Eh, while well written I don't agree that there are women who appreciate my company or are attracted to me. My environment has been nothing but these types of females, so I agree that not even associating with them is the safest bet. Problem is there isn't anyone left to date so I've given up on women and resigned to be single. No woman appreciates my value and that won't ever change.
I don't have any motivation left. I've travelled around the world, been to clubs and done everything that people said would either get me laid or find a relationship. Nothing has worked and I don't have any hope that my life will suddenly change.
I agree with what you wrote, but my Take is nothing about me complaining of these girls, especially since I've never dated those kind. This Take is about helping guys understand what's going on with a more clarified perspective.
Yeah, you're wrong. women like real men. girls like boys. Unfortunately, dudes in the early 20's are not men anymore, they're more like grown boys. A real man is a mix of a nice guy's (honest) caring nature and generosity and a bad boy's dominant persevering attitude. That's why I get all the women, romantically or not.
Well there's guys who have an edge then there's guys who are abusive. The ones who seek out abusive lovers or keep going back to ones that use and abuse them. The latter are the ones to avoid.
Its simple really women want hot men, if you're hot and an asshole its better than ugly and decent, its just how things work.
Do you need some kind of edgeness? yeah but not enough to be a criminal just have some backbone and dont be used or agree to everything others said.
if you're hot you're good to go as simple that.
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Women ride the cock carousel with all the bad boys in ages 16-30, and then they want to settle down with a "nice guy" that has money, just to divorce him a couple of years later and take all his assets.
This isn't a very good defense of men, but I don't think the majority of men really care about personality enough to be attracted to bitch traits. I think the bitches just know they're hot regardless of their personality, and can act any way they want and still get guys.
because those so called "Bad girls/bitch/nice girls" pretend to act nice to get what they want, ala opportunist. But it is hard to check how a girl fully is without getting to know her, which is why it's hard cause you know, we have to speak first and converse first.
Sorry we are all being honest her... upload a pic and im going to judge. I seriously doubt you get any of the ''good looking bad boys'' more the ''ugly chav types''
@Ladyslipper A guy doesn't have to be a bad boy to not be clingy and not care about mushy romance. I don't have a clingy nature and I hate gooey romance too but ain't a badboy.
For you it's probably just about sex, like it is with most of these girls.
Romantic fiction is not helping this problem either by making it appear that girls should leave their perfectly good boyfriend for a bad boy. All I have to say is... there's a reason they're called bad boys, and it ain't the good kind of bad...
Right now as long as he knows what he's doing and is confident he's doing the right thing im fine if he bad well he's on his own if he gets in trouble if he's really nice that's great just keep it together and dont make me go insane
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Eh, while well written I don't agree that there are women who appreciate my company or are attracted to me. My environment has been nothing but these types of females, so I agree that not even associating with them is the safest bet. Problem is there isn't anyone left to date so I've given up on women and resigned to be single. No woman appreciates my value and that won't ever change.
Nah, man, don't be defeatist. There will be somebody. Trust me.
I don't have any motivation left. I've travelled around the world, been to clubs and done everything that people said would either get me laid or find a relationship. Nothing has worked and I don't have any hope that my life will suddenly change.
Too long and winded. Didn't read everything.
To put in short terms. Wicked people like other wicked people. Period.
It has nothing to do with race at all man.
In China and India are over billion people. Trust many women there like garbage men as well, because they are low value garbage themselves.
If you didn't even read it all you shouldn't have commented lol.
I went back and read it all..
I wrote this Mytake like 3 months ago.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a36792-quit-with-the-stupidity-you-re-the-one-at-fault
I agree with what you wrote, but my Take is nothing about me complaining of these girls, especially since I've never dated those kind. This Take is about helping guys understand what's going on with a more clarified perspective.
i think that type of girl is just a moron. only a moron would be attracted to a guy who has some doubtful character.
