We're Not All Gold Diggers! (Page 2)

[imnotcrearive]

Every woman is attracted to money in a guy. You're a hypocrite if you say otherwise. And I'm not saying this as a bad thing. It's in your nature to be attracted to it as it's a means of provision for you and potentially your child. Difference between that and a gold digger is a gold digger has no interest in the love aspect of the relationship. She's only in it to enrich herself and not because she looks at the guy as a potential partner.

[GirlsLie]

So you've been in the mind of "every" single woman in the world?

I'm extremely attracted to my boyfriend and he's poor, could have fooled me.

[Hannah591]

@GirlsLie Your username is really inappropriate right now.

[Hannah591]

I don't think you read the whole myTake in which it clearly states everywhereeee that money is not what I find "attractive" in a guy. I don't need a mans money, I have my own. This is the difference - in the 21st century, women earn their own money and want independence. Accept that instead of calling all women gold diggers and then putting yourself down about it because you have little money.

[GirlsLie]

@imnotcrearive lol, well since you apparently think all females share one brain then all of our names are inappropriate.

[Hannah591]

@GirlsLie He didn't say that, I did, haha.

[iamyourneighbor]

@mytake owner lmao I agree her username is not helping lol

[GirlsLie]

Oooh i'm sorry, I need sleep really badly lol

@iamyourneighbor shouldn't you be busy blocking people who disagree with you lol

[imnotcrearive]

I think you're misinterpreting what attraction means. It's just a factor in you liking him, it's not the whole thing. And yes I read your take. The reasons why you're saying you dont like money is because you're thinking of guys who have money that have not worked for it themselves and the bad qualities that are perceived to come with those types of guys. And @GirlsLie, unfortunately no, however its part of your evolutionary biology to be attracted to someone who can provide for you. It doesn't mean you chase people that have money. I'm sure your boyfriend have many qualities that makes him attractive to you in that regard. Whether it's looks, brains, socially open etc... Each one of those makes you attracted to him subconsciously based on you understanding that you won't go hungry with him, and won't have a shitty life.

[GirlsLie]

@imnotcrearive That's a good point.

[RamyDarwishEG]

It's not that ALL are gold diggers , it's just that most ( like 85 or 90 percent ) are , thats why we men have that expression

From your actions with ur previous dates , good ur amazing , but u are 1 , and the likes of you are typically found in magnitude of 1 in every 1000 , so what you speak of is not the common thing

I work in a good job ( still my earning are slow now due to some personal problems and debts ) , but once a friend of mine heard about it , she just *threw* herself at me , i HAD to tell her directly to stay the hell away from me [ note that i never could attract a single girl in my life due to being extremely ugly , now what has changed i wonder? :) ]

sry for long comment , but i actually disagree with ur opinion , nevertheless i hope for you the best husband with that attitude of your :)

[Hannah591]

I would say 10% of women are.

[RamyDarwishEG]

i was down voted , it was you right?

And , if that was the case , then why would it be common knowledge that most ( not all ) women are gold diggers , just the same about the D Size debate :)

[DeltsBrah]

If that many girls were gold diggers you'd see a lot more single women. Women have their own careers nowadays and outpace men in colleges. Plenty of women work while the men stay at home with the kids get used to it buddy it's not 1950.

[mickylad]

Sir I agree with you I am in the same boat as you.
I now have a very good job and travel.
My looks have improved and I'm overall Confident
It's funny to watch actually these gold diggers work as you and I know how this operates

[pnl86]

Only because people started throwing percentages around... I can't resist...

"Ugh, I just hate it when the 99.999999% of women out there give the rest of us a bad name."

[Hannah591]

@DeltsBrah Thank-you. This is what I'm getting across but no-one's accepting it. They say they don't like gold diggers, but brandish us all with that stereotype. When we try to speak up about it, we're still wrong, they're right and they somehow know how every woman thinks. I wouldn't write this mytake if it wasn't true for me.

[RamyDarwishEG]

@my take owner : You say what you do , i say from my personal experience , every man/woman's opinions are shaped by what they experience or what they hear , the good people ignore what they hear so they do not assume all of it is true BUT when they experience what they hear in multiple situations then give me 1 good reason for them not to believe it?

