Throw A Player A Twig But Give A Trunk To The Shy Guy. An Article On Shy Men For The Ladies (Page 5)

[selfdestruction]

What am I then?

I stand my ground, but I’m not aggressive.

I tend to lead, but won’t stand in the way of a leader.

I’m decisive in my decisions but will
Always consider other people’s proposes.

I well read, but I don’t listen to
Bull shit.

I’ll ask a girl out, but I’m not emasculated if the girl asks first.

Hmmm

[Flower7]

I love shy guys. They can be hard to figure out though. It's easy to get the impression that they're not interested.

[Shy_Steve]

Its so easy for us Shy Guys to give out that impression that were not interested, But we usually are.

[katlima]

I used to be a shy guy, but then leaened how to play the game. Told her to give me her hand on the firsr date for instance and we were fucking on the 3rd date. Still together after 2 years. Going stronger. I dont hold back about my sexual demands and she obeys everything.
Now that i think back.. shyness was an excuse i was making for not being good at talking to women or having the courage. Its a crazy word out there.

[9teen]

No, thank you. I prefer the confident man who knows exactly what he's doing.

[Armourdillo]

Do you think any girl who takes her advice is a retard?

[9teen]

Have I mentioned that?

[Armourdillo]

No that's why I'm asking

[WeaponZero]

Sceptical: That's the thing. You threw him hints. What she's saying here is to not play games about it and not be so subtle and outright approach the guy. A lot of us don't get hints.

[icemaster2340]

I still am a shy guy even tho I've tried to be more confident... It's working out pretty good right now, but I totally agree with this article... Now if only the girl(s) I like would read this...

[bobbi789]

Thank you for this article! I've been crushing on a shy guy for a couple weeks, and I swear everyday I want to give up haha. I appreciate the encouragement

[esahc88]

Amen, that is true. I am not a shy guy but I have friends that are and they need a lot of nudging to even approach a girl that is obviously flirting with them.

[itssimplekeepitreal]

Hockey. do it. I was petrified when I did it tbh, but he completes me. and your 5yearer there :) ... well, I think you know what you should do already :) you'll be sweet. no luck needed :) ! x

[hockeyrulesforever]

Wow! this totally describes a guy I've liked for a little over 5 years now... I guess according to this he probably likes me lol. I better find a way to tell him... Thanks!

[WeaponZero]

I can't help but think this totally contradicts your article from a few months ago. But I like it. I find it to be much closer to the truth than that one was.

[jaycon]

I'm not a shy guy anymore but I used to be.. I agree with this article 100% Ladies give us a chance! :D We are A LOT more sensitive than we show ourselves to be..

[Anonymous]

The only thing that worried me about pursuing a relationship with a shy guy was sex tbh because I want a man who is at least dominant in bed and your Take cleared my confusion! Just realized that yes shy guys are also men with the same hormones but are just waiting for the right girl and the right moment to show their "manly" side!

[LeeLadDaBadLad]

Dont tell the women our shy guy secrets they may actually want to start being treated right and realise when a good guy walks into her life!!

[Anonymous]

Lel I have the opposite issue. I tebd to gravitate to shy guys, but I don't like being dominant at all and they're always super submissive and indecisive. I just want a guy who can take charge who isn't an asshole.

[Benedek38]

Well, I was a guy like that. Super socially anxious, but one on one with a woman I had success achieving my objectives usually. I've changed a bit since then (less introverted), but generally speaking, you can tell even from a shy or loner guy whether he has the composure to lead - usually the ones that separate themselves from others are more keen to lead, while the ones that disappear in the crowd are more submissive.

[Cask23]

Thats because it is a true feminie nature for a women to want to be submissive. There is an unconscious desire for women to follow a strong male.

What will happen is when a women has to take a dominate role, the women eventually ends up resenting the man, because unconditionally she doesn't want the role.

Eventually that ends the relationship or cheating if a stronger alpha male enters her life.

[shephardjhon]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-FtCTW2rVFM
you need to peal off his layers of shyness before that.

[lovelylife]

All I can say is WOW! Great article, I really hope its true. Love it and thanks for posting it, gives me a little hope. Thanks

[ConstantlyConfused]

Great article! I'd like to point out: To cheat on a SHY MAN will turn him into an untrusting person.

NEVER CHEAT ON ANYONE!!

[El_Heffe]

Fabulously written post on a much overlooked subject. It sure would have assisted me much younger, but this should be published in women's magazines where ateast it will be digest by its simble target, Women.

[John_Doesnt]

I'm a shy guy and I approve of this take.

[Taylor_C]

I don´t connect well with shy nor aggressive people in general, but that´s just me. Heck, why can´t a guy just be normal, neither aggressive nor shy?