Like getting beaten up, having the police called on them, losing their jobs and many bad things for merely talking to a woman that's not into him.
Point 3. It's not about comparision against others. It's about lack of accomplishment (I said that about point one), That is cause of male depression. Also, when they are told that women like rich men with fast cars (some shallow women reject men for absence of such). That's why some men.feel that hold such attitudes
For most rejection is part an parcel of approaching women. And acknowledge that he won't get every woman he's attracted to.
The problem is they WAY they get rejected. Not many women say no or decline a man's offer civilly. Fewer still will offer good constructive crticism. Many respond in a rude and obnoxious manner.
Some guys have been told negative things about themselves and think he's good enough.
Point 1, you say (physical) excercise enhances a man's confidence. Not really. all that does is make him fitter. What really is enhances a man's confidence BIG TIME. Are RESULTS (as in winning), APTITUDE/ABILITY (being good at something) and ACCOMPLISHMENTS (things he's achieved in own right). Take a sporting event look how the winner behaves in relation to runner-up. They are both fit.
Anyone who attacks Ms Honey Bee about this article. Although I fully OVERSTAND your anger (powered by misinformation, lies and avariciousness) I'd say BE RESPECTFUL TO HER. She's been honest about herself. She's answered a question that perplexed many guys from a FEMALE'S PERSPECTIVE (that proved she was listening and understood a man's standpoint).
GUYS TAKE NOTE of what she's saying. This puts us on the RIGHT ROAD to getting a girlfriend or wife.
I've read your article. THANKS for an INFORMATIVE and VERITABLE answer about FEMALE attraction. What I find very disappointing very is that in main women WON'T tell you simple things like this, For example a "poor" poise could make a HUGE difference between whether or not he gets a date/girlfriend. WHY, does it take 20, 30 or 40 years to discover something that only takes 15 seconds to say.
I can't tell if I'm confident or cocky. I know a lot of women have said that they don't like cocky guys but some of those same women say that I'm okay because I'm cocky but I'm funny. I guess it's where I do this thing where I self-aggrandize and self-deprecate simultaneously or consequently when I'm talking to women.
Rubbish completely rubbish. Women only seem to want good looking guys with big bank accounts. Like some said if a poor guy started acting confident would he get women? No why because he's poor and most likely ugly. I'm always getting ignored by women even when I do have this fake made up word confidence. Why? Because I'm not a 10 with lots of money coming out of my butt. You should go around your city show random women two pics one that a good looking guy and the other as an ugly guy & see who
I think #3 is probably the most important of these. Self acceptance is the key. The moment I truly overcame my shyness was the same moment I genuinely stopped caring what anyone (especially women) thought of me & decided to unapologetically go my own way in life.
Well, like I said in the last paragraph, these are generalizations and obviously won't apply to everyone since everyone is different. But speaking for myself and *most* girls, I can't stand cocky guys. Thanks for your feedback though:)
One exception to number 3: don't hold eye contact for an excessive amount of time--like more than 5 minute periods. Look down at the floor occasionally for a few seconds, but then go right back into holding eye contact
again, very well written and this should totally be published, it would interest a lot of readers and writers, and help them become more knowledgeable about what to expect from the mind of a above average girl
I feel that confidence goes hand in hand with style. I would have put this in the style category because confidence is all about the individual and not who he or she wishes to attract
I'm challenging the idea that confidence has much of an effect at all though. You are stating that women like confidence, I'm saying they aren't that bothered at all. Its perfectly valid here.
So you just make excuses for everything? That explains a lot. So typical. If you won't actively seek to make improvements in yourself and TRY then there's no point in complaining about being single.
I've found that these simple things, like maintaining good posture, are the important things to the good women, not flaunting your car or your wallet...
smiling isn't cliche I think its actually an art form, and I find its contagious except to for those people that are exceedingly depressing and negative
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Point two, cont.
Like getting beaten up, having the police called on them, losing their jobs and many bad things for merely talking to a woman that's not into him.
Point 3. It's not about comparision against others. It's about lack of accomplishment (I said that about point one), That is cause of male depression. Also, when they are told that women like rich men with fast cars (some shallow women reject men for absence of such). That's why some men.feel that hold such attitudes
Point 2 (approaching women)
For most rejection is part an parcel of approaching women. And acknowledge that he won't get every woman he's attracted to.
