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If Women Really Aren't "Visual," It's A Huge Disappointment for Guys (Page 3)

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  • YourFutureEx
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    503 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

    Women are visual too.

    -------> end of the discussion <-------

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    • redeyemindtricks
      redeyemindtricks
      +1 y

      Yep.
      (: <3

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
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      I hope so.

      Reply
  • mistixs
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    Master Age: 29
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    587 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

    Online dating studies show that women are much more likely to message men who are physically attractive

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    • mistixs
      mistixs
      +1 y

      I surprise myself with how shallow I am, on those websites.
      I'll scroll through 99% compatible, 80% compatible etc because I don't find the man very attractive haha

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    You keep asking this and the majority of women answering keep saying they're visually attracted to well built and good looking men.

    If you can't accept that, perhaps it's your own hangup convincing you it's true?

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      I'm just not convinced. As I've said I hope women are visual but there is no proof that I know of.

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    • Guccigabbana18
      Guccigabbana18
      +1 y

      Shouldn't the fact that women are saying they are be enough proof? It's only really the women who want rich/successful men and prioritise this highly who are willing to compromise looks or personality in a man.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
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      @Guccigabbana18 I just find it hard to believe women can actually be attracted to men. I don't find men attractive. I think that women might only look at guys in the same way is straight guys look at other guys. In other words, a lot of straight guys can tell if a guy is good looking but don't get any feelings. I think it's the same for women.

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    • Anonymous
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      It's not. Maybe for a small minority who say they're demisexual or whatever that is, but it's not the norm...

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    • noneoftheabove
      noneoftheabove
      +1 y

      @ADFSDF1996 bro, everyone is visual. And the reason why you can't understand why women would be attracted to guys is cause you're not gay lol

      Reply
  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Of course I would be pleased if the guy I am dating is good looking, but that will never be my main focus. I just see it as merely a bonus. As long as the guy is an average kind person, who takes care of himself, I wouldn't mind dating him. It's not like I would dump him for not having a six pack or an outstanding jaw line. I mean it's not like you guys expect every girl you date to look like a supermodel. It is just easier for women to hide their flaws using make-up and care products.

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  • DancingGirl
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    Women have eyes. We can appreciate beauty and attractive guys more specifically. The point is that we TEND to not be romantically or sexually driven by visuals --- unlike most guys.

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  • BiscuitesSwag
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    You keep asking this over and over. If you weren't to phrase it differently every time you post something like this I would report it as spamming. -_-

    And if you seriously think that women can't be physically attracted to men and need emotional connection, then you should be happy about that (looking at your profile pic).

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and "to each their own" are two very appropriate phrases to use here. I've been called handsome by many people. I don't expect everyone to find me attractive.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      You’re ugly too.

      Reply
  • Truthatanycost
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    Master Age: 110
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    759 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

    Here you go, lets put this one to rest. Take a look at all of the girls reactions.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kb2_MRXID9E
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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      I don't know, isn't that scripted?

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    • Truthatanycost
      Truthatanycost
      +1 y

      They aren't scripted. In those chat programs you get a whole bunch of random people and he has loads of other videos like that. I saw one where a guy wasn't as built and the women's reactions were a little warmer.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      Why do they react like that online but if a guy like that is over at a pool party, they don't even care.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      Also notice how they don't show interest until he takes off his shirt. They don't seem to find men's faces attractive.

      Reply
  • matt1209
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    I don't think that's true for every women not being attracted to man for his looks or body. I've been told I'm handsome and had some girls comment on my body before. Not saying it's a every day thing. I think women are just not as vocal or as obvious as men.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    I check out guys.
    And believe me I'm 100% straight. I like the way Guy's bodies look, and my boyfriend is very physically attractive to me.
    It's looks that attract you first. The rest is personality

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  • Polocrew
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    +1 y

    Lmaooo Dude My ig is filled with chicks drooling over my shirtless pics

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    • Truthatanycost
      Truthatanycost
      +1 y

      lol, you don't even need to be shirtless, they lose it over a fitted T-shirt.

      Reply
  • Anonymous
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    (36-45)
    +1 y

    women are visually attracted
    first comes looks always to see if they are physicall compatible or complementary
    next comes personality
    people who have low looks value personality over looks
    people who have better looks value looks over personality

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  • amarahorrorstory
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    Yoda Age: 28
    +1 y

    Gaggers are such black and white people. Women can be visual, we just tend to be less visual than men. Doesn't mean we aren't visual at all. Seeing hot guys, is exciting but not something that turns us on, just like "Wow, that guy is beautiful." But for the most part, yeah this is true.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      Do you prefer women's aesthetics over men? Also don't you think male modeling is pointless?

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    • amarahorrorstory
      amarahorrorstory
      +1 y

      No. However I don't think male modeling is pointless. There was a popular MyTake floating around a few days ago about modeling and how the whole point has nothing to do with how attractive the model is. Also as an artist, I think models are one of the most helpful things to getting a portrait done.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      If women aren't visual then I think male modeling is pointless because it won't get female attention.

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    • amarahorrorstory
      amarahorrorstory
      +1 y

      That isn't the point of modeling though? It's not about how attractive you are, I advise you go find that MyTake I was talking about. And women are visual, just not the same way as men.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      In what way are women visual?

