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My boyfriend chased me. Then again, I do do any of the shit above. Lol.
don't* rather
That easy love alone doesn't work. You need money woman want to treated like fairy tale queen which isn't the reality.
They grew up watching (sleeping beauty).
Last even if you date girl who love you.
she might dumb you if someone comes who can get her what she want & like.
Now of course it's not just woman, man do it to but this few reason why most man don't give crap.
Last feminist have destroyed the rule of man & woman creating new society were both man & woman do the same thing which ended up destroying trideation value in marriage
I have one bad crush right now and the only reason I haven't asked her out is because I want to learn her personality more and see whether she's oridnary not. Right now I'm really only crazy over her because she's pretty. %99.9999999 today's women aren't worth the effort for a guy in my position. Sorry but it's true. Society is rotted to mush mentally. Both men AND women. Women, just like today's men, have been convinced that they're more than they're really worth. This creates for people who in reality "ain't shit" thinking they're god's gift to men. fuck outta here.
Chasing a woman is nonsense, because if she doesn't show interest back, she either isn't interested, or is an idiot that plays that "hard to get" bullshit (which in that case a guy shouldn't want her anyway)
Who needs women when you have pets, they don't complain, they don't whine, they just cutely nudge you and always want your attention in the most sincerest fashion.
I don't give a shit about any of you (nor the males). Go fuck yourselves, you egotistical pricks.
lol that's what she gets. I've never understood why some women think being a bitch is attractive or inviting,. but then wonder why they're alone. uh duh silly girl, cause you've got your priorities screwed up. Focus on being honest kind and inviting and the rest will take care of itself. Being a bitch is exhausting, that's why father time has beat your ass with that same ugly stick you've been using on men. now your hateful ugly and alone. good luck with that Cruella!
a combination of feminism, women taking what they have for granted, and women not putting other women in their place. guys are fed up with woman's bullshit, hypocrisy, double standards, manipulative behavior, etc. it's women that shot themselves in the foot and really has nothing to do with guys at all. it's unlikely that this trend will reverse with the modern short attention spans. it all spirals downward from here. women might as well just date women instead, it's what the elites that rule the planet want anyways. they know that they can come in and buy your life at any point.
Damned if you do, damned if you don't. And we're all creeps by default. Sounds about right...
Probably because women make it complicated as shit and a pain in the ass.
I mean that's not gonna stop me being there's bound to be a diamond among the coal, but damn do they make it really excruciating process sometimes.
Once I stopped thinking with my groin and started thinking with my brain, I learned that hanging out with friends, pickup game of basketball, spending my money on me and not chasing and impressing, my life improved. Frustrating at times? Yup! But once you look at it in a logical cost vs return on your time and money, it's a no brainier!
@Profiler O yeah I agree, I've found that when your not actively looking for someone you end up having more luck then if you were actively looking.
I agree with a lot of this but I also don't think it's right to blame women for all of it. there's still the man's part to get up and at least try (keeping in mind he could be turned down) and take a risk every now and then instead of blaming what SOME women do and classifying all women in that category.
Men are tired of the "get up and at least try" BS. That's so last century!
If we approach, we're creeping, if we don't, we must be gay. No offense to gay men. That is what women say.
Women are extremely confusing to men. Women want to be equal to men in every way yet want the guys to ask them out. And if the gal says ok, it's up to guys to make the arrangements, pay for everything, jump through fire hoops and whatever else. So not worth it for us guys.
Men and Women look at each and everything differently. Once guys are able to stop looking at women through our groin, we start looking at women similarly to how we look at a lot of other things and aspects in life. A more logical, methodical approach. What is the needs/cost balance? What is my time worth in this attempt? How much money am I willing to spend on this and what will my money buy for me? (No, I'm not talking about sex). We guys look at the return on investment be it money, time, effort.
You're chalking it up to rejection anxiety, but it's not really that. I really don't think as many girls will understand the actual reality of rejection as it exist for men - but without getting into all that - yes, most manage to cope eventually, the problem here is even if you learn to deal with that the demands still feel impossible to manage.
So picture a guy who's learned to handle rejection well enough, the issue now is that he's told he's too nice when he tries to chat to a girl, the impression he gets from individual girls and from society at large is always that *men* are doing something wrong and if they complain then they're 'just bitter' and must definitely be doing something wrong. So he tries to be better. He tries being less nice and a bit more cocky, they say he's being too arrogant. He focuses on being more flirty, he's called a creep. He tries being honest and vulnerable and they say he's weak or desperate. Get it? I could go on but I'm running out of space here.
Lol you just sound angry and bitter, I know so many people in loving relationship.. If this were true there would be no loving and successful relationships. Maybe you're just doing something wrong when it comes to women and it's most likely your negative attitude that is getting you nowhere.
It's not like people can't or don't ever end up in loving relationships, it's about the excessive difficulty that men are facing these days when it comes to their part in making this happen.
