Asked a girl out for dinner, got a weird answer? (Page 2)

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Hey guys and gals, I'll keep this short since nobody likes reading a block of text.I recently asked a girl that volunteers at my work out to dinner this weekend (sushi, if that matters) and her response was "I'll have to think about it".  So we said our goodbye's (I usually see her once a week, one of the reasons I asked her out), and she said "I'll see you next week" which pretty much ruled out any sort of date for this weekend.  My question would be, was this just a polite way to turn me down?  Or should I wait and see if she mentions it again (I really don't want to bug her about it)?Too me this just seems to be a kinda round-about way of shooting me down, but I'm rather confused.  I got the feeling that she's at least a little bit interested in me (she seemed to be giving off some classic signs that she might be interested, laughing at bad jokes, blushes a little when I talk to her, etc).  Or maybe she just didn't want sushi?Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Anonymous · Answer

count your loses and go to the next best thing. preferably someone at your job so she can see you interact with another woman. even if she don't want you she'll be jealous because, she would hate that another woman has your attention and not her. She would try to gain that attention back and that's when you tell her you'll think about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, I just think that was her polite way of turning you down. Heck, at least she was polite about it

UncleScrooge · Answer

Sounds like a rejection to me, so I wouldn't bring it up again. But that's just what I would do; the girls on here probably have better advice.

bellabionda · Answer

A polite way to say no not interested.

madhatters4 · Answer

i think it's a passive agressive way of saying no.

Anonymous · Answer

She wasn't interested in you and was rejecting you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea

teah29010 · Answer

You should ask again. A closed mouth don't get fed.

Anonymous · Answer

she is interested, but probably she didn't want to agree , not to look desperate  and now waiting for you to ask her again...

dannyboi677 · Answer

I'm going to go with what Harvey said. That's a "no", man.

COCOCHANEL · Answer

she might be stalling

Luv2run · Answer

You're not her first priority.

Anonymous · Answer

she was not really interested

yesmylove · Answer

Playing hard to get

Muratek · Answer

She don't want you. She hate you. :DD

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