For example , not every man is a rapist , but when a woman is raped , she will see all men as rapists just because she had experienced something horrible , can anyone just call this girl has bad thinking? no we can't , because she experienced something

And to my fellow men down there who just thinks that women work and men stay at home , go put a fucking cage on ur di** before you make an account and put *male* as the gender , that is not something a man should ever say , not to mean that women should not work , but no man should be fine with staying at home like a loser, idiotic men

@my take owner : in the end , sorry if i offended you

[Jager66]

I think part of the problem is that men and women tend to have very different ideas of what makes someone a gold digger.

In part there is a gap where what many men would consider gold digging behavior the average woman would only consider to be good and reasonable standards.

[jjmarvin]

I am sad to report that this is falling upon deaf ears. Anyone who believes this will not be swayed by a mytake on gag. They are too far gone.

[Kerbie]

Perfect as usual Hannah 😊 I understand the support bit my own Hannah was made redunant a while back from her dance instructor job now she works in a womens refuge volunatarily and helps them by speaking to the residents she does an amazing job ! I just wish i could get a paid job myself but its never bothered my Hannah and she helps me where she can.

[FatherJack]

Just the same as not every man is " creepy, rapey , pervert " etc. Most women think like this... in lot of cases , outright hate men... had the misfortune of being surrounded by man haters at a former workplace , so it does work both ways , biological wiring means women & men want completely different things in life , this is the source of conflict / potential conflict.

[SIGguy]

A lot of guys got rejected over this very issue. Over time, we developed the mentality that girls love guys with money. A sugar daddy, if you will. However, the same can be said about men, I met a few. In truth, money doesn't matter to girls. Hypothetically, they'd just think it'd nice that if things got hairy financially, you'd be there to help. I have female friends that REFUSE to date rich guys because they think they're arrogant and condescending.

[ginnyweasley]

the amount of hate and shallowness from the guys is sad

[littlemermaid89]

love this! men always said they don't want gold diggers but most of them always choose the gold digger type. So weird.

[idkwtftoputhere]

Not ALL women are gold diggers? Wow, you'd think that would be obvious information but according to so many of the guys' comments, it's fucking not. That's really sad. Good myTake

[Aristotle]

You sound like you're trying to pitch yourself here, I don't see what you want us to take from this? Not all women are gold diggers, pretty sure everyone already knew that. People will make generalizations, your cute case story won't make any difference tbh

[Hannah591]

I think you should read the other comments from guys who still assume every woman is a gold digger.

[Aristotle]

I think you should read what I commented

[Aristotle]

Also, not one of these guys said "All women are golddiggers", completely refuting your point in writing this shit in the first place

[MimTcgraw]

I saw some gold digger pranks guys played on random women on youtube... It was very interesting, and funny. Yet I somehow felt sorry for these women for being set up like they were. Its not their fault its in their DNA... Just like its not a man's fault that he wants to sleep with all the hot women in the world. Just accept the truths! And yes I know not all women are gold diggers, I've met a couple who dated a rich guy and actually turned him down! Bet he wasn't used to that!!

[VampireEmpress]

women can only gold dig because guys willingly give them the $. if he's a grown man, he should be able to handle his own money properly.

[babu_001]

You are right. Once I asked a question to girls on GAG that did they ever pay for the meals on their first date? 70% said NO, 20% said they divided (or wanted to) the payment (to pay for own) and 10% said Yes.

I guess almost 90% are gold diggers. Girls who can't pay for their own meal on a date should be considered as leaches.

[Roostah]

Oh I agree your not all gold diggers, but a large amount of you are for men to be cautious.

[Hannah591]

No, men have just become unhealthily paranoid and obsessed with the term.

[PT1911]

The amount of hate here is sad.

[Hannah591]

I'm glad you can see it.

[PT1911]

Of course I can, 2 years ago I would have been on their side because of what one woman did to me, but thats the thing, SHE'S JUST ONE WOMAN, out of the many out of there.

[gapminder]

Get down girl go head, get down...

https://youtu.be/PODXNPzQ2ZM

[MrDetermined]

Yeah, the expressions Men get when they ride a Bentley, it explains a lot.

[kittykatbrat]

(laughing)
Me = self confessed "power tripper" NOT "gold digger"... the end.

Peace guys xo

[Jklmnop]

Of COURSE not everyone is like that! Why do you need to justify?

[Hannah591]

Because of the massive belief here that every woman is a gold digger.

[GirlsTonguesHOT]

Have you ever heard of the word "generalization"?

If not, might I introduce you, to say, a dictionary? Or better yet some common sense?