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  • Anonymous
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    Feminist Tripe at its finest.

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  • fionaglenanne
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    Gurl, u earned a follow from me!

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  • BlackCatBone
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    So true! Thanks for this 😊.

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  • Twalli
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    If you want kids and husband, men are the prize.

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    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      I can have kids without a husband. But for men, you can’t have kids without a woman. Women are the prize

      Reply
    • Heartonmysleeve88
      Heartonmysleeve88
      +1 y

      @nelly83 psh for real. It's funny how donkey from shrek thinks that he is the prize. See what happens when you give them confidence?

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @heartonmysleeve88 I’m glad you posted this because men and their over confidence and arrogance shows society is still suffering from the lingering remnants of patriarchy era.
      If you haven’t noticed , it’s always women dressing up for men. Single unmarried older women are called old spinster maids while there is no such term for unmarried men

      Men get rewarded for sleeping around but women get called sluts , whores.

      It’s ok for a man to fart but it’s not ok for a woman to fart.

      Just take a look how women spend 3-4 hours getting ready for dates while men spend 15 mins.

      Reply
    • Heartonmysleeve88
      Heartonmysleeve88
      +1 y

      @nelly83 I have a good feeling that all this is about to change and already changing

      Reply
    • Heartonmysleeve88
      Heartonmysleeve88
      +1 y

      @nelly83 I have a feeling that all this is about to change if it isn't changing already.

      Reply
    • Twalli
      Twalli
      +1 y

      @nelly83 you can, but I said "and husband".

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @Twalli to be honest I don’t even plan on having a husband in the future. I’m 25 years old never been in love , never had a boyfriend. Men just have nothing to offer nowadays. Why get married?

      On the other hand , men can’t have kids unless they hire a surrogate to carry his baby for 9 months then go through torturous labor. Can cost up to 60-80k

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    • Twalli
      Twalli
      +1 y

      @nelly83 I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 27. She was 32.5. I don't think women lose value as they age, unless you want kids and then you do. Men don't really have the same problem. They can procreate far longer than women. Seeing as I don't want kids, however, women don't lose value as they age. It means that she's probably more okay with not having kids, which means my vascetomy won't be a turn off.

      Reply
    • Heartonmysleeve88
      Heartonmysleeve88
      +1 y

      That is actually not true. Men decline in fertility after 40 - and if you are a smoker, drinker, wear tight pants and have a generally unhealthy lifestyle, even more so. Men definitely do expire after 40

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    • Twalli
      Twalli
      +1 y

      They can reverse it quite easily. Once a woman hits menapouse, she's done.

      Reply
    • Rebeccalions
      Rebeccalions
      +1 y

      @Twalli actually older sperm is linked with autism

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @heartonmysleeve88 that’s true. There are a lot of guys out there who lose fertility by 40. Some start showing signs of infertility by 35. When he has a hard time ejaculating or if he takes too long to ejaculate. A mans early aging also can be a sign of infertility. Vegetarians or smokers tend to also suffer from increased risk of male infertility as they age

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    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @Twalli infertility can’t be reversed easily. Male infertility has to do with his genetics and how he has taken care of himself during his younger days.

      And plus , women hit menopause at 50. By that age, I doubt anyone would have enough energy and mental stamina to handle a newborn. you also don’t want to be working until 75 to send that kid to college.

      Having kids before 40 is really a blessing in disguise. As child rearing gets increasingly difficult as a parent ages. Those who have kids earlier tend to be able to enjoy their last years living carefree too.

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    • Hunter7754
      Hunter7754
      +1 y

      @nelly83 Men are 'confident' because we have to be in order to be seen as desirable.

      Guarantee you most of these 'overconfident' men are not confident. But when push comes to shove, overconfidence in general is seen as more attractive to women than lack of confidence.

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    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @Hunter7754 of course I know that. Men are no more confident than women.

      Reply
    • Twalli
      Twalli
      +1 y

      @Rebeccalions I am aware, seeing as I have it. Coincidentally, the #1 reason I don't want kids.

      Reply
    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
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      You did NOT just diss one of my most favorite characters in movie history! Donkey and Dragon are the equivalent of an average joe who is able to talk an assassin for hire girl into not killing him, as assistance to his friend to stay alive, and turn it into a relationship. LITERALLY by just talking. No real skill. No money. Just talking it up.

