I just want to point something out that’s been a big problem I don’t think just to me but also in society, ladies if your friends with a guy and if he wants to treat you like you mean everything to him even though your not dating just be cautious about what you say please because if you lead a guy on and say that you love him love is a strong word especially if your friends with him and especially if you keep saying that continuously and you don’t actually mean it the way he thinks your saying it that’s leading him on that you like him like that, then given that he doesn’t feel comfortable with how you feel whenever your around him, it makes him think of the past times that women had said that to him and brings up thoughts in his head that aren’t so nice about all the mistakes he made in life and came back to haunt him. That being said they’re are guys in this world that actually have meaningful feelings such as myself and therefore also have a very sensitive soft spot, so in our heads and in our hearts we all want that someone in there life that’s actually gonna be there for him at his worst times when we feel we’re at our lowest because for us we would do the same thing and make the sacrifice to do whatever we can to help her. Aching hearts knowing that we keep making the same mistakes being mislead is a big issue in our society today and I pray and hope for me and every other guy that feels the way I do would never have to feel that way and have the someone in our lives to understand what saying I love you does and how we feel about it.
What Girls Said
I wouldn't say I love you to a male friend... Only to life partner. So I wouldn't mislead him.
Yeah agreed, the same goes for men too.