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    • amarahorrorstory
      amarahorrorstory
      +1 y

      We have eyes don't we? What's you're argument and why does it matter? What are you trying to debunk. I still look at guys and think "God, he is so attractive, holy crap" but I'm not going to get wet over it. I'm just really drawn to him. I don't have preference of women's aesthetics, I don't think male modeling is pointless because being sexy isn't their objective, it isn't to get female attention, if it was, women still find it attractive and are we forgetting about gay men?

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      Apparently even gay men think women are more aesthetically appealing than men.

      Reply
    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      I'm not trying to debunk anything, I'm just trying to find answers.

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    • amarahorrorstory
      amarahorrorstory
      +1 y

      That's not what I'm talking about? Gay men still like men, so if male modeling was for the sole purpose was to turn people on, and it had no effect on women their are still gay men who would find it attractive. Then I'm lost at what you're trying to get answers to. Like what are you having trouble understanding?

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      I'm just starting to doubt women find men visually attractive.

      Reply
    • amarahorrorstory
      amarahorrorstory
      +1 y

      We do, but personality is super important, people never believe us but if an average guy has a good personality, some will think he is a hot guy. If a hot guy has a crap personality, he is less attractive, however some people will put up with it. If he is hot and has a good personality he is exactly what girls want, which is rare but does exist which is why some girls are so quick to reject. If he is not the best looking but good personality, he might have a chance with some girls. If he is not attractive with a bad personality he has nothing to offer. I find that the way a guy carries himself matters a lot too, mannerisms. So if he is physically attractive that's good but his expression can give him points, just his style, personality, charisma, all of that, factors in usually. But usually, appearance just catches us and everything facts in and becomes more important. Also each girl has a different definition of attractive.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      I understand what you mean, thanks for sharing an opinion.

      Reply
    • Bobbyhill1
      Bobbyhill1
      +1 y

      a guy who sees a hot girl also doesn't get a hard on. also there are tests that refute your ''less visual'' argument. When you support claims like that you are saying that one gender is inferior in a way.

      Reply
  • JohnDoe3000
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    Yoda Age: 38
    +1 y
    368 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

    Women definitely ARE visual. There's so much in this mytake that's obvioussly wrong. Handsome men do get women much more easily.

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  • LoloWaye
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    Yoda Age: 31
    +1 y

    I definitely notice a good looking man and appreciate him when I get those free seconds to stare at him. But it never makes me want to jump all over him or anything.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      Do you think it's the same way us straight guys look at other guys?

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  • orphan
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    +1 y

    women are visual as well. they just pay attention to different features than guys.

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  • Anonymous
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    (45 Plus)
    +1 y

    Some women are very visual. Most are a bit visual.

    GIven there are fewer guys walking around in great shape than there are really visual women, if that's what you want, get in shape, and then select from the women who are clearly turned on by it.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    If you want to get your head straight about the opposite sex, stop projecting your feelings and beliefs onto women. Stop believing that guys and girls of the same. I encourage you to read books rather than come to your own conclusions get some education because you are way off base

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      You do know most of those books are biased, right? I know about a lot of things butt know nothing about women except for what I've noticed about them so far.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      *but I know

      Reply
  • CHRIS11796
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    Xper 7 Age: 30
    +1 y

    Women are visual however not as much as guys. Why is it such a problem for you that women are less visual?

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      If women aren't visual then they won't be able to be physically attracted to men.

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    • CHRIS11796
      CHRIS11796
      +1 y

      Bro women are visual, just not as much as men are. And women become attracted to other things other than looks. Doesn't mean they don't find you visually appealing.

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  • Djaaaaaay
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    Xper 6 Age: 65
    +1 y

    Im sooooo glad thier not. Hate me dudes. Whatever , but I don't need all that much attention from that. personally I like it just how it is right now instead of that.

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  • Anonymous
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    (30-35)
    +1 y

    Women do find men attractive, they just need more to find them sexually attractive... most of the time.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      So women don't find random men physically attractive by their looks?

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      They do find good-looking guys physically attractive, as they would find a pair of nice shoes attractive. But they don't necessarily get turned on... meaning they don't get sexually attracted just by the looks.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      Still though, most women find women better looking than men.

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      I think that's just because women have the makeup and the clothes... everything that is beauty. Guys are more appreciated for their minds and strength. So much attention is payed to women in looks in everyday life.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      So men are less attractive than women?

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      I think women generally think that both men and women are good-looking in different ways. For relationships and sex, they favor men because men are not only attractive to them physically but also emotionally, romantically, etc.

      And, as Kelliekelliekellie said, women can be turned on by anything remotely sexual, whether it be two animals having sex, two gay men having sex or two lesbian women having sex. I've actually started to really appreciate the male form due to watching gay sex because the men are all over each others bodies, whereas in straight porn, women barely touch the men's bodies... besides their penis, in an impassive way at that.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      So you just barely started to appreciate men's bodies?

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      I've always liked how they looked, I just rarely got turned on by a guy's body alone.

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    • ADFSDF1996
      ADFSDF1996
      +1 y

      I think I understand what you mean.

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