      HE IS A BADASS! (yes, I meant for that to be a pun :) )

      Shrek couldn't have done shit without Donkey for that AND the fact that he was the only one who knew where the castle was.

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    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      +1 y

      @nelly83
      Somebody once told me girls aren't gonna call me
      I just have way too much arrogance
      She was looking kind of dumb with her fingernails and fake bum
      and hours putting makeup on her face and forehead

      Well, the lies start coming and they don't stop coming
      Fed herself beans and still I ain't judgiin'
      Didn't make sense not to get bedroom fun
      Tinder doesn't make ya smart, it makes ya dumb
      So much to swipe, so many men to see
      So what's wrong with fucking a really sexy deadbeat?
      I don't judge if that's how ya go
      You'll never shine if you don't give a blow

      Hey now, you're a liar
      Get your tinder on, go "slay"
      Hey now, you're a onlyfans star
      Get the show on, get paid
      And all that glitters is gold
      Only lonely at the baaaaaaar when you're oooooooold

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @errorgoodnameunfound u gotta realize a lotta shit u hear and see in media is pure crap. You can’t find love at bars, just sex. You cannot effectively find a girlfriend by handing out business cards with ur name on it at the corner of the street. Showing your money will only attract gold digger wives. Showing cleavage won’t help you find love , it’ll only get you one night stands and perverts. Not all men have better dating prospects after 30

      Let’s get real here.

      Reply
    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      +1 y

      @nelly83
      the dating world is a cool place, and they say it gets colder
      You're havin' fun now, wait 'til you get older
      and also, a lotta men beg to differ
      Judging by the hypocrisy in your painted picture
      For men not making bank is like a sin
      But for makeup and looks "worship women"?
      divorse rate is on fire, young women easily get bored
      but dating an older woman is like leasing a used ford

      Hey now, you're a liar
      Get your tinder on, go "slay"
      Hey now, you're a onlyfans star
      Get the show on, get paid
      And all that glitters is gold
      Only lonely at the baaaaaaar when you're oooooooold

      (making parody lyrics for this is NOT easy OK, I TRIED to make it relevant, but kinda hard when you didn't get the reference to smash mouth in the first place -_-)

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @errorgoodnameunfound Guys exit their prime by 35. Pulling out your walllet and spending on women will only get you a gold digger wife , not love.

      Get off the Internet stereotypes and date in the real world.

      I wouldn’t date a 35 yr old guy even if he has money. I’ll just use him until I find a younger man to spend the rest of my life with

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @errorgoodnameunfound If a woman 20 years younger is dating an old guy, I can guarantee you that 95 percent of the time that she’s just after his money. He refuses to believe that she’s not after his money cus he’s in denial about his age.

      I wouldn’t date a man I’m not physically attracted to. Most women won’t. Unless she’s using you for your money. Just like you’re using her for sex. # realworldfacts

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @errorgoodnameunfound I went on a “date “ with a 47 yr old man who looked terrible. He was so old ugly and saggy. I only went on the date to use him for money. I had no romantic intentions with an ugly old man. He had a lot of money. Successful chairman investor , probably has millions.

      But I couldn’t kiss him at the end of the date. I’ve been on many dates , I’ve never felt so uncomfortable in my life. It was so unnerving. I was afraid of his touching me. I was afraid to touch him. Him kissing me on the mouth felt like utter rape.

      I never saw him again. He wasn’t looking for romance too. Just a hot young chick to bang.

      Reply
    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      +1 y

      @nelly83 Another round? fine...

      A girl once asked
      Could I spare some change for gas?
      "I need to get myself away from this place"
      I said, "Yep, what a concept
      I could use a little fuel myself
      And we could all use a little change"
      Well, the years start coming and they don't stop coming
      fuck soceity's rules and got amazon prime running
      Didn't make sense to rely on a woman for fun
      I feel really smart even if ya think Im dumb
      So much to do, so much to see
      and what's wrong with a doll in the sheets?
      Im never know if I don't try (try!)
      Not a simp, so find another guy :)

      Hey now, you're a user
      You admitted it, so go "slay"
      Hey now, you're a gold digger
      Get the shovel on, get paid
      And all that glitters is gold
      YOU'LL BE SINGLE AND BITTER AT THE BAAAAAAAAR
      WHEN YOU"RE OOOOOOOLD!
      :D

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @errorgoodnameunfound lol you’re gonna be single and bitter when you’re old too. I have a shit ton of 30 something yr old guys who have absolutely no dating action , desperate for wives. they have money but I still wouldn’t date them. Cus they’re OLD AND UGLY!! 😆

      i only use old rich grandpas for money, but I marry the handsome young man , muscular , strong and fast as my husband. I need to have sex ya know? How am I supposed tO have kids with a man whose touch I am terrified of? That’s a great way not to have kids

      Reply
    • Rebeccalions
      Rebeccalions
      +1 y

      @nelly83 lol omg I love you!!