The issue is that men aren't feeling like it's worth it. When they compare effort, risk and reward a lot of guys aren't seeing it as worth it to bother. The images give you an impression of what men must be feeling; all answers are wrong. Not only it seem like everything they say is wrong, but it's always made out to be their fault that things go wrong, even though if a right answer can be achieved it can only be done with a lucky dice roll.
If anything, it's getting nowhere that gives them a negative attitude. How many guys, how many articles does it take for you to recognize that there's actually a legitimate issue here? Don't you think that it would take formidable resistance to make men not interested in trying to gain women's affection? Try not being reflexively dismissive for a moment, hmm?
@AllThatSweetJazz omg. I am so sick of people complaining about how difficult things are for men, you can't be bothered? You don't think it's worth it? I have a simple solution, be alone and miserable for ever.
Women have it just and hard as men do but for different reasons, dating is shit most of the time if you don't like it then don't do it but STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT IT.
First.
"be alone and miserable for ever"
No, I refuse. Now what?
Second. That 's not a practical solution anyway, because that's just what guys are doing and it's bad for everyone. They're deciding to just not bother because they have friends and hobbies and life doesn't seem totally shit. The problem with that is this doesn't breed truly happy people and indeed doesn't breed at all; it's not sustainable. Eventually things *will* seem totally shit and then you get climbing suicide rates and whatnot.
Who has it harder is debatable, more importantly it doesn't matter. Even if women had it significantly worse in spite of humanities best efforts, it still doesn't matter because problems are problems. Deciding who has it worse doesn't make the other's problems go away and right now we have this problem. This isn't just 'dating is shit most of the time,' this is disproportionate. We see something is more shit about dating now than it used to be and this is a negative effect that spreads.
Dating is harder than it used to be when? You're 25 so let's saying you've been dating for 10yrs, is it harder than it was 10yrs ago? Well yes coz you're older and dating is more serious than it was back then. If you're referring to earlier than that then how in the world would you know?
I wasn't trying to debate who has it harder, I'm saying that women go through shit too. Men are fucking shit most of the time, it's so difficult to find a decent guy. It's hard for everyone so if you don't want to me alone and miserable then stop whinging. Your negative attitude toward women won't get you anywhere and don't blame women for giving you the negative attitude coz you choose to be the way you are, I have been raped, emotionally, physically and mentally abused, I was forced to have an abortion then blamed for it. I have been through fucking hell and back, do you think I sit there and whinge about men and how hard it is? No, coz I choose to be positive and you are choosing to be negative.
Personal experience from one person, even from someone older, isn't really useful here. We can know how the world was through statistics and through people who have compiled a lot of research in this area and have authority to comment on it.
So are women shitty most of the time too? And if it's possible for them to be shitty most of the time, isn't it possible for them to be a bit more shitty a bit more of the time now compared to the past?
Also, I'm sorry all that happened to you but "do you think I sit there and whinge about men and how hard it is?" Well... "Men are fucking shit most of the time, it's so difficult to find a decent guy" and anyway, even if countless people had a problem and didn't vocalize it at all they still have a problem. Not speaking up about it doesn't make it not real.
It's only a 'negative attitude' or 'whinging' if there's not something real going on. I believe in personal responsibility for one's experiences in the sense of 'you choose to be the way you are' but there's still an external world to consider. Even if my life is together, I'm voicing problems other people are experiencing, so then am still just being negative or 'whinging'when I'm supporting other people and the issues they face? The Take itself is evidence that it's something many people are noticing; it's an observation of something going on in society. How many voices does it take for you to consider men's feelings and insight to be valid too? How many voices before it's worthy of being taken seriously?
@AllThatSweetJazz I can't be bothered to read all that the reason I brought up men being shitty is to tell you that happens on both sides, there are negatives to dating for women, for men, for gays/lesbians. There is always negatives when dating for men and women. I'm not ready further than that lol coz I can't be fucked with your essay responses.
All around the media men are getting heat and even if you're a guy like me who *feels secure* that this is BS and that fundamentally I'm a good person - and men are going to know their own intent best - then still, if people around them are taking this BS on board then that's going to cause friction... not the good kind.
ok that last one wasn't for you soz
@AllThatSweetJazz If a man is a BBC or filthy rich, girls will fall all over each other pursuing the prize catch. Beta males gave up long time ago. A piece of tail vs a peace of mind, well that's a no brainer for an intelligent millenial man. MGTOW is snowballing and gaining momentum.
@AllThatSweetJazz The cost/benefit analysis is a deficit for the guys these days, sums it up perfectly.
Says the likely single 30 year old women. You seriously have no clue what many men are starting to think. You can dismiss this as angry, bitter, incel, whatever. It doesn't matter. Those are just words. Men are slowly rising up and saying make our time worth it or you are not worth it. You just "being a woman" is not worth anything anymore, you gotta show your worth now besides flashing a boob like it or not. Women are losing sexual power. It's a good thing. A great thing. They can finally start gaining power and worth the normal way through work, career, personality, smarts, and skill just like men, just as it should have been from the start.
