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Wow that's something different. Writing a take on the response of previous take. It was very insightful and of course helpful.
PS: Those anon girls were... (you know)
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Mate, your take was good, insightful and I do not disagree
Sometimes, however, there are things in people, things that are unexpected that will happen when you love them, show them there is more to things than they ever knew, more to life than a solitary life, so sometimes, just maybe, its worth the fight
Inner Bonding by Margaret Paul something I definitely recommend to everyone. If you love yourself already this method can still better your life in so many other aspects. Like above be the one to take responsibility for your own happiness and pain. Be the one who is determined to love yourself and nurture your insecurities. Theses people who a damaged a simply misguided and yes need to take the time to evaluate their situation. If they aren't willing to heal their self but expect you to be that person to then try a different approach take the time to understand how they are feeling share your love and happiness with them not putting yourself out on a limb but showing that you can be present without anger they may be causing. If they still continue to act how they were then it's safe to say you've done everything you can and it's fair to leave that relationship. Give love as a gift no a reward.
Give love as a gift not a reward*
if you want to see man, see women, and if you want to see women, then see a man. it's the same coin. if you want to see the girls how damaged, meet their parents. Maybe you want to play a good parents or fear of become a bad parent that's why you end up with damaged girl?
I have been through a bunch of rejections and girls choosing other guys over me days after telling they where not interested in dating anyone. So for now some might say that it's kinda weird that I don't want to hurt anyone but just mend a broken soul so that they can find value In their life. that's how I get over my bad experiences with love.
Your attitude to damaged women just makes me want to give up on dating forever. I'll move out on my own and get 10 dogs.
@Hannah591, he is not saying they don't deserve love. He thinks they do, he is just saying they should try to improve themselves before getting in a relationship.
@ManuelMarquez Thank you! People REALLY need to comprehend what they're reading first before they leave a comment.
Exactly @RodneySaySo.
You are 100% correct, sadly I am drawn to damaged people. I have a compulsion of sorts that makes me help any and all people I come in contact with that need help. And of I have the power to help them I do. Luckily this has never turned into dating just helping.
You gotta love how women try to spin it "well, you're not *man* enough for a messed up woman!"
maybe a "real" man also loves grabbing handfuls of broken glass with his bare hands.
RodneySaySo, though I had a bit negative impression on your last topic,
reading this one convinced me that you are 100% right.
Men shouldn't be therapists to the fucking damaged psycho girls.
Its ok, my friend. I'm just glad you took the time to look at it from a different perspective. Exactly. You are not a therapists. You are someone who should get equal benefits in a relationship.
Yes, those idiot girls should not expect us to be scapegoats or some usable commodity.
Thanks.
So, be honest, I won't be angry if you say yes. I was repeatedly sexually abused when I was a young girl, which makes me need more time than other girls do to "warm up" to others and it takes me longer to trust people. Is this considered the type of damaged girl that guys should never ever date? I'm just wondering.
Depends. Do you let it dominate and shape the relationship, and do you make it his job to "warm you up" and make you trust him?
If the answer to this is "Yes" then you're a broken girl.
But if you do your part and genuinely try to make things work, even if it means taking it extra slow, then I'll just consider you a girl with baggage. And baggage is something everyone got
That's my answer at least
I agree there is a big difference between having baggage, and being broken. It is how the person deals with their issues, that determines the difference. Some women with your history could be broken, while others might not be broken.
@Anonymous make sure you read the responses that you have received. dartmaul15 and heavengift2girls said some good things.
Im a damaged dude, so at least if I find a damaged girl, we have something in common;) we can build wonderful rapport from there.
There's nothing wrong with that, my friend. I support that scenario to the fullest.
this is insightful and even though i'm a girl I have learned a lot from this. It was also very very funny. thank you
Rodney rules. If they can't finish eating the cake, then don't effin' get it.
My experiences say you can get more sex from a damaged girl also she will not leave you even if you cheat on her, she will do everything you want from her. Its not bad.
I don't know about that, my friend. Once she gets pregnant, you're fucked. LOL
amazing how young boys think they have real answers for life drama. Keep trying man.
Amazing how old men act as though theyve possessed great wisdom with age, but offer very little of it to the world.
Oh wow, was that sarcasm? Amazing, I am so shocked! Maybe one day you'll really learn how to use it. In the meantime please keep up with the great job you're doing, it's mind blowing!
😁 😂 Why thank you! Be sure to check out my next topic!
can't wait for it! Yay!
He's right though, I dated a broken girl. The sit did not work even though I was different than the other ones
You sound like you know your shit. You follow Elliott Hulse by any chance?
Thank you, friend. No I don't but if that's someone who you recommend then I will be sure to look him up.
Lmao at your face. Brah... had me feelin like I'm watching a Trey Songs music video :-P
Nice!!! "Kick you back into a pool of shitty water"
dude... you're broke looking at all this crazy talk.. you're pretty damaged.