The problem is they WAY they get rejected. Not many women say no or decline a man's offer civilly. Fewer still will offer good constructive crticism. Many respond in a rude and obnoxious manner.
Some guys have been told negative things about themselves and think he's good enough.
Also, some guys have gotten into a lot of trouble
An 11 out 10 article some issues.
"How to gain self confidence"
Point 1, you say (physical) excercise enhances a man's confidence. Not really. all that does is make him fitter. What really is enhances a man's confidence BIG TIME. Are RESULTS (as in winning), APTITUDE/ABILITY (being good at something) and ACCOMPLISHMENTS (things he's achieved in own right). Take a sporting event look how the winner behaves in relation to runner-up. They are both fit.
NOWHERE in this article she any implicit or explicit assertions. That:
- dateless men are losers
- nice guys are liars, con artists, sympathy seekers
- men feel that are nice to women do so because really deceitful predators who feel that are entitled to sex. (tsssh)
- men can read women's minds and are not honest about.
Anyone who attacks Ms Honey Bee about this article. Although I fully OVERSTAND your anger (powered by misinformation, lies and avariciousness) I'd say BE RESPECTFUL TO HER. She's been honest about herself. She's answered a question that perplexed many guys from a FEMALE'S PERSPECTIVE (that proved she was listening and understood a man's standpoint).
GUYS TAKE NOTE of what she's saying. This puts us on the RIGHT ROAD to getting a girlfriend or wife.
SO THANK HER for this.
Hi Honey Bee,
I've read your article. THANKS for an INFORMATIVE and VERITABLE answer about FEMALE attraction. What I find very disappointing very is that in main women WON'T tell you simple things like this, For example a "poor" poise could make a HUGE difference between whether or not he gets a date/girlfriend. WHY, does it take 20, 30 or 40 years to discover something that only takes 15 seconds to say.
I can't tell if I'm confident or cocky. I know a lot of women have said that they don't like cocky guys but some of those same women say that I'm okay because I'm cocky but I'm funny. I guess it's where I do this thing where I self-aggrandize and self-deprecate simultaneously or consequently when I'm talking to women.
Rubbish completely rubbish. Women only seem to want good looking guys with big bank accounts. Like some said if a poor guy started acting confident would he get women? No why because he's poor and most likely ugly. I'm always getting ignored by women even when I do have this fake made up word confidence. Why? Because I'm not a 10 with lots of money coming out of my butt. You should go around your city show random women two pics one that a good looking guy and the other as an ugly guy & see who
I think #3 is probably the most important of these. Self acceptance is the key. The moment I truly overcame my shyness was the same moment I genuinely stopped caring what anyone (especially women) thought of me & decided to unapologetically go my own way in life.
Well, like I said in the last paragraph, these are generalizations and obviously won't apply to everyone since everyone is different. But speaking for myself and *most* girls, I can't stand cocky guys. Thanks for your feedback though:)
One exception to number 3: don't hold eye contact for an excessive amount of time--like more than 5 minute periods. Look down at the floor occasionally for a few seconds, but then go right back into holding eye contact
again, very well written and this should totally be published, it would interest a lot of readers and writers, and help them become more knowledgeable about what to expect from the mind of a above average girl
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I feel that confidence goes hand in hand with style. I would have put this in the style category because confidence is all about the individual and not who he or she wishes to attract
I'm challenging the idea that confidence has much of an effect at all though. You are stating that women like confidence, I'm saying they aren't that bothered at all. Its perfectly valid here.
So you just make excuses for everything? That explains a lot. So typical. If you won't actively seek to make improvements in yourself and TRY then there's no point in complaining about being single.
I've found that these simple things, like maintaining good posture, are the important things to the good women, not flaunting your car or your wallet...
smiling isn't cliche I think its actually an art form, and I find its contagious except to for those people that are exceedingly depressing and negative
"ambitious, ... career-oriented"... sound a bit like gold digging to me.
A man can be ambitious in many ways, but career-oriented is focued solely on job and money.
haha well then that's good! I'm sure more men wish they were more naturally confident :) It does come easier for some people more than others.