How did you end up with guys that were so bad though? Did they manipulate you into being with them? Threaten you? Why did you ever give them a chance? Also, before they became a problem, did you enjoy the company the men gave you? Cause you realize even if it may have been hell in the end, any part of it you did enjoy when dating is something 60% of guys will never ever ever have. They won't go through the hell of rape and abuse, but they also have been alone since the beginning, have never dated despite being really good and decent, and never will be not alone. Despite you going through hell over abuse, rape etc., you must realize too it can be quite hell being so alone since the beginning and never recovering from it forever too.
It's because men have been fed a lie for centuries and are now waking up to it. Men have significantly more to lose than women by committing in a relationship, women have everything to gain. Therefore, its 100% the woman's responsibility to prove to the man why he should give up his current lifestyle to be with her, why being with her is better than his life now, and that she will be like that forever and not change once the probationary period has finished she thinks she has secured the relationship. One women can't offer a man everything he needs in a relationship, multiple women can. If you can prove to him you can provide what multiple women can, then he may put in more effort.
Well I certainly don't measure up, I am swallowing the the "Red Pill" and goin MGTOW. A piece of tail vs peace of mind. Now that's a no brainer.
women aren't worth it anymore. if i were born again today, as a man, i'd probably go gay.
A man cannot " go gay " , men are fixed sexually , you are either straight or gay !! Agree though , asexual would be better !!
@FatherJack actually you lack the scientific data to state that. we know almost fuck all about sexuality and what causes differences in it in comparison to others. we dont fully know if its nature or nuture so "going gay" is very possible untill proven otherwise
*sips tea*
@TheOtakuMaid certainly happens. heard countless men confess their personal stories of how they turned gay because they got no attention from women, or because they were bullied by them and had bad experiences. not claiming its the norm, just that it happens in real life.
Speak for yourself, I can see all the guy up votes, but... there's an abundance of great women out there that aren't all slupped up with themselfs. I get your point , but seriously... there's a lot of women denouncing feminism , realizing that being equal isn't feminism , but being equalitarian instead.
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MGTOW, we went MGTOW, not all of us are gay.
i'm, sadly a girl and i relate to non of these? I see your point tho this is quite annoying but if you see someone like that just ignore? And chase after the girls you like..
+ Some girls, like me will just say pizza everytime you ask whatcha wanna eat or burgers, and i dont care about my weight i'd rather be a bit chubby than skinny, i actually complain bc im to skinny.. I don't know but if ya see a hoe ya dont like skip it and get chase the next one or better yet don't chase just slowly start talking and see where it goes from there..
well I'm shocked I see your age being under 18, and judging by your comment. I am pleased that maybe some women are not all the same, as it sounds like you have your head screwed on right. Thanks for the comment.
People shouldn't be chasing anything but their dreams :-)
Indeed... still work in progress for me , but I don't quit !!
And if their dream is to find love?
@SinghSong I guess in that case, it just comes with the territory. I was always told if something is meant to be, it would be.
I used to chase women.. but now I only chase gainz. DISREGARD females, ACQUIRE gainz!
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it makes me laugh but this is actually pretty sound advice.
I dont chase women anymore because they dont take dating seriously i hate people who date multiple people on the same time
As far as ur points they are shallow as f
Ofc women want streets clean from all the creeps u talk like u never been concerned about a woman u care about when she is out at night alone
1. #MeToo.
2. Porn Addiction.
3. THOTism
I often challenge the MGTOW on here because of their tendency to broad brush ALL women, but what they say does sometimes hit the mark. Men need to be aware of the potential pitfalls of relationships.
agreed. I think many guys are at least partially agreeing with MGTOW including myself. It can go a bit too broad in putting all women in a basket, but some things thye do have good points on.
Though I must point out I think the list ya got isn't 100% accurate. The #MeToo movement wasn't meant to make women paranoid of guys and vice versa, it was just supposed to raise awareness of literal sexual harassment which does exist. Some people just take it over the top like any other movement, but ya gotta ignore that and recognize what it's supposed to be for. On #2, don't blame just porn, it's everything that can be sexualized besides live non stripper/prostitute women. It was a mistake mankind made long ago to ever allow such sexualization/trophy making of women in the first place. Should of just let them be like any other guy, making them work as hard, sign up for selective service, etc. Now they use just being born a woman to fuck guys over while also riding on the benefits of modern times. Stop making them out to be special for being a woman and that stuff is solved instantly. on #3, yah gals can be thots plenty. But remember every market needs a demand. Men can be sluts too. Just as annoying to see a instagram girl with 100000 pics of herself as it is a gym obsessed hulk guy to take a billion workout selfies and 1000s of health vids. Ofc, the thots are more common, but men can always get annoying too. Both can suck at times. Again tho, consider the market demand. If billions of guys didn't drool over a single bikini thot pic, it would die instantly. I don't see nearly as many gals loving the steroid looking gym buff pics. Js.
Being honest most girls are stupid as fuck and most guys are stupid as fuck
U rarely see a girl that is intelligent and she values something else other then tatoos
And u rarely see a guy that values something more in a girl then her ass and tits
I know girls love intimidating guys that are tall and hot
Same as i love girls that are little and petite