And i'm not into moronic type of girls
Yeah, you're wrong.
women like real men.
girls like boys.
Unfortunately, dudes in the early 20's are not men anymore, they're more like grown boys.
A real man is a mix of a nice guy's (honest) caring nature and generosity and a bad boy's dominant persevering attitude.
That's why I get all the women, romantically or not.
Plus, being good looking doesn't hurt. :P
Unfortunately dude's that's 27 are not men anymore. they're little boys.
@lacorine197 too bad for them.
Well there's guys who have an edge then there's guys who are abusive. The ones who seek out abusive lovers or keep going back to ones that use and abuse them. The latter are the ones to avoid.
Never comprehended the allure of bad bad boys. I love intellectuals.
but you still fucked them, so...
@allwomenwantme excuse you?
Good take mate. This is certainly going to trigger some.
Oh it already has lol.
By the looks of it, I can already see that many girls here are butthurt because they've slept with at least one stupid jerk in their life.
Yeah, what I was thinking too, lol.
Its simple really women want hot men, if you're hot and an asshole its better than ugly and decent, its just how things work.
Do you need some kind of edgeness? yeah but not enough to be a criminal just have some backbone and dont be used or agree to everything others said.
if you're hot you're good to go as simple that.
Women ride the cock carousel with all the bad boys in ages 16-30, and then they want to settle down with a "nice guy" that has money, just to divorce him a couple of years later and take all his assets.
It's the cycle for every woman.
Not every.
Nice take, I hope you post in your next post,
Why do men are wired to BAD GIRLS/BITCH lol. would love to see you post it :) haha
I don't think most men really like bitches, however I did want to write something on the Madonna-whore thing before.
This isn't a very good defense of men, but I don't think the majority of men really care about personality enough to be attracted to bitch traits. I think the bitches just know they're hot regardless of their personality, and can act any way they want and still get guys.
because those so called "Bad girls/bitch/nice girls" pretend to act nice to get what they want, ala opportunist. But it is hard to check how a girl fully is without getting to know her, which is why it's hard cause you know, we have to speak first and converse first.
Completely agreed. Just like how guys go for dumb girls.
I like a guy who treat me well and not going to change into a bad guy
Women have no idea what they want. They're very wishy washy, up and down, in and out. It's very hard to do right by a woman
Girls who like bad boys are stupid, and they will realize they are dumb when the bad boy gives them an STD
Yup. Or when knocked up and all alone.
I like a guy who is kind and thoughtful, well mannered coz i don't like to attract attention to myself. So bring me a nice guy anyday.
You've got to be crazy and stupid to want a bad boy. 😂
i don't like bad boys they're mostly jerks
From your name I think you are Asian, and I stated that I've never known an Asian to be into them 😉
I am not Asian
That's why I said 'I think' 😊
I guess I'm more drawn to bad boys because they're not clingy and I'm not into the mushy romance crap
Good luck for bad boy break ur heart.
ugly, fat nose, fat face... tiny upper lip = bad ageing.
Sorry we are all being honest her... upload a pic and im going to judge. I seriously doubt you get any of the ''good looking bad boys'' more the ''ugly chav types''
@TheUsername27 and yet you don't have a picture up so you must be a real looker yourself... not.
@TheUsername27 you're insulting my appearance because I like bad boys lol sorry i offended you with my preference in men
@Ladyslipper A guy doesn't have to be a bad boy to not be clingy and not care about mushy romance. I don't have a clingy nature and I hate gooey romance too but ain't a badboy.
For you it's probably just about sex, like it is with most of these girls.
Romantic fiction is not helping this problem either by making it appear that girls should leave their perfectly good boyfriend for a bad boy. All I have to say is... there's a reason they're called bad boys, and it ain't the good kind of bad...
Right now as long as he knows what he's doing and is confident he's doing the right thing im fine if he bad well he's on his own if he gets in trouble if he's really nice that's great just keep it together and dont make me go insane