      Reply
    • errorgoodnameunfound
      errorgoodnameunfound
      +1 y

      @nelly83 Dude... it was all a joke. I don't really mean much of it OK? It is HARD to make parody lyrics. Trust me. It was jusyt a fun poke, not meant to be taken serious.. Ever heard of the song all star? Hello?

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @errorgoodnameunfound joke or not. Nobody cares. Just telling people what reality is

      Reply
    • 6suejsjsj
      6suejsjsj
      +1 y

      @nelly83 of course we can have kids without a women. Wtf.

      Most men don't even want kids.

      Reply
    • 6suejsjsj
      6suejsjsj
      +1 y

      @Heartonmystleeve88
      Don't be such a pathetic butthurt bitch.

      Reply
    • 6suejsjsj
      6suejsjsj
      +1 y

      @nelly83 aww poor sad feminist. Lol. You need help.

      Reply
    • 6suejsjsj
      6suejsjsj
      +1 y

      @nelly83 lol, so you are a sad, angry incel. Seriously get professional help before it gets worse.
      It's not men's fault that you are unnatractive and or socially incapable.

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @6suejsjsj no you cannot have kids without a woman. You can’t make a kid unless you find a woman who is willing to carry the baby for 9 months then to through labor for you. No woman would do it for you unless she is married or in a relationship.

      I can easily buy some sperm or have a one night stand with a guy.

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @6suejsjsj even if you do have a kid with your girlfriend, she will take custody of the child. And you will only have visitation rights maybe 1 time every two weeks

      Reply
    • 6suejsjsj
      6suejsjsj
      +1 y

      @Rebeccalions you love sexist, incels. Lol women need to be hold accountable for their sexism.

      You are all so sad and pathetic.

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @6suejsjsj I’ve had way too many guys who fell for me , whom I never returned feelings back. You’re the last person that any sane woman would want to have kids with. Don’t worry about me having kids, I’ll def have kids. Worry about yourself never having kids cus no woman respects a douche like u

      Reply
    • 6suejsjsj
      6suejsjsj
      +1 y

      @nelly83 yeah great I don't want kids lol.
      Do you actually already believe the stories that you make up yourself?

      Reply
    • nelly83
      nelly83
      +1 y

      @6suejsjsj doesn’t matter if you want kids or don’t want kids , no sane woman would want you. Most men are trash today

      Reply
    • Rebeccalions
      Rebeccalions
      +1 y

      @6suejsjsj oh, we're the sexists? LMAO you guys objectify us, discriminate us based on she and weight, then call us whores

      Reply
    • 6suejsjsj
      6suejsjsj
      +1 y

      @Rebeccalions God Rebecca are you 12?

      Reply
  • 6suejsjsj
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    +1 y

    Just your typical dumb sexist female.

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    • TallJess
      TallJess
      +1 y

      Typical of men to make things about you!

      Reply
  • asshole_
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    says the woman who is "now hating men"

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    • Heartonmysleeve88
      Heartonmysleeve88
      +1 y

      Sweetie I just said that I am starting to hate "men" - you are way outside the gender so this doesn't apply to you ;)

      Reply
    • asshole_
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      +1 y

      what are you on about?

      Reply
  • Katrina11200
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    Agreed trying to hard.

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  • Vero4567
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    Very well said

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    • 6suejsjsj
      6suejsjsj
      +1 y

      Haha already counting?

      Reply
  • Maninderdeepsharma
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    Thanks for sharing this.

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  • Fuentes
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    862 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

    im not really attracted to women past 30

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  • Thecrazylucaone
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    Amazing I agree with everything you said

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    Nice take...

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  • Gentlemanhard
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    oh gosh, i really hate feminist posts

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    Great I've got 6 months till I'm passed it

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    Jeez girls
    Start respecting yourselves!

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    Amen.

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    Great take!

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