lot by guys when they like me, it's like their go to way of doing things. It's because they're nervous and not sure how to make me laugh, but in my particular case it works like a charm because I do find it funny.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like it if he does it too much  Do it less than about 25% of the time or instead of annoying  flirting, its just annoying

genyboo · Answer

I have to say only the ones with a sense of humor could like this, some find it childish and just might Consider you immature! So my advice would not to use this method, just be you! Someones bound yo appreciate it! :)

teasegirl · Answer

Lol I love that way of flirting actually. Makes things more relaxed. I usually tease back, I think is more part of the game.

gemglam · Answer

Being annoying because you like a girl will probably not get them laid.

Anonymous · Answer

when we say "AHHH STOP IT" we really mean stop. its not cute or flirty. Girls want romantic, sweet guys, not annoying a**holes.

Anonymous · Answer

That's not flirting. It's bullying.

tiredofwaiting · Answer

That is NOT a very effective way to flirt.

Being annoying as a way of flirting?

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